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TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies

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dulwichdays · 29/04/2018 17:18

Another thread for us all - I'm hoping I've got everyone's details in the list below, I copied it from our previous thread.

PassTheAfterEights 33 C6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 C1 TTC#2 (1 cycle ttc pre MC)
hayleyfx 24 C4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 C4 TTC#1
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 C3 TTC#3
Blondcat 36 C8 TTC#1
Sweetpea0318 38 C1 TTC#2 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 C4 TTC#1 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee C3 TTC#3
BabynameEdie 30 C2 TTC#1
Yellowdaffodils86 31 C2 TTC#1 (1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 C4 TTC#2 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC#2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 C1 TTC#2
Hidcat 35 C1 TTC#2 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 C8 TTC#1
Rdm10 34 C2 TTC#2
Zarala 36 (to be) TTC#2
SerenaOverjoyed 28 C1 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
KnitKitty 30 C1 TTC#1

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Cakelaur · 11/05/2018 10:40

Ladies!! It is possible!!! It's real!! It has a heartbeat and wriggles. 2 arms, 2 legs. Measuring a day ahead at 8+4. It can happen!

MAY MIRACLES!!! I love you guys so much!!! The support you give is just phenomenal. I hope May brings you all miracles!!

TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies
rdm10 · 11/05/2018 10:21

@Lilimum4 hope everything’s ok.

@martydog sorry you’re having to go through this.

@cakelaur good luck!

8dpo here and the boob prodding has started! Although they’re not in the slightest bit sore and I have absolutely no symptoms but I’ll keep up the crazy!
Hope the tww isn’t too crazy for everyone (at the moment 😉)

hayleyfx · 11/05/2018 10:17

@Cakelaur I have everything crossed for you, I’m so hopeful for you!! 🤞 I hope there’s a strong little heartbeat still! 🤞
@Lilimum oh no I’m sorry. I hope you’re alright!
@Martydog I really hope this is over soon for you. Sorry you’re going through it again. Hugs Flowers

Boboelephant · 11/05/2018 10:07

@YellowDaffodils86 yep I'm pretty chilled so far too. I think it's that I've learnt there is no point getting excited about every symptom as they always seem to end in af! So I will wait and see and hope this is my month.
@BabynameEdie thanks hun. I hope so. And for you too! I've decided there is just no rhyme or reason to it. I get really strong symptoms but they also change every month. I've had heavy boobs, tingly boobs, achy boobs, cramps, no cramps, spots, no spots, tingly legs the whole shebang. And then the stupid witch shows up. Our bodies can be so frustrating!!
@Cakelaur I hope you are looking at your baby's heartbeat right now!!
@Martydog so sorry you have to do it again. Hope this time it moves quickly.
@Lilimum4 so sorry. Hope you're ok.
@weasledee hopefully you just ovulated late. Or have a late implanter. It's still early.
@Blondcat glad to hear you got your bfn and can move forward.

Blondcat · 11/05/2018 10:02

@cakelaur goodluck today.

POAS Friday and finally got my bfn (never thought I would be so happy to see a bfn) on cd9 and af finally seems to have stopped.

Laney79 · 11/05/2018 09:57

@Martydog so sorry to hear this. I had trouble with med management -I had one full dose of misoprostol (800mcg) then a half dose 48hrs later but it didn't work.

If you really don't want surgery you could try and get what I had-which is the old regimen (and current medical abortion protocol) which appears to be much more successful. It's a drug called mifepristone 48 hours before another full dose of misoprostol. They used to give that for miscarriage but NICE changed the guidance in 2012, seemingly based on little evidence and finance concerns (mifepristone is more expensive) -there's a trial running now to try and see what difference the combined drugs make in terms of success. My nurse was pretty clear she felt it works better, and it worked for me. I did lots of research too into it and from what I saw the two drugs are much more effective than the one.

I hope it's over for you soon. Huge hugs xxx

Primrose16 · 11/05/2018 09:57

@Lilimum4 gosh I hope everything is okay

@martydog I’m sorry you have to go back in again. I hope it works this time. Thinking of you

Martydog · 11/05/2018 09:48

Had to go back in for a second dose of tablets.

