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June bfps for mamas trying for dc#2

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CatRen27 · 22/05/2018 06:17

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The bus is still running, we're sick of bastard bfns, and crossing fingers (and some) for Feb 2019 babies. Come join!

I'm 35 yo
DD is 3yo
Cycle 25 (urgh!!)
Af/bfp due 18th June

After a few months charting and opk-ing, I've decided to chuck it all out and try and dtd every other day. Eek. Only two more cycles until we start ivf in August so crossing fingers we can get a natural bfp before then. Here's hoping!

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Hisashiburi · 23/06/2018 11:56

Please count me in!! TTC #2 is really different to TTc #1 x

Angelmiracle · 23/06/2018 11:46

Oh deary me. We think we have it bad - the latest thread cant manage dtd during fw because of dc1??!!

Angelmiracle · 23/06/2018 11:05

Ahh yes I knew there was a term for them 😂

Once we hit July should we all put our stats up again, where we are in the journey and anything we're trying differently this month?

I might need the inspo 😁

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CatRen27 · 23/06/2018 10:49

Totally @angel, i think they're called 'drive by bfps' 😆

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Angelmiracle · 23/06/2018 10:43

@pudding01 I'm so sorry you are out for June. Don't worry you're not alone! I really thought June was my month! Feel naive for being so hopeful but then you're told to 'stay positive' even though its a set up for disappointment. We cant win!!

Lots and lots of best wishes to all of us ttc#2 it will happen!!!

Angelmiracle · 23/06/2018 10:35

Yes keep this one up please!! I like following those Im familiar with 😊 Can't cope with the ttc#1 who get a bfp after 1 or 2 cycles 😂🙈

Pudding01 · 23/06/2018 09:27

Good point @CatRen27 🙂 I'll be staying here too, if we all want to continue together? I'm on the normal July one too now x

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CatRen27 · 23/06/2018 08:45

Hey @pudding I've joined the normal July bus, although might keep posting here too as there are ttc#1 people on there who are going through a bit of a different situation i think. Maybe I'm being elitist..?! You lot are so fab it might be nice to stick together a bit longer?

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Angelmiracle · 23/06/2018 08:32

@Mammyofasuperbaby So sorry af got you too 😣 At least your cycle is regulating!

I really believe we will get our BFPs even if it takes a lot of patience!🌸

Pudding01 · 23/06/2018 08:32

Are we starting a July BFP thread? 😊 Trying really hard to stay positive. Inside I'm crying 💔 x

Angelmiracle · 23/06/2018 08:28

@Peanut1980 aw so sorry the witch showed 🙁 🤞 for July xx

Peanut1980 · 23/06/2018 08:23

I’m out AF arrived this morning. Feel OK about it though x

Mammyofasuperbaby · 23/06/2018 05:14

I'm out again, af has just arrived 😥
On the plus side that was a 29 day cycle with a almost positive opk so let's see what happens this month.

ladybug92 · 23/06/2018 02:02

How wonderful @murphyrocks! Very glad for you.

I am still waiting. 6days late and no AF and no bfp. Very regular cycles usually. Doctors booked for tmw so hopefully they'll do some bloods and maybe make sense of this.

Peanut1980 · 22/06/2018 16:20

Oh that’s so exciting @murphyrocks 😁

Murphyrocks · 22/06/2018 14:14

@catren27 haha that made me lol! I'll have to use that with dh, he's being very tentative about not wanting to get excited! So sorry about what you've been going through, hope things get better soon.

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CatRen27 · 22/06/2018 13:50

Thanks for your support ladies, it's really appreciated. Quite the melodramatic rant but I needed to get it out! Also just to top it off I'm covered head to toe in some sort of allergic rash. I am sooooo itchy and hope it's gone for fw, as there's no way I'll touch dh in this state. Tbh I'm not sure he'd want to touch me!

@murphy yes yes risk factors shmisk factors. That's a fricken line so you're Preggers Until Proven
Otherwise. PUPO!

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Hisashiburi · 22/06/2018 08:41

@murphy that is definitely a line!! That is exciting.

I'm really sorry @thissucks1. Fx for next cycle. Hope you're ok x

I'm so sorry you are feeling like this Catren and that family troubles are happening. The infertility board is a good source of information but I appreciate that it must have been difficult after so many cycles. Hope you manage to have a nice weekend z

Murphyrocks · 22/06/2018 08:27

Thanks @catren27! Even if it is positive I'm only 9dpo so very early days, and with me in my 30s and dh in his 40s the chances of early mc are very high, so trying not to get ahead of myself. But tentatively excited!

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CatRen27 · 22/06/2018 08:23

Yeah defo concur @Murphy- this is exciting!

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Murphyrocks · 22/06/2018 08:18

And thanks @catren27 - concur with the new attached?! Would just hate to get all excited to find out it wasn't real! There's a second test on there with my second wee of the day (sorry if tmi!) to rule out a dud test. Newer one on top.

Murphyrocks · 22/06/2018 08:15

Thanks @HidCat, I've now taken the thing apart (obsess much?!) and attach the pic - would really appreciate your thoughts?!

June bfps for mamas trying for dc#2
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CatRen27 · 22/06/2018 08:15

@Murphy that's a line!! Congrats! 💐

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HidCat · 22/06/2018 08:12

@CatRen27 I'm so sorry you've been feeling down about things lately. I hope you get lots of support from the lovely folks over in the ivf boards. I'm glad you've bitten the bullet and wish you all the luck in the world when the transfer happens. Thank you for all your support here, you've been great!

@Murphyrocks I do see a sliver of a line on there, tentative congrats!

Murphyrocks · 22/06/2018 07:36

Another photo, struggling to capture what I think I might be seeing...

June bfps for mamas trying for dc#2
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