TTC After Pregnancy Loss Thread 22.

Thank you for all of the kind wishes.

I really needed it ... BFN this morning at 10dpo but I'm pretty sure I'm out anyway (acne and sobby - the latter might just be down to work though!). Anyday88 looks like we'll be near cycle buddies next cycle.

Lovely to see so many of you trying for number three and four!

xxxxx

Hi Everyone, marking my place

Anyday88
Age 30
Ttc #3 since March 2018
Dd1: 3 Dd2: 17 Months
Mc April 2018 at 5 weeks 1 day
12dpo 1st cycle since MC tested this morning but bfn and feeling like I am out now as had my positive tests by this point in previous pregnancies.

Just marking my place - apologies for being AWOL....it’s been a tough month!
Age: 34
TTC #1
Missed MC at 12weeks in January
Trying since July 2017
Cycle 5 since MC

Cleozeta
Age 41 (boooo)
Ttc #3
DS7 DD5
Mmc in may at 10 weeks
Awaiting 1st af next week

@Yukka thank you for the none judging!
Yes, it’s used primarily for delay but I’ve been using it for months (as recommended by gynae) to try and regulate every month without having BC. I have taken every month from day 20-30 which induced AF day 33/34. I don’t know what my “natural” cycle is because the first time I would’ve had one we conceived 😳

Sorry posted too soon I am 29

Marking my place also

TTC #2 since October 2017
MMC back in February at 8 weeks
On cycle 4 but not sure how accurate that is as didn't pass any tissue until the end of April nearly 8 weeks after MC, despite AF being reasonably regular after MC

Trying not to be obsessive with ovulation and baby making and glad I have this for some support, thanks@HidCat

Yellow daffodils86
Age 31
TTC # 1
MC at 6w4d
Cycle 3 post MC
Trying since Jan 2018

(Looks wierd written down, like its not about me)

I think im 1dpo, AF due the day we fly off on holiday, packing some FRER!
Hoping countdown to holiday will distract me from tww.

@Pampl3m0usse 🤝 cant believe people ate so heartless and cruel. Sorry you feel so sad, i wish things were easier for you.

@KeefBurtain Yes it does, +ve is very very close!

@littleemma1 Ah congrats, im coming up
To my first wedding anniversary.

Age 42
MC at 13 weeks in April -baby passed at 9 weeks. Natural miscarriage hence reason for long delay in waiting for baby to come out x Found out baby had no heartbeat at 11 weeks x
TTC #4
CD12 after first AF after MC.
Flashy smiley face on digital OPK for three days now . Baby dance at CD9 & CD10. Hoping for a baby dance tonight but DH , although on board, is very worried about another MC and FIL is very ill so mind elsewhere...
Fx for all on this thread for BFP's xx

@littleemma nothing to judge you for :) just googled that drug looks like it's supposed to delay period which I guess might not be ideal for first after mc. But, you were 5w, my first two at 5 weeks next cycle was practically unaffected both times, maybe 2 days out but not weeks. We are all different but could be worth waiting. If af arrived in two weeks you would then be jks for honeymoon?!

Depends on your cycle x

@Yukka 07th July so less than a month to go!!!
Shouldve said (dont judge though, Im eager to get back on it now I know its possible) just over 2 weeks since it started (23rd May) and stopped bleeding 28th May so not long ago.

I am tempted, I think I might have to work out dates again just to be sure as I really dont want to fill my body with any more hormones, particularly Nortiserone if I can help it as I think thats what caused the miscarriage, the severe/sudden drop in progesterone.

@Pampl3m0usse sorry you had such a rough time xx
@Jessabean Im pleased your counselling already seems to be working! They offered me some at the docs but I said no for now xx

Can I join you all?
TTC #1
31
MMC in Feb at 6 weeks
Trying since December 2017

Absolutely paranoid that the surgical management of the MMC I had has damaged something - got pregnant quite quickly before!

Trying not to be a crazy person about it all so nice to join some likeminded people!

When do you get married @littleemma? And how many weeks post mc are you?
Honestly - I'd be tempted to bring on that AF then make the absolute most of your wedding experience. You deserve to remember it as an amazing time - and to give your mind some time away enjoying something else.