Lilimum4 · 11/05/2018 09:44

Omg I'm in so much pain. I'm of to see the doctor in a bit but it feels like my side is being ripped. Cd19 so I was so hopeful now I feel really down. I googled and I think its a cyst on my ovary.

strawberrye · 11/05/2018 09:32

Good luck @cakelaur, thinking of you!

Lovemysparkle · 11/05/2018 09:05

@cakeular sending you lots of luck🍀🍀🍀 just remember today is your May Miracle ❤️❤️

weasledee · 11/05/2018 08:52

Poas Friday!!! And a BFN, I'm now hoping it was a late ovulation......

DaisyMay25 · 11/05/2018 08:40

@Cakelaur good luck! Sending you sticky bean thoughts Thanks

Martydog · 11/05/2018 08:34

@cakelaur good luck I hope everything is ok.

zarala · 11/05/2018 08:25

@Cakelaur good luck lady!!!! I know those nerves all too well! Really looking forward to good news ! Sending you hugs!!! 🙌🏽🐧

DBoo · 11/05/2018 07:46

Sending positive vibes @cakelaur. Good luck today.

Laney79 · 11/05/2018 07:22

@Cakelaur I have everything possible crossed for you. I do hope it goes well-you are giving me hope it is possible to get a good outcome after all this horribleness xxxx

Eastend2015 · 11/05/2018 07:18

Good luck @cakelaur!

Cakelaur · 11/05/2018 07:13

Thanks everyone! I'm sh*tting myself! Appointments at 9.30. So not too long to wait! Love all of you 🐧

HidCat · 11/05/2018 06:43

@Cakelaur good luck today. Keeping everything crossed for good news. 🐧🐧🐧

BabynameEdie · 10/05/2018 23:25

@Boboelephant 🤞🤞good sounding signs but know you've had strong post ov signs before so am sitting here quietly confident for you, but not jinxing anything 🐧

@YellowDaffodils86 hey! All good thanks, best friend getting married on Saturday so am pretty busy helping her get things sorted which is great. Am 6dpo and have no symptoms at all, cm completely gone and boobs tingling but not achey. Pretty sure it's a bfn this month. How about you? How many dpo? Tell us your progesterone symptoms?! (She says with far too much excitement in a calm and measured way😬)

@Cakelaur you've got this! I believe in you and your little bean ☀️🌸💕🍓 sunshine and happy, healthy vibes coming your way. Whatever the outcome, we're here for 🐧 huddled xx

weasledee · 10/05/2018 22:37

Cake, I'll be thinking of you tomorrow!! Everything crossed for you....... x

YellowDaffodils86 · 10/05/2018 22:33

@Cakelaur good luck for tomorrow, have everything crossed for you. Xx

@Boboelephant i have a few progesterone symptoms too. Oddly not been too obsessed with tww yet. Give it time!

@BabynameEdie how are doing?
And others in tww?

@Martydog hoping all goes well and doesn't drag on.

@L1zz13 What is going on i wonder, be interesting to see what the next blood test say.hope you are doing ok amongst all this confusion.

L1zz13 · 10/05/2018 21:59

@Boboelephant @Cakelaur I wouldn't have expected to see anything either. But at least to rule out anyway nasty or sinister would have been reassuring. I'm feeling much better. Gave in and took some ibuprofen for the back. Now at the pub with hubbo. Cheers gals x

@Martydog Hang on love. It's out of your control. What will be will be. Xx

Boboelephant · 10/05/2018 21:43

@L1zz13 maybe! It's really frustrating but all I know is that I now have back pain 3 weeks every month and as soon as I ovulate I get sore breasts, leg pains and nausea and I used to get nothing!
I back up what @cake says. My last pregnancy I was scanned at 5 weeks and they couldn't see anything at all. My bloods were 650. They said they had to be 1500 to see anything on scan. Two days later, there was bubs. Fx your hcg goes up.
@Cakelaur crossing everything for you hun!!! What time is your scan? Sending you all good vibes 🤞🤞🐧🐧
@zarala so glad that things are heading in the right direction and your body is healing.
@Martydog I hope things start moving for you.