TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies

@boboelephant and @babynameedie 🤣🤣 I know the TWW crazy all too well!! When I looked at your charts I immediately thought implantation dip!! Also you both look pretty steady in your LP compared to your FP. It will be interesting to see what your temperature does tomorrow...see if it stays up or starts to decrease. I have fingers and toes crossed for you all 🤞🤞🤞

@L1zz13 the charting satisfies my need for an element of control over something really we have no control over 😂 that's the best way I can describe why I do it! Keeps my craziness at bay. Until the tww that is! 🤪🤪
You never know about O..they can be sneaky and not show a surge - I rarely get a positive OPK, I think it happens when I'm asleep! So temping also helps with that. You're not out til af shows! 🤞

@Boboelephant I know me too re dip on 7dpo - funny it was exactly the same day for us both. I feel like we're calling on the wise words of @Cakelaur and @Claire138 to satisfy our tww craziness- it's much more legit than googling, right?!
Another bfn for me today. Didn't have a frer so cracked out the big guns with a clear blue digital. OOPS 🤷🏻‍♀️😬

@BabynameEdie I don't know but I had the same worry!! Also desperately hoping that day 7 was an implantation dip. But I don't even know of that's definitely a thing!! Big guns @Cakelaur and @Claire138 can you help???
@L1zz13 haha JKS!!! I like doing it as it's nice to know for sure that I am ovulating! Especially as since I've been charting I ovulated day 17, day 22 and day 16!!

Wish I'd had as much shagging as you guys! Lol 😂
Going to start temping next cycle.
I don't think I O'd this cycle. Went thru the motions but nothing came to fruition!

@Boboelephant I got worried it started to dip again over last two days - any thoughts?

@BabynameEdie oh my gosh we are!!!! Fingers crossed for us both!!!!

@Boboelephant oooh we're almost chart twins!! At least temp line shape wise... fingers crossed this is good news for us both 🤞🤞

Thankyou @YellowDaffodils86! It is a relief. Yep 10dpo. Getting up early with DS and work has made it easier!

Haha thanks @BabynameEdie! I like your enthusiasm. Happy to share chart. Opinions welcome!!!

@Martydog sorry you had go the surgical route, but it stops it dragging in at least and now you can move forward easier hopefully.
Hope you are ok.

@Boboelephant glad all tests are ok, thats a relief for you. Things sound quite promising this month for you, i have my FX.
Wow you have resisted the frer, well done. Are you a day ahead of me, 10dpo?

@Boboelephant time for some chart sharing? 😀 sorry I'm a very bad influence. Amazed at your willpower - I think this is all a good sign 🤞🤞 xx

Thanks @HidCat and @Cakelaur!
I really hope this is the week too! I think I'm showing amazing willpower actually. 4 frer in the house and haven't tested yet. Just not sure how I feel. I'm really back and forth with it this month and my chart is massively different to last month and I don't know if that's good or bad. Or just different! Ah I just feel confused. Hopeful but desperately trying not to be hopeful at the same time. Tww hey?! Head frazzled!!!

@Martydog sorry you had to end up going surgical route. I was totally fine physically straight away. Had a gush of blood when I first stood up after the op, then litterally nothing. I had a bit of discomfort but not enough for a pain killer. At least now it's all over and you can start to take steps to move on.

@Boboelephant great news all is good. I bet that's a weight off your mind. I bet now you're not worrying, you get your bfp real soon!! I'm hoping this week!! 🤞🏻

@Martydog hope you have a more straightforward time from now on.

@Boboelephant I'm glad you're getting answers and things are looking positive!

@martydog sorry you had to go through that. Ny first erpc i had barely any bleeding and no pain at all. My second one baby was 14+2 still barely any bleeding but i ached for a good 2 weeks after that one.

rdm yup i had all the symptoms going on then i thought nope youre imagining it all it's not your month. Af due a week today so who knows. In all fairness i dont think ive ever really had symptoma before about 5 / 6 weeks so i dont know why i bother looking. Yours sound promising though. A sore back is one of the earlier ones i remember having. Fingers crossed.

@Martydog Hope you start to feel better soon.

@Lovemysparkle I think I’d miss a month and just enjoy the build up to your wedding.

@DBoo haha I like the symptom tally idea! I’ve had tingly boobs and stabby pains in stomach but boobs are fine now and stabby pains will probably just turn into af cramps 😩 I’ve also got a really bad back but that’s more than likely from sleeping on a really uncomfortable bed at my in laws.
How do we manage to go from having such high hopes to being so sure it’ll be a negative outcome so quickly?? Ah the joys of the tww 🤔

Thanks @BabynameEdie and @YellowDaffodils86. All tests came back ok. Ovaries are good and I am definitely ovulating and was told that 'your AMH levels are ok... for 35 they're very good!!' Not sure how to take that veiled insult to my elderly age! 🤣
I do apparently have a condition in my uterus which probably is causing all my back pain which can be treated at some stage but not whilst ttc. He said this doesn't impact fertility though. We were told to keep trying and if not pregnant by the end of the year get the more invasive tests to check other tube. So fingers crossed!!
@Martydog I had the ERPC and after mild bleeding that day had no more bleeding or cramps and recovered quickly physically. Hope you're feeling better soon.

@Martydog so sorry to hear what you're going through, I hope you feel things are moving forward for you now though. I didn't have surgery so don't have much advice to offer but I really hope it all passes smoothly and quickly for you now x

@martydog hope you are ok take care and rest up.
@hidcat fx for a positive surge very soon.

I ended up having surgery this afternoon for an evac of retained products, sorry for tmi. I have had a little bit of bleeding but no pain so I'm hoping things are looking up. Has anyone else not had much bleeding or pain or is it the calm before the storm and it will hit me all in the morning?

@HidCat yes it's so interesting isn't it. I often miss mine though, think it happens while I sleep! 🤷🏻‍♀️ FX for your surge

@hayleyfx thanks! Haha yep think I've done a 5dpo test before too. Glad I'm not the only crazy one 😂

@Cakelaur @Boboelephant @BabynameEdie @YellowDaffodils86 thank you! I know I get so excited at positive OPK’s now haha!! So glad to be ovulating normally this month! 🤞
@BabynameEdie well if you’re silly then I’m totally nuts, I’ve tested before at 5dpo 🤣🤣 it’s annoying when we know what the result is going to be but still do it, hoping for a miracle!! 🤦‍♀️ I hope a line develops in the next few days for you though, fingers crossed 🤞
@HidCat ooh hopefully a positive OPK soon then! 🤞

@HidCat hope you get your surge soon. I can safely i have learnt alot since ttc. Its all pretty fascinating, I agree.

@BabynameEdie
I dont even know why i do it, it never actually gives me any answers. Its always too soon for answers!
I hope AF doesn't show! 🤞

So my opk got darker today, not positive but noticeable darkening (CD 10). Looking forward to seeing how it progresses, last month I had a very quick surge then straight back to stark white. Never monitored my cycle this closely before, it's all really quite fascinating!