However I am a control freak :)

Hi ladies just checking in! & sending hugs to everyone having a tough time

Placing my mark on this one and will try my hardest to keep up :D

Littleemma1
TTC #1
26
About to get married!!! (had to get this in there, its what is getting me through)
Natural MC @ 5 weeks after finding out at 4w5days.
Severe PCOS on right ovary, diagnosed February this year with little likelihood of conceiving naturally. Been trying since May2017.

Trying not to obsess over OPK's and I'm no good at tracking CM so thats not gonna happen, BBT not possible as I'm restless and dont get the same amount of sleep every night.

Having a total conundrum over what to do RE: 1st AF post MC. They say AF is due around 4-6w (assuming you dont conceive!) after MC but this would fall right at the time of the honeymoon! :/ so I have some Nortiserone which I could start taking on Monday for 10 days which will induce first AF OR wait til day before wedding and take it to delay period over wedding/honeymoon. OH and I are kind of agreeing that I will do some OPK's and if I dont get a STRONG +ve then I will use them over wedding/honeymoon time to stop period/bring first one on! Sorry for the waffle.

Tefiti2
Age 24
TTC #2
DC 4
MC 1 at 5 weeks in Jan 18
MC 2 at 5 weeks in April 18

Currently 4dpo and feeling positive! Sorry to anyone struggling - we can all understand

@pamplemousse and @pancakes think we were on December 18 thread together. Keep positive - we'll get there xx

Just had chance to catch up. Thanks for new thread, checking in...
Age 39
Ttc#1
Mc 5w September
Mc 5w December
Mc 10w May
Referral appt 12 July
Coping mechanisms: good books, good wine and great shoes

....and this thread :)

Nothing on opks yet. About to start dtd next week in case of little miracle :)

Married
Age 30
Ttc since Feb
Trying for first baby
1 pregnancy ended in mmc at just under 11 weeks May 2018.

Got a good feeling for you this cycle zarala. :)

Checking in
Ttc no. 3
DC 8 and 5
Age 42 - the award nobody wants, oldest member of the huddle
Had loss last year at 14 weeks

Thinking her Ttc journey is coming to an end but trying to remain hopeful ......
Waiting for AF with some big cramps tonight!

Hello all! Marking place on roll call

strawberrye
Age 27
TTC #1
2x natural MC at 5-6 weeks, 1st in January 2018, 2nd in April 2018
Cycle 3 post 2nd MC
TTC since October 2017

Hey ladies
Checking in

36
TTC #2
DD 19months old
MC1- August 2017-5w6days
MC2 -MMC Dec 2017 discovered at 12 week scan after seeing lovely heartbeat at 7 weeks. Died at 9w4days
MC3-MMC March 2018 discovered at 8 week scan after seeing strong heartbeat at 6 weeks. Died 6w5days

Took 3 month break, seeing Dr Shehata and starting his treatment plan this week
Cycle #1 just starting FW!

Lots of hugs too all 🐧

Checking in:

KnitKitty
Age 30
TTC #1
TTC since Dec '17
MMC and ERPC in March (following 2 failed attempts at medical management)
CP last week
Cycle 2 since MC
currently CD7

Currently taking a turn on the outside of the huddle because I feel like despite the CP last week I'm my old self again and feeling a lot more positive about life in general.

To those struggling (((((Big Hugs))))) I'm glad a lot of you are getting the counselling you need.

Pample3m0usse Holding your hand through this difficult time. So sorry you're going through this. Getting back to work is tough. I hope things start to get easier for you soon.

Hi all,

Just checking in!

RedRobin7
Age 29
TTC #1
Cycle #1 post MMC at 12 weeks
Been trying on and off since June '16

@L1zz13 I didn't want you to feel alone. I am pleased you have a nice counsellor. I'm not connecting with mine and it feels awkward so that doesn't help! I'm sure she's judging me. Thank you for your words of comfort. I really hope I manage to get there. I really just want to get a BFP this month so that I don't have to keep trying to persuade my DH every month. I am just so tired of it. As mentioned above, we've been trying on and off since we got married two years ago. First cycle was June 16 and now we are in 2018! We haven't been tested but my husband was quite ill back then so I think he had poor sperm. As we managed to get pregnant this January maybe we still have a chance!

I'm sorry you feel you need to take a break. I hope your DH will change his mind as he knows how much this means to you x