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TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies

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dulwichdays · 29/04/2018 17:18

Another thread for us all - I'm hoping I've got everyone's details in the list below, I copied it from our previous thread.

PassTheAfterEights 33 C6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 C1 TTC#2 (1 cycle ttc pre MC)
hayleyfx 24 C4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 C4 TTC#1
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 C3 TTC#3
Blondcat 36 C8 TTC#1
Sweetpea0318 38 C1 TTC#2 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 C4 TTC#1 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee C3 TTC#3
BabynameEdie 30 C2 TTC#1
Yellowdaffodils86 31 C2 TTC#1 (1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 C4 TTC#2 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC#2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 C1 TTC#2
Hidcat 35 C1 TTC#2 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 C8 TTC#1
Rdm10 34 C2 TTC#2
Zarala 36 (to be) TTC#2
SerenaOverjoyed 28 C1 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
KnitKitty 30 C1 TTC#1

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Lilimum4 · 30/04/2018 17:14

How do I add myself to the list

Boboelephant · 30/04/2018 17:13

@Patienceofatoddler good luck! I agree that the ones with no symptoms are always the ones that get the bfps! And nice job on the 9 days!!
@L1zz13 and @YellowDaffodils86 I'm cd11 too!! 🤞🏋️‍♀️🤾‍♀️
@Lovemysparkle hope you had a lovely hens!!
@Llondbol sorry you are having a tough time. Well done for shifting the extra Mc weight. 👍 Are you talking to someone for your anxiety and depression? Sorry for the witch. I was crushed too when I passed the 3 month post MC mark. Stupid broken cape!!
Fx for us all ladies. Feel like my body is starting to gear up for fw. Hope it's early and doesn't drag on for 2 weeks like last month!!

Lilimum4 · 30/04/2018 17:10

Feeling a bit down today calculated my fw and its while DH is away so no chance this month. DH is a lorry driver and works away all week so we get two day to take a shot at BDing its not looking great. So I'm on the chocolate tonight Sad

FireworksBaby · 30/04/2018 16:28

PassTheAfterEights 33 C6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 C1 TTC#2 (1 cycle ttc pre MC)
hayleyfx 24 C4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 C4 TTC#1
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 C3 TTC#3
Blondcat 36 C8 TTC#1
Sweetpea0318 38 C1 TTC#2 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 C4 TTC#1 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee C3 TTC#3
BabynameEdie 30 C2 TTC#1
Yellowdaffodils86 31 C2 TTC#1 (1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 C4 TTC#2 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected34 TTC#2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 C1 TTC#2
Hidcat 35 C1 TTC#2 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 C8 TTC#1
Rdm10 34 C2 TTC#2
Zarala 36 (to be) TTC#2
SerenaOverjoyed 28 C1 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
KnitKitty 30 C1 TTC#1
Fireworksbaby c2 ttc #3 (ttc 2 cycles pre MC)
Tefiti2 - 24, TTC#2 (after 2 consecutive early mcs)
PetraRabbit 42 C1 TTC#2
LoveMySparkle 39 ttc#2 (cycle 6 after 3 consecutive mc’s under rmc)
Edinbeezer 34, ttc #1 (5 cycles pre mmc)
Llondbol 33 / TTC#1 / cycle 13 TTC (10 Cycles before MMC, 3 Cycles since)

Hope that's everyone now, sorry to see the list growing, but welcome to the huddle. X

zarala · 30/04/2018 15:58

@Lovemysparkle hope your hen do was a lot of fun!!! I just saw your stats
3 consecutive MCs ?! Are you under RMC now? Did you have an MC while you were with them? How have you found the RMC? Which one are you at? (If you don't mind?) I have my appointment scheduled with St Mary's for June...their process is quite long- 16weeks after first appointment before they even give me any treatment or answers...how does yours work?

