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TTC After Pregnancy Loss Thread 22.

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HidCat · 08/06/2018 20:30

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A thread for all those who have suffered the loss of a much wanted baby. Affectionately know as the penguin huddle.

We'll start with a roll call as there have been so many new members lately and so many success stories that I think we've all lost track.

HidCat
Age 35
TTC #2
DS 5
MC at 11wks in January
Cycle 3 post MC, trying since August 2017

🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧

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Cakelaur · 08/06/2018 21:25

Just checking in so I can keep up with alla you lovely amazing penguins!! 😘

KeefBurtain · 08/06/2018 21:23

Age 37
Ttc #4
Dd14, ds13, ds 11 months
Mc April 25th @ 11+3 (baby died at 7 weeks)
Cd 12

-Tive opk for the last 3 days but line getting darker - does that mean I’m getting closer to a +tive?

sweetpea0318 · 08/06/2018 21:18

Evening all,

Joining in with the new thread!

Sweatpea0318
38 y/o
TTC #2
DD 2.5
MC at 6 weeks @ end of March
Cycle 1 since mc - ttc since Sept 2017

Big hugs to all those struggling at the moment xxx

Jessabean · 08/06/2018 21:09

Hi I had just been about to check in on the old thread & saw we're on a new one so thought id joint the roll call!

Age: 29
TTC: number 1
Mc hx: Natural MC 1 late Dec 2017 at 8weeks. MMC MC2 at 12 week scan end of March 2018.
Been trying ish since Oct 2017.
Had one unsuccessful month of trying 2nd cycle post mc and now having to take an interval until August/maybe July if I'm lucky as OH is working away 🙁. But hovering as this really is a great huddle 🐧

So sorry @Pampl3m0usse your head sounds foul! Poor you. 🐧
I saw a car licence plate that was personalised with JKS in it today- literally made my day! 😂 Had to share. Getting ready to go on holiday this weekend and have been to GO to organise some counseling as have been feeling my negative days have been going on a bit too much now. So already feeling much more positive at the mo!

Blondcat · 08/06/2018 21:08

Place marking here
Blondcat
Age 36
Ttc #1
Mc at 6 weeks in April
Cycle 2 since mc trying since Sept 2017

Lilimum4 · 08/06/2018 21:03

I'm here
Lilimum4
Age 36
TTC #3
Cycle 3 since mmc march 2018

Lovewinemorethanhusband · 08/06/2018 21:02

Checking in
Lovewinemorethanhusband
Age 37!
Ttc3
Ds5, dd3
MMC Feb 2018
Cycle #4
Trying not to be obsessive about opks, Cwm, poas but failing miserably

DaisyMay25 · 08/06/2018 20:52

Checking in!

DaisyMay25
Age 27
TTC #1
MC at six weeks in September
Cycle 10 post mc, trying to conceive since May 2017

Boboelephant · 08/06/2018 20:51

Thanks for setting up new thread @HidCat 😀
Oh @Pampl3m0usse so sorry. That sounds awful, I'm so sorry. We are all here for hand holding and virtual hugs.

Boboelephant
Age: 35
TTC #2
DS 2
MMC at 10 weeks in December 2017. Ectopic rupture in November 2016.
Cycle 5 post MC. Trying since September 2016.

Pampl3m0usse · 08/06/2018 20:39

Marking my place...

Pample3m0usse
Age 34
TTC 4
DD7, DS5, DD2.
MC at 10 weeks in May
In my 1st cycle post MC

I've been lurking as returned to work on Tuesday following my MMC. To say its been horrendous (for a number of reasons) is an understatement. I'm a nursery teacher and fortunately the very lovely parents of the children I teach have been much much nicer to me than the rest of my staff. My head has been nothing short of vile, wanted the sickness recorded as 'stress' rather than pregnancy and then started wittering about disciplinary procedures (I've only had time off for the MC despite my Mum's suicide and Gran's death this year).

Anyway may need some extra handholding as have been sobbing since I got home and sure AF is about to make itself known early next week (currently 9dpo and stupidly tested with a CB early test and got a predictable -ve).
xx

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