TTC after miscarriage Thread 21. JKS

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I just had some now brown blood... ☹ I am hoping it'll stop by Friday.

Thanks boboelephant I guess I am CD2 then. I wish my OH was as in to the enjoyable part of TTC. It's hard to get him to do it 3 times in the same week, let alone 12 days in a row! I am in awe. This HAS to be your month, surely?!?

Weasledee Good luck for Thursday! xxx

Good luck for tomorrow Cakelaur. Will be thinking of you. :)

Pancakes7 I personally waited until I got a negative just because I didn't want to confuse myself trying to work out if I had a new pregnancy or residual HCG from my previous one if my period didn't show up. I got my negative 4 weeks after ERPC and AF started CD38.

Maydot that's great the AF arrived. Good luck in this new cycle if you're trying again straight away. :)

Sorry for your loss Misbit1. I don't really enjoy the emotional roller coaster of TTC either. Good luck with it. We're here when you need us.

Hidcat are you going to test tomorrow as planned then?

L1zz13 Good luck with the seduction! Have fun!

@HidCat that made me laugh out loud!! Dh heard...so I told him. He did find it funny. I think I'll take a test tomorrow and cross my fingers.

Hidcat I love your idea re tests! Ha!

@Pancakes7 just get the least sensitive test you can find so you can start quicker lol. I think the digital ones are the least sensitive.

Thanks dh wants to wait for a negative test first.... damn. Will test again Friday. Fx! I wanna get trying!!!

@Boboelephant so sorry for such a slow response but yay it's looking fab!! I almost think keep doing if you can one or two more days and then am sure ov will be confirmed either today or tomorrow? Just think to be on the safe side keep going until ff confirms it, because it could be a longer cycle like you had a couple of cycles back? And you'd be so annoyed if you stopped just a tiny bit too soon. But wow ff is going to give you tons of points for your jks!! How you feeling? (Other than knackered!!) 😂

@MisBit1, so sorry to hear about your loss. A lot of your story is similar to mine, it’s heartbreaking. You have done the right thing joining this thread, these girls are great!
I hope you start to feel better and AF shows up soon xx

@HidCat so sorry you're out! Or reading your update - you may not be out!! Fx for you xx But your DH seems to be looking forward to another month of baby dancing !!
@DaisyMay25 , I also told my hubby to the marathon session @Boboelephant seems to be having and he too liked scared!!
@Cakelaur you deserve to be an emotional pregnant mess! Where did you get the dopler from?
@Pancakes7 if you're not bleeding then is just start trying! No harm in having no some loving!!! X
@Maydot good luck for this month! I waited about 33 days after MC for first AF. It it was a lot lighter , lasted 4 days but very light on the last 3 so be prepared that it may be different to what you had before x
@MisBit1 so sorry for your loss, as I've said shove I started AF on day 33 so hopefully not long for you now and you can get your cycle back to normal to start trying again, sending you virtual hugs for your loss xx
@L1zz13 good luck seducing DH!!! I am on my best behaviour this week as we should be ovulating any day soon! Even making a homemade steak pie for tea tonight!! Xx

@L1zz13 go get him! 😜

@MisBit1 so sorry you find yourself here and very sorry to hear of your losses ❤️

@Pancakes7 we are not waiting for first AF purely because my cycles are so erratic that could be 6m time, and, I’ve heard you’re super fertile so don’t want to miss this (hopefully!) window!

@Pancakes7 I would just get on in there tbh. If you're not bleeding it's not a problem so crack on!

@Maydot who hoo!

@MisBit1 I'm so sorry to hear you've had another loss. I hope you're doing ok. We're all here for you whenever you need us. xx

@Cakelaur good luck for the scan tomorrow!

So I thought my period had kicked in this morning but it stopped again very quickly and hasn't come back. Going to give it a few more days before trying a FRER. On one hand I don't want to get my hope is but on the other it could he implantation....

@Cakelaur you had quite a late BFP on yours didn't you?

@Cakelaur how exciting! Oooo I didn't know you could get one for Home! That's worth bearing in mind for the future.

Hello. Can I join you please?
I’m 36 and have been ttc #2 since Dec 2017. DS1 is 3 in September. Had an early miscarriage/chemical pregnancy at the beginning of January this year at 5 weeks and then fell pregnant again in February. Had some light spotting start on 23rd April and was seen by the EPU on the 25th. I knew when the sonographer didn’t say anything that it wasn’t going to be good news. I found the hospital a bit unhelpful they wouldn’t say I was going to miscarry even though I knew that was the case as there was no way my dates were out and they’d admitted they couldn’t find a heartbeat. They sent us away with an appointment for 10 days later to double check and said we’d discuss options then. The night before my second scan I started miscarrying naturally and ended up in A&E when the pain amped up. The gynae consultant confirmed I was miscarrying and asked if I was happy for her to remove a blockage in my cervix which she thought would ease the pain. After she said she’d removed the pregnancy. My scan later on confirmed the mmc was complete, I should have been 12+6 but they thought the baby had stopped growing at around 6 or 7 weeks. I got a BFN on a HPT on the 15th May. I’ve not used OPKs at all this month and only BD’d a couple of times but not around when I suspect I’d have ovulated based on EWCM, think subconsciously it was a case of ‘if I don’t try I can’t fail’. I’m currently waiting for AF on day 32 now. Cycles usually 29 days and would really like things to get back to normal, although I’m not looking forward to all the emotions that go with ttc again.

Woohoooo She’s arrived!!!..... I have never been so happy to see AF!!
31 days since MMC!!! Now I can start trying to work out my cycle

@Cakelaur Congratulations on being pregnant again. When was your mc/mmc? How long has it taken to get here? Also how do you use a Doppler?

Bleeding has stopped again last 2 days. It's now 11 days since smm. Did a cheap strip test and still a very pale positive. Hating waiting. I just want to ttc now! But I guess I should wait for a negative result first? Did you all wait? I'm not waiting for af as I just want to try asap. Also I hear after mc/mmc you're super fertile? Fx I am!

@DaisyMay25 I'll defo post a pic then. I bought a Doppler for home cos I started to get nervous and heard an amazing heartbeat!! I cry every time I listen to it!! I'm such an emotional pregnant mess!!! Haha

@Boboelephant we start trying this cycle today, I told DH about your marathon and I saw a look of panic in his eyes! Four days in a row was enough for him last cycle! I really hope this is your month!

@weasledee fx for the test on Thursday!

@Cakelaur I'm looking forward to scan pictures tomorrow!! Will be thinking of you all morning

Thanks @Cakelaur!!! I hope so!! 🤞🤞🤞 Haha i said to DH this morning are you up for one more this evening just to end out the marathon? He grinned like a Cheshire cat and high fived me so number 12 is on!

Looking at my temps my temp dropped on the Saturday (day 11) so I think you're all correct

Ok ladies so that's makes me 9DPO....
Going to try and resist a frer till Thursday......