L1zz13 · 30/04/2018 15:08

@Llondbol sorry you're having a rough time. Xx

Llondbol · 30/04/2018 14:05

Hi ladies, haven't been on for a while as having a rough time mentally. Would love to go in the list for the next thread: 33 / TTC#1 / cycle 13 TTC (10 Cycles before MMC, 3 Cycles since)

Third month TTC since MMC and the witch is back...so much for being extra fertile after a miscarriage 😭 Just trying to be healthy and active so I can be in the best shape possible for when we finally get pregnant again. Also my anxiety and depression is so bad at the moment that it's sooooo easy to just comfort eat!! I put 7lbs on after the miscarriage so I've shifted that and now on to the rest of my excess weight...

Any happier news today? Have I missed any BFPs on the last thread?

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edinbeezer · 30/04/2018 13:20

Please may I join as well? Not sure how to add myself to the list. I had a mmc and am 11 days post surgery. I'm 34, ttc #1 and it took 5 cycles pre mmc. My husband and I are trying again since yesterday. Decided not to wait for AF as all bleeding has stopped. Wishing everyone else good luck!

L1zz13 · 30/04/2018 12:59

@YellowDaffodils86 lol
I think my Fw may have started. Cm is still tainted with Old af so it's actually quite tricky to determine.
Boobs are a bit tingly and opks are getting darker. Shagathon here I come!
When did you mc?

Lovemysparkle · 30/04/2018 12:30

Hi all been on my hen weekend wherever you are in your cycle/bfp/limbo sending lots of love to you all❤️ Would someone be kind enough to pop me on the list please
Love my sparkle 39 ttc#2 (cycle 6 after 3 consecutive mc’s under rmc) thank you in advance 👍🏼

YellowDaffodils86 · 30/04/2018 12:26

@Cakelaur have a lovely holiday. Try not to worry. Hopefully all is well and it wont come to anything more. Spotting is common. But I understand how worried you must be.

@L1zz13 haha this made me laugh. I know think what you mean with the hornyness.
My mc mucked up my app and i think i will ovulate a week earlier than it says. So basically in a few days?? I think im in FW. Last night my cm became watery and abundant. Going to start peeing on opks. Looking forward to getting into a tww, for about 5 minutes then will just turn into a crazy person once again
Cycle day 11too.

@Patienceofatoddler good luck for stress free tww and fx for a BFP at the end. I always see that people that were not hopeful and had no symptoms ended up with their bfps!

Wellthisunexpected · 30/04/2018 11:38

badbad - good luck for this month

And everyone else in tww or shagathons!

Wellthisunexpected · 30/04/2018 11:35

This thread is blink and you'll miss it quick! Hard to keep up.

DaisyMay– heres hoping your faint lines turn to BFPs. I find the best way to ‘relax’ is to give myself things to look forward to in the future and concentrate on. I’ll give ginger a go – good excuse to make ginger cake and cookies! And chocolate covered crystallised ginger!
Lilimum, Lotty515, ohmeohmy, petrarabbit and smoothiemummy– welcome, sorry you find yourselves here.
Hidcat – glad you are feeling a bit brighter, long may it continue
Dulwhichdays – thanks for the new thread.
Claire138 - glad you enjoyed the weekend away.
Sweetpea – I hope you get your answer soon, the waiting is so hard!
Tefiti – eek for the wedding, enjoy it!
Sloeberry – fx for a bfp
Cakelaur – enjoy your holiday, everything crossed for you.

Sorry if I missed anyone.

My app says AF due 3rd May and today I’ve had mild cramps, pink discharge and my IBS is ramping up so looks all set to be one time, so we can get trying.

weasledee · 30/04/2018 10:09

Have a lovely holiday cake!!

BadBadBeans · 30/04/2018 10:06

Placemarking! I've definitely finished bleeding now so hoping for a quick first cycle so we can get on with ttc again!

DaisyMay25 · 30/04/2018 08:47

@Cakelaur I'm sure it's just your little bean getting extra comfy. Enjoy your holiday!!
@Patienceofatoddler 9 days! Wow that's commitment! Hopefully you get your bfp this month!

Patienceofatoddler · 30/04/2018 08:36

Hope everyone is doing well?

I seem to come in / out of this thread as I have to admit I find it hugely hard at times so find shutting off from social media helps.

Fertile week has just finished here - Cycle day 18 - Had positive ovulation results with clear blue on Thursday last week - it's Month 7 or 8 I've actually forgotten. Blush

Have to say I don't 'feel' enthusiastic at all.

