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TTC after miscarriage Thread 21. JKS

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L1zz13 · 22/05/2018 18:07

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Lilimum4 · 28/05/2018 11:43

@hayleyfx I would love to see how your doing and a massive congratulations

peachesarenom · 28/05/2018 10:35

Hi everyone, how is it all going? I'm 10 weeks now, have had some random bleeds which scare me everytime. They can't find the source so they just say, 'it's one of those things'.

DaisyMay25 · 28/05/2018 10:27

Congratulations @hayleyfx how lovely to see it in writing!

PumpkinPatch000 · 28/05/2018 10:22

Congratulations @Hayleyfx what wonderful news!

MrsLCW · 28/05/2018 10:08

Thanks @hayleyfx I am genuinely over the moon for you. I know I can't speak for everyone but I'd love to hear how your pregnancy goes! Xx

hayleyfx · 28/05/2018 09:57

Just want to say thank you to all you lovely ladies for all the support you’ve given me over the past few months!! I got a positive digital today so I’m guessing it’s ‘officially official’ now 🤣 sticking around to make sure you all get your bfp’s but certainly can stop posting if it upsets anyone? (Which I would totally understand!) Have the midwife next Thursday, fingers crossed I’m still pregnant then!

@weasledee it really does just take the once!! I hope that one time did the trick 🤞

@Blondcat hope you’re having a lovely holiday!

@MrsLCW it’s not selfish in the slightest. It’s totally natural, after what we’ve gone through it’s hard to see pregnancy/birth announcements. You can be happy for them and feel sad at the same time, it doesn’t make you selfish hun! Hugs x

DaisyMay25 · 28/05/2018 09:43

@Cakelaur I think they have around 20 there (some where hiding from the children there who were running around)
I'm 15dpo and no AF yet but I know she's on her way! Had very little brown spotting the two days, did an IC this morning which was false so I think I can count myself out this month (DH is very disappointed)

Stationcat · 28/05/2018 09:41

We started ttc on January and were lucky enough to fall pregnant on first month. Went forcprovate 8 weeks scan and baby was only measuring 6 weeks today hen went to epu 9 days later and was only measuring 5 weeks. Had surgical procedure on the Friday in March. I have since had 1 period which last 2 days and we are trying again. First month no luck and I did a pregnancy test and it said no pregnant for this month my period is due in 3 days time. I am using the ovulation test every month.

HidCat · 28/05/2018 09:32

I know, it's so hard though! A good friend of mine struggled to get pg for nearly 10 years due to her husband having issues. He dumped her and now she's got a 1 yr old and is 7/8 months pregnant with her second through a guys who's amazing for her. She's been great with me since my miscarriage too, even though she's one of those post everything baby related on Facebook types bless her.

MrsLCW · 28/05/2018 09:04

Thanks @HidCat I just don't want to become bitter with people I love... mind you we were out yesterday and there was a woman who was quite obviously pregnant carrying her 9 month old baby... and I did think "surely that's not fair 😂" . Had to remind myself you never know peoples stories, she may have had a hell of a journey to get there too! X

HidCat · 28/05/2018 08:55

@MrsLCW that's not selfish at all, Ive no doubt you're elated for your SIL so there's nothing wrong with wanting something for yourself. I've had 2 BA this week and another due anytime now (due date is tomorrow) and every picture makes me happy but sad at the same time. It's a normal emotion to feel under our circumstances. I hope you had a fab time on your hols by the way!

MrsLCW · 28/05/2018 08:28

Hi everyone, I'm away at the min so not keeping up with this thread as well as I'd like!
Sending you all well wishes, huge congrats to those with bfps and hugs to those with AFs arrival!
I'm currently 4DPO, and have almost muscular pain in my stomach, like when you've done too many sit ups (I absolutely have not done ANY sit ups to be clear 😂) and lots of creamy CM.
Spent yesterday with my sis in law who is 20 weeks and has her next scan tomorrow (which is the point when we found out Penny had died). I'm so excited to have a new niece or nephew, but I do find it tough knowing I should have been counting down to my due date (27th June) at this point. I really hope I'm pregnant by the time the baby comes in Oct, As think it may soften the blow for hubby and I. Is that selfish? X

Cakelaur · 28/05/2018 08:19

@DaisyMay25 the cat cafe looks amazing! Were there hundreds of cats?

@Boboelephant love the lantern idea. What a great way to remember. I think it's defo worth marking the day in some way. Sending hugs

Blondcat · 28/05/2018 07:22

Hey ladies still on holiday but just wanted to say congrats to all the bfp's over the last week.
So af has decided to appear on last full day aaargh couldn't wait at least one more day! I guess I should be pleased my cycles have returned to near normal after mc just hope the bleeding is not as long as last cycle over a week! With cycles around 24-26 days and bleeding of over a week makes the window to jks very short!
Fx for some more bfp's very soon x

UnicornsandRainbows1 · 27/05/2018 22:58

@Boboelephant Hiii✋ Doing okay, 20 weeks Wednesday (unless they've moved up a bit again), with scan on Friday. Bricking it but just trying to go with the flow. I don't have much control over anything, as I'm sure we're all aware of

weasledee · 27/05/2018 22:51

Thanks wellthis! So tricky whilst on holiday with others.....
Mind you our second was conceived whilst on holiday with family! Smile
My OH thinks it will be history repeating itself....... Hmm

weasledee · 27/05/2018 22:49

JKS!!!!! Grin
It's how we live our lives at the mo! Smile

Wellthisunexpected · 27/05/2018 22:48

@weasledee all 3 of my pregnancies have been as a result of a just once that month! Twice I even thought it was too early and once too late Shock

MrsGS76 · 27/05/2018 22:43

@zarala @Lilimum4 @weasledee FABULOUS MANTRA!! I'm certainly going to live by it this month fx xxx thanks xxx

zarala · 27/05/2018 22:41

@MrsGS76 haha yes Just Keep Shagging! It was coined in the last thread by one of us (sorry don't remember who!) and we adopted that phrase as our mantra!

Lilimum4 · 27/05/2018 22:38

@MrsGS76 jusk keep shagging I believe lol

MrsGS76 · 27/05/2018 22:28

@weasledee please tell me what JKS stands for as I've tried this google it to no avail x happy holidays !!! Xx

HidCat · 27/05/2018 22:10

@weasledee it only takes the once!

weasledee · 27/05/2018 21:51

Arhhhh on holiday now and the JKS is failing dramatically!!! Managed once! Fail! Confused

hayleyfx · 27/05/2018 21:48

@Lilimum4 thank you so much! I’ll keep you all updated, very nervous and excited at the same time. I hope you get your BFP soon hun!

@Boboelephant thank you!! I’m sticking around to make sure you get your BFP 😉 just like all other ladies here, I want to see you all get happy news too! Fingers crossed 🤞

@DaisyMay25 how cute 😍 hope the cat cafe helped! Which I’m sure it did 😀

@YellowDaffodils86 @zarala thank you both so much! X

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