TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies

Jumping on here if you'll have me.

Ttc after losing our daughter at 39 weeks in February. Completely heartbroken but we decided ttc is the best way forward for us.
So this is cycle 1. It took us over a year to conceive last time so I fully expect to be here a while.
We also have a 3 yo so fx we can bring her a sibling home in the future

That was supposed to say 10dpo *

@weasledee you may not need next fertile week! Positive thinking! May miracles!! My dpo positive ended in an mmc at 6 weeks. So who knows!! Sending hugs.

I like your positivity cake but my successful pregnancies have always started with a fairly strong stick at 11 DPO.... but I'm happy to be wrong!
And my next fertile week we're on holiday with all the family an apartment!!!

@weasledee I don't wanna be a bad influence. But I was getting stark white tests until 15dpo when I got a faint line on frer!! So I still have everything crossed for you. 🤞🏻

BFN here and defo out this month, bright white FRER at 11 DPO.
So thinking about next month, the doc gave me 5mg folic acid to take "when" I get a positive. Is anyone taking them before? Clutching at straws again.....

@Eastend2015 good luck with the JKS game. Defo less stressful to just do it all the time and not worry.

@Anyday88 possibly top left in the first photo?! Can you get hold of an frer? 🤞🏻it becomes much clearer soon.

@weasledee fingers cross for your bfp!!

@PassTheAfterEights oooh can't wait for POAS Friday. On the control arm, when can you test? Eek!

@BabynameEdie 😂🤣 testing at 7dpo!! That's my kinda testing!! Next week is gonna bring so many May Miracles I can feel it!!

@KnitKitty thanks babe. I thought I cried enough for everyone. And then I looked over and my OH was blubbing too!! Never seen the man cry! Haha. 😍 how are you getting on?

@Boboelephant when are you gonna start testing?? Can't wait to see all the results!!

Oooh I'm so excited for next week. So many bfps are due and ready to come!!! New year babies!!!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🌈

@Anyday88 I'm so rubbish at seeing squinters so I'm no help sorry! What dpo are you?
@PassTheAfterEights haha my heartburn was defo poor diet choices! I have shown amazing stamina since though. My alcohol abstinence lasted for...wait for it... one day. Oops 🤦‍♀️ also 7dpo here. Really hope next Friday is another bfp fest!!
Haha @Lovewinemorethanhusband and @BabynameEdie the struggle is real! Are you going to keep testing or wait a few days?
How are all the 2ww'ers feeling??

@Cakelaur so pleased for you-fab picture xxx

Cakelaur I genuinely filled up with tears of joy for you. Thank you so much for your message of hope, it's just what I needed to hear today. Congratulations and I hope the rest of the pregnancy is smooth sailing.

So much to catch up on with the rest of you, sorry not to reply to individuals, but I have been reading all of your messages and I am sending positive vibes to those who need today. xxx

@Lovewinemorethanhusband yep 🙋‍♀️ me too. 7dpo and poas this morn. Ha! Ridiculous! Hey ho, glad we're not alone in this madness! Xx

@strawberrye hope you are feeling better again this weekend, has BBT settled at all? Hopefully you'll be back on the TTC wagon soon
@babynameedie thank you! it was ace, much much needed and appreciated break from camping with my PIL's, in the nicest poss way it's just not ideal! how you doing this end of the week?
Haha @boboelephant you crack me up; had a couple of weeks miserable heartburn myself but think was poor diet choices. both on a health drive this side of the 1000 calorie breakfasts, few more avocados ;) (still on the lash though)
Waves @dboo nice to see your name but v sorry about the circumstances & hope you're OK too @knitkitty
@martydog so sorry to see your name again, hope you're as ok as can be expected squished in the centre of the huddle. @lilimum4 thinking of you too.
@weaseldee massively fx it was late ovulation & better luck tomorrow
@cakelaur gorgeous picture, so happy for your news!
@blondcat yay for your BFN, glad you're back at the start & @ek78 glad AF got you too. Chinese lady sounds ace @zarala - huge good luck all for next cycle
@anyday88 also think there's something, do you have any FRERs? any news today @L1zz13?

Flipper high five to all I've missed & sorry for the epic catch up, this thread is like a new puppy you can't take your eyes off!!

6dpo here, heaps of lotiony cm (soznotsoz), sore nips (standard) & nothing else, but haven't been looking. Clearblue trial control arm OPK's arrived, bit of fun for next month 🙄 might POA cheapie Monday.

Hoping next Friday will be a POAS Friday / BFP fest 🤞happy weekend all!

Hooray @cakelaur so please for you, stay sticky little bean!

@martydog sending hugs and I hope things start moving for you soon.

@lilimum ouch! I’m sorry to hear that. Is surgery the only option?

@anyday88 maybe in the top left and middle one. Try a frer!

Need to jump on DH tonight but apparently he has a “blister” from too much cycling, not sure I fancy rubbing it better lol!! Trying the jks approach and no opks in an effort to make it a bit less stressful. We’ll see!

@Cakelaur omg yay!! I’m so happy for you hun. That honestly put a smile on my face!! 😀

@Martydog I'm sorry you're having such a hard time. I really hope things get moving quickly for you x
@Lilimum4 I hope you're doing ok, that sounds really stressful. Hopefully you'll be able to talk things through with them at the next appointment.
@Cakelaur wonderful picture!

Great news @cakelaur
Hope it happens soon for you @Martydog
Hope the pain eases and you get a good outcome @Lilimum4

I am driving myself mad here!! I’m sure there is something on these tests even though it’s supervfaint!! Would love your opinions x

And to everyone else, thank you for your support as usual. You are all amazing women. Xx

@Kingy2910 they've moved me forward a day but said it could change again at 12 weeks. It's now 17th December.

@DBoo haha. I did think about that but I'm not too fussed about identity. thanks babe.

I’m really behind on everything but just to say congratulations @cakelaur! And thanks @bobotheelephant for your kindness 🐧 I’ve now got AF so at least that bit is over and I can get back on ttc properly.

@Lilimum4 that's so hard. I'm sorry you're having to through this on top of the ttc anxiety. Hope you're able to get a good outcome.
@Martydog hope things move for you.
@rdm10 Haha I've been guilty of that. I keep staring at my boobs trying to see if there are extra veins! Only 6dpo here... 🤦‍♀️
@YellowDaffodils86 fx they all mean something this month!

@blondcat I took tablets 4 hours ago initially I had some pain but still haven't had any bleeding. ☹️

Gorgeous news @cakelaur congrats. Not sure if u realised but all ur details are on the scan pic.

@Lovewinemorethanhusband yes they are sending me another appointment for Monday or Tuesday so I guess I'll have to make my mind up then.

@Blondcat i know its weird it switches and you want a bfn and not a bfp. Glad its here and you can start afresh now.

@Lilimum4 hope all is ok.

@BabynameEdie
@Boboelephant
I know, i dont bother getting any hopes up in the first week you cant possibly tell, its all progesterone rising.
My boobs are achy and full and shooty pains in sides, bloated, not as regular(tmi). Feel hormonal too, a bit pms-ey.
Also still have CM.
I can feel a little impatience creeping in slightly.
I think im 5dpo today.
FX there are some bfps on the horizon

@rdm10 haha boob prodding! Standard tww behaviour 8dpo over halfway!

@Cakelaur 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊😊
I went and sneaked off at work to check my phone around 11 to see of you had posted😂Super pleased that it was all good news, the scan picture is lovely. I couldn't wish this bean sticks anymore than if it was my ownXxx

Thank gods its Friday, looking forward to the weekend.
Hugs to all that are having tricky times. Hoping all come out the other side soon.