Although means we won't 'have' to dtd tonight which might be a nice change as it's been a 9 day marathon BlushHmm

Sorry to see there's plenty of names I recognise - But hope we see lots of BFP very very soon.

L1zz13 · 30/04/2018 08:28

@Smoothieyummy but some opks on Amazon. You get a decent amount for about £6 ish.

Flo was reading my Ov and Fw we're going to be happening next week. The app can't cope with the mc and I guess sees it as a rediculously (sp?) long cycle. I'm currently on day 11 of my cycle. Length is roughly 30 days or so which would make this my Fw! Using my opks to check and boy am I horny as hell soz Tmi!!

Boboelephant · 30/04/2018 08:25

@Cakelaur I'm sure everything is fine. Have an amazing holiday and try to relax!!

Boboelephant · 30/04/2018 08:24

@Smoothieyummy welcome. I have cycles between 30 and 34 days. The last 4 months have been 33, 32, 30 and 34. I've been using opks and bbt for the past two and found that I ovulated on day 17 and then the month later day 22. Last month my body was gearing up and I had ewcm and was getting darker lines but then it didn't happen until a week later. I use the one step ones from Amazon and from about day 14 do the opks 2-3 times a day. The last two cycles just when I thought the line wouldn't get any darker and maybe even started getting lighter, I've gotten my positive opk at about 11pm! If I only tested once a day I'd have missed it. I would pay more attention to the opks than your app. They are mostly designed for people with very regular 28 day cycles.

Boboelephant · 30/04/2018 08:18

PassTheAfterEights 33 C6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 C1 TTC#2 (1 cycle ttc pre MC)
hayleyfx 24 C4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 C4 TTC#1
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 C3 TTC#3
Blondcat 36 C8 TTC#1
Sweetpea0318 38 C1 TTC#2 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 C4 TTC#1 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee C3 TTC#3
BabynameEdie 30 C2 TTC#1
Yellowdaffodils86 31 C2 TTC#1 (1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 C4 TTC#2 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected34 TTC#2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 C1 TTC#2
Hidcat 35 C1 TTC#2 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 C8 TTC#1
Rdm10 34 C2 TTC#2
Zarala 36 (to be) TTC#2
SerenaOverjoyed 28 C1 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
KnitKitty 30 C1 TTC#1
Fireworksbaby c2 ttc #3 (ttc 2 cycles pre MC)
Tefiti2 - 24, TTC#2 (after 2 consecutive early mcs)
PetraRabbit 42 C1 TTC#2

Cakelaur · 30/04/2018 07:40

Morning everyone. Just checking in on the new thread. But marking my place back here as I've had loads of spotting! Scan on 11th which I pray has a heartbeat. But I'm not overly hopeful!! About to jump on a plane to mauritius!!! Whoop!! Love you all... I'm hoping I can check in on an off but fingers crossed anyone testing in the next 10 days and to all the DTD marathons and any TWWers!! Xx

strawberrye · 30/04/2018 06:33

Hello ladies just checking in. Will join the roll call when I know what is going on with this non-viable pregnancy, just lurking for now.

Smoothieyummy · 30/04/2018 00:47

Checking in. Our first cycle TTC. My body has changed since the miscarriage last summer. I never had ovulation pain before (now I do), have ovarian cysts and sometimes straight slight pain in the ovarian area, for it checked out the doctor said no issue, not sure how reliable it was.

Does any lady here have a longer cycle (32-34 days)? When do you normally ovulate? I want to track ovulation however boots OPKs have been useless keep saying I have no LH surge even though Flo says my ovulation day was yesterday.

PetraRabbit · 29/04/2018 23:47

Can I be added to the list? I posted in the last thread. PetraRabbit 42 C1 (if this refers to cycle?) TTC #2. No news from me. Still awaiting signs of ovulation or AF after my ERPC for MMC nearly 3 weeks ago. I was panicking about TTC as soon as I could but I've now decided waiting for AF may be healthier for me. Not sure why...just following instincts. I'm sure my issue is egg quality so the more time I'm taking Ubiquinol and fertlity vitamins the better really. I hate the idea of going through another loss.