TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies

No @Lilimum4 it means you need to shag your head off for a the next 12-24 hrs or so. Have fun 😉

@Cakelaur I'm okay. Back sore. But only started again since I got up. It's prob not related. I have added an extra 1/2 mile into my dogs usual walk!

Not going to fret. But I will keep you all posted.

OK ladies. I had positive opk yesterday so does that mean I'm tww now ( this is all so new I've never tracked anything before)

@Boboelephant yay for Positive opk!!! Nice timing!!! This is your month!! Little baby JKS is on it way!!! 😂

Hey girls! I've been a bit quiet as we are staying in the country with limited internet.
@Cakelaur and @BabynameEdie 🤣 I'll see what I can do!
@YellowDaffodils86 and @Lilimum4 yay for positive opks! I got my positive last night too! 😀😀 Jumped on DH last night and this morning so fingers crossed!!
@L1zz13 it sounds really confusing. I'd defi speak to your GP. If there is anything retained you don't want to leave it.
@HidCat glad your body is getting back to normal!
@dulwichdays maybe do a test? Then if it's negative that might help stop the hoping? If itd positive that'd be awesome!
@smoothieyummy it's so hard not to worry about everything. I had that worry too after the gynae suggesting that perhaps I wasn't ovulating every month. Possible according to fact that I'm ancient apparently! 😫 I bought the bbt thermometer and was thrilled to confirm I was. Although it can be irregular so think I have missed my window a few times! Good to have all the info I think!

@Lilimum4 yes yes yes!! Go get your OH
@L1zz13 how you doing this morning babe?

@DaisyMay25 oh no he's away that's just not fair

@Lilimum4 that's a really strong positive! Go grab your OH!

OK ladies am I right thinking that the last test stick is positive for ovulation

I took a test that was the same brand as the one on the right of the photo I posted. It was neg at the end of my af. I didn't think to keep checking!
maybe I ought to see the Drs next week.
Left over mc is the most likely answer.

dulwichdays AF 27th of March, or April? If it was March you could defo be showing signs of pregnancy now... If you said the wrong month in your post, it sucks how your body plays tricks on you, doesn't it. There are sick-bugs going around too at the moment.

L1zz13 That's so wierd that you're getting faint positives! I agree with Cakelaur; take an FRER if you can.
Did you ever do a negative pregnancy test after MC to be sure HCG had dropped completely?

@L1zz13 LOOOL at the white sheets!! Me too!! Haha!!
2 of those are defo positive!! I have litterally everything crossed that this is your miracle rainbow baby!! Maybe ask for bloods at the Drs?! If you've had a period you should still have hcg in your system. Maybe it was some kind or weird bleed and maybe pregnant? Can you crack out an frer in the morning?

I know they suggest they should not be read out of the time frame but as I'm not taking them seriously it doesn't really matter.

@Cakelaur 10 days okay was my last day of Af. Highly unlikely. Plus there was no shagging on Af. I have white sheets lol 😂
I reckon mc related. My back has been sore for 4 days now. Not 100% if it's physical exercise or gynae related. But if gynae maybe I've still got some retained stuff hiding in there.
Just looked at one of the tests i did hours ago. 2/3 are now faint pos!

Hmmm. Have you had a period since then? My LMP was 13th March, I'm now 7 weeks. Is there NO WAY you could have ovulated 10days a go? Showing a very early bfp?

@Cakelaur my mc was on the 15th March. I'm sure the hcg was faulty. I might contact the supplier to complain or at least make them aware. I am defo not pregnant! There is just no way. Shagging and timings just don't match up in the slightest!

Ive just read through the reviews on Amazon where I bought my opks. A few people are saying the lines don't darken as much as other brands. That might explain why a surge is not being seen.
As for hcg no idea. But tested with two other brands and they are neg.

Enter a whole world of depression as I came across this thing call ‘anovulatory cycle’. Perhaps I didn’t and won’t ovulate at all this cycle. Perhaps I have trouble ovulating. Because I religiously do the OPKs and they’re all negative and now that I come to think about it my period has been pretty light which could mean it’s not real period but just withdrawal bleeding.
Next cycle I will do the basal temperature chart as well to make sure I can track that ovulation really happens.

On groupon ladies....

Oooh @YellowDaffodils86 steak him away for a quickie! 👍🏻

🎉🎉 app re calculated ovulation day tomorrow!!
Timing couldn't be worse, have little brother staying this evening and birthday drinks for dh tomorrow afternoon. Hopefully he wont be too drunk to BD! 🤦🏽‍♀️

@L1zz13 how many days ago was your mc?

In the box of opks were some hcg tests I picked out the the wrong one and it had a feint positive.
I tried a different brand one and that was neg.
will double check with my 1st wee of the day ( I'm chillazing in bed still).
No way that's is true positive. I reckon it's either faulty or left over from mc.

@L1zz13 WHAT??? the hcg has a line on it???

@L1zz13 sorry the opks haven't told you anything. I wonder if your surge was just super quick and in the middle of the night. I only had one positive opk and it was faint 5 hours before and the following morning so it's possible.

Got some spotting this morning. Major PMS yesterday (pains, emotional, didn't sleep etc) the likes of which I've never experienced before so it's definitely AF but so glad things are finally getting back to "normal" 15 weeks after my miscarriage.

Hope everyone has lovely plans for the Bank Holiday weekend. The sun is out here so we're off to Folly Farm in West 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 for my DS and nephews birthdays. Better find the sun cream 🕶☀️