Anyone else starting 2ww

I got the faintest of lines again on IC Today. Just checking how do you guys calculate DPO as I think I had it wrong I was including when I thought I got the surge as a DPO when in fact you ovulate 12-36 hours approx after the surge. If this is the case I am probably only 10dpo today which is making me fee better. I have ordered a pack of FRER from good old amazon which are coming today

I see something @KimRobs87!!

Got a BFN myself this morning, not surprised. Shows how much I've been on these boards because I had a dream last night I got two lines on a blue test, and my DP was so pleased but I said "I don't know because I thought I bought a FRER and this is a blue test and they're notoriously unreliable, and that's a really strong line for just 9dpo." 

Don't give up @FoxyRoxy, I'm just going to go out tonight and enjoy a few drinks and wait until Wed to check which is when Clue thinks AF is coming.

@Frizzy1986 fx for you! I can relate about the doctors thing - I’m there every 4-6 weeks so it felt wrong not to tell my GP that I’m ttc as I see him more than I see some friends!

@KimRobs87 ahhhh I see it! So excited for you, keeping everything crossed!

Sadly I’m pretty sure I’m out already before I even got a chance to test. Spotting is getting heavier, to the extent I can tell it will be full blown AF by tonight/tomorrow I’m going out with DP tonight so at least we can drown our sorrows! I’ll stick around to see how you’re all getting on, it gives me hope!

I've also now decided to run 2 apps with diff cycle lengths (hilariously it autocorrected diff to duff). One for 24 days and one for 27 days. We've been trying to dtd every 2-3 days anyway just so it seems less like we are aiming for something and more to just enjoy sex. How long that will last who knows though 😂
One app puts ov on 13th and the other on 17th. Dtd every 2-3 days after af up until 16th, then a gap of 5 days but not catching will just be down to luck as we've been active at the "right" times. Just means I'm either 12dpo or 8dpo. Last few cycles have been 24 so I'm more looking towards 12dpo but with bfn so far I guess I'll have to wait and see for af. Due either 28th or 31st. Think if its 28th I must be out by now. I know nothings certain until af, but it's getting unlikely.
Only on cycle 2 though so plenty of time to not stress about it.
Have a phone appointment with the doctor today to discuss my anxiety/depression meds and ttc/pregnancy. Don't think there's any issues, but I like to prepare. Prior to dd I went for a health check and to discuss ttc. I'm kinda proper and weird like that 😂

@kimsrobs87 I definitely see a line. Woop woop. Test in a few days and it should be nice and clear. Fx for you.
My frers should arrive today, but don't know how long to wait to do it. Af due between tuesday and Friday. Think it's my heart keeping the hope alive but my head is telling me I'm out as any unusual feelings are slowly going and they are prob normal but I never notice (although I did think since dd I was quite clued in on my body)

@KimRobs87 def a line there! Are you 9dpo?

Fingers crossed for the next few days @FoxyRoxy

@KimRobs87 I see something!!!!!! 😬

Thanks @tittifers! I read @Stars post after I posted, I know there's a chance still but I don't feel pregnant at all so I'm not hopeful. Have popped a tampon in my bag just in case!

Oh @FoxyRoxy there's still time! Enjoy your day out today though!!

Bfn this morning. My LP is only 10 days so af is due on Sunday, I won't test again until Tuesday if she doesn't show but I'm pretty sure that's me out xx will stay on the thread though and crossing everything for you all! xx

Don’t know if anyone’s come across this before? www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test/dpo-chart.php?dpo=9
Basically a breakdown of how likely you are to get a BFP on the various dpo. Interesting that less than half of pregnant women get a BFP at 9dpo but 2 thirds get a BFP at 10dpo. I was talking to DP and I’m going to test in the morning cos I’d like him to be there and otherwise I’d be doing it before I head out, and I’d like to do it before drinking just in case! But if it’s BFN I’ll not be too disappointed going by this.

Oh no @catspajamas85 that sucks. I'm thinking I'll be joining soon, but im waiting it out until she shows.

Aw sorry @Catspajamas85. Enjoy your wine, and onwards to next cycle

Oh no catspajamas85 well at least you can enjoy your wine!

I’ve caved into amazon prime and ordered my FRERs for tomorrow as well. Had some light brown spotting today though and my temp is on the way down so I reckon AF is on the way, but then I’m only on CD22 surely still have a few days of waiting either way. I’m already planning what to do differently next cycle though in anticipation of a BFN.

Yeah def worthwhile testing tomorrow for you @FoxyRoxy

Aw that's shit @Catspajamas85 :(

@8DaysAWeek I know what you mean, even with dd who wasn't at all planned or expected I still "knew" I think about 9 or 10 dpo as I had odd random things like metallic taste and implantation spotting. I'll test in the morning as I would feel guilty if I didn't and I drank but I don't have that feeling at all xx

@Catspajamas85 I'm sorry lovely, enjoy your wine and sending baby dust for your next cycle xx