TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies

Internet has been down since yesterday evening and already so much to catch up on!!

Yeah girls I really hope it doesn’t come down to needing a sick bucket haha!! 🤢🤣

@YellowDaffodils86 super close! Also what a lovely picture 🌈
@HidCat sorry for the bfn, fx it was just a bit early 🤞

Good luck to everyone in the TWW! I wanna be in the TWW already but not even in fertile week lol! I’m CD6, fertile week starts next week hopefully. Just gonna start the BD’ing from this weekend onwards and hope it works!!

@Blondcat I think they say 4-6 weeks tok everyone as that is the average. I found my af came 32 days after which is a normal cycle length for me. So your body probably just goes back to what is normal for you. Hope you can move on soon.
@strawberrye how'd the blood test go?
@PassTheAfterEights how are you?? Hope all is ok??

Really struggling today. The wave has hit and I'm not doing very well. Just want to speed up the clock!

Thanks @YellowDaffodils86! Still getting little squinters so not sure I'm going to catch up. I'll be keeping everything crossed for you!
@BabynameEdie and @Lilimum4 agh mine are the same!!! Tiny squinty line day 9, basically nothing since until another squinty today- day 14. Getting impatient although I know ov prob won't happen for at least 3 days. I always start testing too early!!
@curlypop fingers crossed!
@L1zz13 and @smoothieyummy try and keep going if you can. It's probably just around the corner. If you're too shattered maybe take a day off so when you get the positive opk you can jump DH! @L1zz13 the last two months I've had a strong line at 11pm and then already lighter by the next morning. I usually o 12 hours after the dark line so also short surge! So it can happen overnight.
@HidCat Sorry for bfn. Hopefully it's just a bit early.
@Cakelaur in fw. Day 14 of possible 30-32(?) day cycle.

So, after googling all the blue hits I can read about opks. I will just be patient and wait for a darker opk!
Maybe I missed it in Jan.
I'm an old goat so maybe it's a blink and it's over surge! My Cm is certainly that way!

Oops meant pre bfp not af

So had some light cramps on and off for last day or so and this morning seem to be bleeding and cramping. Only 24 days since mc bleeding started but assume it is af though still had a faint positive on Monday when I tested and was told by gp to test end of week so tomorrow. I did have 26 day cycles pre af but did have 24 days twice in the 7 months from stopping bc.
Hoping it is my body sorting itself out it is just sooner than I expected as thought it would be 4-6 weeks not 3 and a half?

@Cakelaur I seem to recall my opks not going massively dark before mc. Jan was the first time I used them and I'm sure there were darker days but no where near as close to how they are described to change. That colour change back then fitted with what I thought was O.
With the timing being right and the O pains which I've always had (no mistaking them!) I'm sure I'm about to 'go'.

@L1zz13 ooh maybe in the next couple of days. If you've got a 30day cycle and an average 14day LP you should ovulate around cd16.
@HidCat defo not out!! For everything crossed for you!! 🤞🏻
@BabynameEdie eek hopefully soon!!

Roll call-
Currently in fw, cd14 of approx 28

hidcat you’re not out yet!

@Cakelaur Cd 14 of approx 30
Test three times a day from about 11am onwards!

BFN for me this morning. Assuming ovulation didn't happen when I thought it did, should've kept going with the opks, doh!

@Smoothieyummy I had this last cycle and thought I'd missed it but it was just really late - day 20 (or something like that) of a normally 24-26 day cycle! So it might be worth keeping on with opks for a couple more days if you can bear it.

@Cakelaur hope you're having a relaxing time away! I'm on cd 12 which used to be O day but think I'm a bit later since mc so am keeping on with marathon and opks!

🤞🏻 @HidCat I've got a good feeling about this!!!
@YellowDaffodils86 hope you jumped DH!! That's a good opk!!!
@Curlypop congrats babe! It's always a bit of a relief when you can relax a little after O! Haha. Until the TWW really kicks in!! Haha 🤞🏻 this is your month!!
@BabynameEdie what cd are you on?
@Lilimum4 oooh exciting another one hitting the TWW soon! Hopefully O comes soon.
@L1zz13 they are getting lighter but I'd say no surge just yet... but keep testing. Are you doing twice a day? What cd are you on?
@Smoothieyummy hopefully your hard work will pay off. How many cycles since your mc babe? Sometimes they can be a bit messed up and take longer than usual.

Loving how many people we have in the TWW... and almost in the TWW. This is gonna be the best month yet... can we get a roll call..: who's FW, who's TWW?

I think I must have missed the ovulation day this cycle. The problem is I don’t know for sure so still have hope but all OPKs the past week (CD16-CD23, 33 days cycle) shows no line or very faint lines. And because we still have hope so been BD’ing every other day and even hubby is tired from too much of that LOL!!

The last 3 days my lower tummy has been feeling unusual, quite bloated and discomfort/ mild pain/tenderness similar to how I felt straight after the MC last summer. Probably will do the last BD tonight for this cycle and wrap it up :(.

@ L1zz13 oh dear hope you feel more like it tomorrow. Know the feeling hun

Curlypop! I'm in the tww 2 DPO

Here's mine what do you think. I'm thinking the last one is getting lighter!
They have only really darkened over the course of the day.
Right ovary is feeling a bit stingy.
Bit pissed off tbh!
All the excitement of having Af and feeling super horny has left me and to make matters worse hubbo is not in the slightest bit interested in shagging!

@BabynameEdie I know what you mean I'm starting to wonder if I will ever ovulate ever again. Poas seems to be all I can think about, that and DTD. Think I'm going a little nuts

Oooh fingers crossed for you @Curlypop 😊🤞
@Lilimum4 it's so frustrating isn't it. Keep thinking I must have missed it but been poas since end of AF so pretty sure that's impossible! Also wonder whether my opk obsession delays my O due to worry and anxiety around it! 🤷🏻‍♀️ who knows!

Hi everyone new, sorry you've found yourselves here but it's a wonderful life raft of support 🐧💕

@BabynameEdie mine look the same its driving me crazy

Right that's me officially on the tww. Anyone with me? So glad no more BD for a bit!

OMG hurry up O! 🙈

@Boboelephant its got steadily darker over last few days, hopefully peak arrives tomorrow. Aw i don't want to leave you behind! Hopefully we you get a peak soon, and we enter tww at a similar time.
Hows the marathon 🤸🏻‍♀️

@BabynameEdie how are you? Where are you at? Iv lost track?

@Cakelaur look bloody amazing! Enjoy! Glad things have settled!

@strawberrye thinking of you, hugs x

@Lovemysparkle
Glad you had a good hen do, what did you get up to, iv forgotten if was yours or not?
FX for this month for you, looks like you have given it a good go despite the logistics!

@DaisyMay25
Sorry for AF😒

@ek78 i know what you mean, the what ifs get you, super speculation. However you know, sometimes things happen when you least expect it.
@KnitKitty i had lots of odd twinges post mc and before first AF, i think i felt ovulation where as before i never had a clue but also never paid attention.

Hello to newcomers, sorry for your losses and that you have found yourselves here.

To everybody else a little hello, keep on going with whatever stage you are at, waiting for AF/FW/TWW or waiting for first cycle to start.

@Laney79 im so pleased things have moved on for you, you have had such a tough time. But all going in the right direction now.

@YellowDaffodils86 go go go! Action stations! 😂 but as @Boboelephant an v envious...boring faint lines here 😏