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Help to work out who is the dad

54 replies

Marycal90 · 19/05/2018 09:27

Hey there
First time posting and a don’t know if this is the right place or the thread is still active but a have been hiding it since a found out a was pregnant and feel so ashamed but here he goes
I am 13 weeks pregnant tomorrow ( Sunday the 20th) and due on November 25th 2018 ... am useles with my period but have a rough idea when a conceived .. but am still confused so need some help.. a don’t know when my last period was but am guessing it was around feb ( anywhere from the 2nd to the 20th maybe ) :/ sorry a don’t know never kept track! A had sex with my current partner anywhere from the end of period in February up until the 5/6 of March and then we fell out and a stupidly went back to my childhood sweetheart and we had sex on the 7th of March and the 11th ,18th and 19th of March and that’s it ... not the nicest thing to do and a have regretted it everyday .. a want to get it right who the dad is before a come clean and be honest with everyone ! Please don’t judge me am heartbroken and have felt so down and a know it’s my fault .... so who is the dad ... the current partner or the ex ?a have done them conceive calculator but a don’t trust them and a.m. bed at math ! Sorry Thank you all so much for your help..

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Mrsbarton · 19/05/2018 10:08

Going by what i said before, concieving on 4th march, that's only if you have bery regular cycles, the fact you slept with your partner the 5th/6th and then your ex on the 7th, its too close to know for sure, sorry :(

jigglepiggle · 19/05/2018 10:05

You can’t know for sure because you have given us an 18 day window for your period. Even then, unless you are regularly tracking ur cycles it’s hard to work out when you ovulated. These online calculators assume everyone has a 28 day cycle and ovulate 14 days in which is not the case for everyone. I don’t think you will know for sure until the baby is born and you can do a DNA test. But you should be honest with them both and explain the situation.

Mrsbarton · 19/05/2018 10:03

Going by your due date your last period would of started 18th feb (40 weeks before due date), meaning you would of concieved around 4th march...if you had regular cycles. I hope it all works out for you x

HoldTightPretendItsAPlan · 19/05/2018 10:01

Probably your ex. Sorry, I guess that's not the answer you want.