TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies

@Patienceofatoddler congratulations! I'm sure the docs will get your thyroid under control. My cousin has a thyroid problem and is on pregnancy number 3 (no miscarriages and currently 20 weeks with twins) having had no problems due to good monitoring by the docs. Keep positive.

Hi everyone, I haven’t posted for a few weeks and there is so much to catch up on. I hope you are all ok and I’m sorry to see so many of you don’t have your BFPs yet.

@Boboelephant thank you tentatively happy - will feel better once I've spoken to GP next week.

The chart shows 'fertility' level based on cycle day / ovulation day which is identified the hearts are when we dtd 🙈

I'm 2 days post AF due and it is a lot stronger than my last which was at a week past and ended in miscarriage so fingers crossed.

I can't get excited yet though as so much to sort x x

@Patienceofatoddler wow what a strong line. No need to zoom in there!! Congratulations! I'm confused by your chart. I might be missing something. Is that your temp dropping every day? Or is it measuring fertility strength?
@YellowDaffodils86 haha!!! 🤣🤣 they'll definitely be chanting that now! Yeah I don't work on Thursdays and that's 12dpo so I'll probably crack then as I agree easier to test without then having to be work focused!

@curlypop and @patienceofatoddler congrats on your bfp's fx for some sticky beans.

@Patienceofatoddler ohh congratulations, the marathon paid off. Hope its extra sticky!🎉its good your seeing a doctor about thyroid, once its under control it should be fine. My friend has a thyroid issue, had a baby few months ago. So hopefully it will all be fine.

@Boboelephant ah ok, i wasn't sure if i had not been clear, sometimes i do kind of just type and not really check if it makes sense😂
I still had bfns at 10/11/12dpo with my bfp so i figured waiting might be best, although last cycle still tested at 10/11dpo🤦🏽‍♀️
However 13dpo falls on a Saturday so i rather find out at the weekend rather than before i rush off to work. But i bet i crack anyway!
I would not stand a chance with 4of them! They will be singing to you every time you pee, "pee on us, pee on us"🤣

@BabynameEdie not much happening. Boobs tender and a bit sore on and off. Cm still present but haven't been paying attention to what type. Yesterday and this morning i have a weird sensation and some very mild cramps/stabby feeling in the center of my pelvic region. But i think thats grasping at straws, just hyper aware of everything.
Im a bit like @Boboelephant sometimes positive it will be this month and then sure it wont be and already write it off. But we really dont know ethier way really.

@toots123 I’m so sorry for your loss. How awful. I hope you find this thread as helpful as I have, everyone here is lovely 💕
@Curlypop congrats!! FX for a very sticky bean 🤞
@Martydog holiday is a great idea! I hope it helps, even a little bit. Hugs
@Patienceofatoddler omg congrats!! Fingers crossed for a sticky bean 🤞

@Patienceofatoddler OMG!! Amazing news!!! What a strong line!!! Mega marathon defo paid off for you too!!! 👍🏻

@Patienceofatoddler WOWWWWWW!
Amazing news to wake up to!
From my understanding about it they will monitor your bloods through pregnancy and give you medicine depending on the levels of your thyroid hormone- it's easily treatable and really quite common- so don't worry too much! I am getting mine tested tomorrow 😘 JKS WINS AGAIN!!!! 🙌🏽 good luck and Fx for a healthy and easy pregnancy!

Thank you @BabynameEdie @Cakelaur @HidCat @YellowDaffodils86 baby dust all round.
I still can't believe it so quickly after my mc

Hi All - I havnt been on this thread much as I've been struggling myself with last couple of weeks (a constant cycle!).

We literally had a complete marathon last month which emotionally was tough (both feeling under pressure).

Then I had some blood tests which pointed to a thyroid problem which I am waiting to speak to GP about Tuesday but my understanding is it can affect fertility / increase miscarriage risk.

BUT on a brighter note I done a test this morning and I have a BFP

My emotions are literally all over the place - I refuse to feel excited until I understand more about his thyroid problem and get past 12 weeks but it's a small relief we are opening a new chapter!

Thanks @YellowDaffodils86. I did know what you mean. I meant you have willpower because I can't even imagine waiting until 13dpo even though I know I should! I decided not to test before af is due as I hate the bfns so much but now I've got 4 frers I feel like they're waiting for me! 🤦‍♀️
@BabynameEdie ticking along as ever. 8dpo, googling far too much, swaying back and forth between being convinced I am and then that I'm not. So standard tww crazy really!
@Curlypop that's a very definite line. Congrats!!

@Curlypop congratulations!
@cakelaur lovely scan pic, so happy for you.
🤞for many more May miracles!

@toots123 sorry you find yourself here but welcome.)

Not much happening here on Cd10. Nothing but ‘tingly’ boobs but that’s enough to build my hopes up even though that could clearly be nothing. Hate getting my hopes up but hay, it’s all part of the tww crazy!
Af due on Thursday so if it’s not arrived I’ll be joining poas Friday- should be a busy one this week!!

@Curlypop awww congrats!!! Here comes Miracle May in all its glory! 💕 so happy for you xx

@YellowDaffodils86 I know. I just can't help myself, I see the tests, I want to pee on them!! 😂
I'll probably wait now until 11dpo but to be honest I'm pretty convinced it's a non starter this month as absolutely no progesterone symptoms except slightly tingly boobs but that seems to be the norm for me after MC.
How you guys doing @YellowDaffodils86 and @Boboelephant ??

Yes @Curlypop a great line!!! Massive congrats!!

@Curlypop yey for the fertility cape! Congratulations!

Looks like a 10/11dpo line, hopefully gets darker over the next few days!
Aww congrats again, so pleased you got your bfp. 🎉 hoping you have started a trend for May!

I'm only 10 or 11 ish dpo.
My boobs hurt and have done for a week, and I'm tired but apart from that fine.
I hope its a sticky one too!

Congratulations looks like you have a new little bean!! I hope its a sticky one!!
Any idea what dpo you are? Howd you feel?

@yellowdaffodils86 yeah i have had 2 - the first was negative a few days after the mc started the next i did when bleeding stopped- i was only 5.5 weeks so i thing the hormone left quickly as it was early

@Curlypop have you had a bfn since MC?
That's definitely a line!!!

is it there? eeeeek - i haven't had a period since mc last month

i have a pic....

@Boboelephant i meant i still plan not to test until 13dpo, im only 6dpo so completely no point at the moment, so less willpower needed. I dont know if i will make 13dpo however, but so far feeling like i might manage it.
I wondered if my last post sounded like i had already waited till day13!!?🤷🏻‍♀️
Ahh i see what you mean, yes with 4 that definitely invites the early testing urges. However like you said, that stark white negative is rubbish. Stay strong 💪🏻😂