TTC after miscarriage Thread 21. JKS

Oh @Maydot no wonder you're feeling low, you poor thing. It's really soon to be fully over what happened, first off give yourself a huuuge break. I think to a degree everyone on this thread struggles with patience so you're in good company. Try to think of it as a marathon, not a sprint, and plan lots of treats and pick me ups - it's the only way to get through it and stay sane. x

Welcome @pancakes7 and really sorry for your loss, hope you have plenty of support IRL and feel better asap, it's just horrible. Some of us here had good news again quickly, some still waiting but you'll find plenty of support and penguin smoosh here either way x

Big congrats @maxiflump1 !! So happy for you. Sends my you lots of love for your pregnancy xx

@PassTheAfterEights , I shared your hilarious 'bootie' story with my DH and warmed him the same thing will be expected from him from next weekend!

@Pancakes7 so sorry for your loss , following my MC last month, after 33ish days my period returned back to normal. I am in CD4 and feel more positive now that AF has returned (which is weird as I never thought I would feel this way about AF) However I am looking forward to the next few weeks of 'baby dancing' with DH!
At the moment I'm keeping myself busy with spring cleaning!!! Please take it easy over the next few weeks and time is really a healer!! Xxx

Thanks ladies!!... I just feel a little bit silly whinging and feeling sorry for myself when everyone is going through the same!
@maxiflump1 I was supposed to have my 16 wk midwife appointment on Tuesday, it’s just a reminder that it all went wrong.
@PassTheAfterEights I’m waiting for my first AF post MMC, it’s been 27 days so i’m hoping AF comes soon, I think I ovulated 11 days ago! I know it’s early days but patience isn’t my strong point, i’m driving myself crazy!!
Welcome to the group @Pancakes7 so sorry you’re going through this, MMC are so cruel. Lots of love xx

@Pancakes7 welcome to the group and sorry for your loss. I had a mmc on Valentine's Day and have this week got my BFP. You'll find lots of support on this group and fx you get your BFP soon!

Hello, Can I join? I had an mmc last week. Struggling atm feel devastated. But I am trying to keep positive. We want to ttc asap once bleeding stops. I just so want to be pregnant again and for it to be ok. Anyone had a bfp following mc or mmc? I do have 2 friends who has mc and mmc last year and both have babies now. This is giving me hope. I just hope we are lucky next time.

OK so this is defo a positive opk so why the hell have I gone off the boil. Think I've emotionally burnt out worrying about not ovulating due to the bloody cyst that now it might be happening and I'm not up for it. Why does this have to be so bloody hard. I'm not feeling good today. Just can't wait to get Mondays scan out of the way.

Congratulations to all the ladies with bfp I really wish you the best pregnancies.

Feeling the same hun. Hugs hope tomorrow is a better day.

Ahhh thanks all x delighted that boots & bare arse has brought a chuckle, he was all mock outrage when I shared the snow week sperm cooling escapade but think he's secretly quite proud of his mumsnet lore. He's back tonight, aiming for a slightly nicer end to surge day.

@maxiflump1 @serenaoverjoyed well this is fantastic, love some good news to round off the week! @maydot where are you at in the cycle? The longer we've been at it the lower the lows somehow, it only gets me now and again (between BFN and AF, usually) but it can be so miserable. Hope you have something nice planned for the weekend? @peachesarenom not pleased but so pleased you're feeling rough, hope you're out of the woods soon x

GSB ladies, GSB. (YES @zarala @knitkitty)

@KnitKitty and @SerenaOverjoyed fingers crossed for stronger lines over the next few days! I think it being summer and having lots planned will mean I keep occupied and not have too much time to overthink things! Have a wedding and two hen dos in next two months though so already thinking of different reasons not to be drinking!! It's a good problem to have though!

@Maydot sorry you are struggling today. Is it anything in particular? As others said please feel free to rant!

@maxiflump, that's definitely positive!

@serenaoverjoyed definitely a line!

Laney79 Glad the bleeding seems more normal now, that's a good start. Hope the meds do the job at resetting your cycles again and hoping things get back to normal soon so you can JKS!

maxiflump1 No denying that line! :D Fingers crossed for a healthy and happy pregnancy. I totally understand not wanting to graduate to the pregnancy boards yet. I feel exactly the same (assuming my line does get darker and AF stays away!)

SerenaOverjoyed yep, that's a line alright. Tentative congratulations! Fingers crossed for you.

Sorry you're struggling today Maydot. Hugs! We're here if you need a rant.

Congrats on all the bfps!!!.... Really love seeing the test pictures!!
I’m struggling today ladies!.... Feeling super emotional and fed up 😢

@maxiflump1 omg congrats! I totally understand how you’re feeling, hope this is a sticky bean for you 🤞

@SerenaOverjoyed I see it! 😀 I hope that turns into a nice dark line for you 🤞

@SerenaOverjoyed I can see it. 🤞 for good line progression!

PassTheAfterEights that's the funniest thing I've heard all week excellent work!!

Laney79 I'm pleased for you it's all sounding reassuring. Enjoy your totally well deserved holiday

maxiflump lovely line. It's impossible not to worry but try and stay in the moment and enjoy it as much possible x

I think I have a squinter this morning. A line came up within time, and dh can see it too, although it's not clear in photos. Obviously with my track record I'm trying not to get excited..

I had weirdly loads of cm 15 days ago so although not ewcm (which I very rarely notice), I'm hoping this signalled ovulation, or the end of ovulation. This would put me at 14/15dpo. If this cycle doesn't work out I'm definitely temping as not knowing is really frustrating

Congrats to all the bfp

@Laney79 Pleased to hear your bloods came back okay. So sorry you're having all these complications though. It's hard enough going through it all in the first place. Hopefully this is your period now so your body will start to reset. Keep us posted.

@maxiflump1 Congrats on the positive test! We all understand how anxious you're feeling but fingers crossed it all works out for you!

@maxiflump1 caution is always a good plan, try not to worry too much though. Hurdle one is behind you now!

@PassTheAfterEights that made me laugh so much I just snorted my tea out my nose!!

Well I resisted the urge to retest until this morning and no doubting it's a bfp this morning! Feel scared more than excited at the moment. And a bit shocked as we only managed to DTD once during my fertile time. But I guess once is all it needs so all JKS ladies!! Am too nervous to go onto any ante natal boards yet so will be hanging around for a while if you all don't mind. Fx for more BFP!

@peachesarenom ohh sorry you are being so sick but at least it sounds like those pregnancy hormones are nice and strong. Haha yeah, fingers crossed for vomming! 🤣🤢👍
@Laney79 hopefully this is your period and it'll be over soon. How long are you on holiday for? Glad your bloods are all clear!

I mean @laney79!

@passtheaftereights 😂😂😂 you two deserve a prize this month. Hilarious.
@knitknitty omg! (Tentative) congrats!
Have a great holiday @laney70.

@PassTheAfterEights just have to say... that’s brilliant!! 🤣👏🏼

@Laney79 I’m glad your bloods were fine! & I hope that’s your body getting back to normal now. Have a lovely holiday☀️

I'm ok Boboelephant really tired, on and off bleeding, thought the sickness was over but back with avengence! I hope you're vomming all day soon too!

@PassTheAfterEights that's brilliant!