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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Nutty fun loving TTCers [thread #2]

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TwittleBee · 26/04/2018 13:40

@thisisouryrfx18 thank you for bringing us together to have this thread Flowers but as we have reached 1000 posts we need a new one now!

So let the nuttiness continue Grin

Calling all nutters (TTCers & Graduates) here
@Cakelaur
@italianwifey
@lolacola13
@susso
@DaisyMay25
@GoldilocksTheGraceless
@HidCat
@BDFT

And everyone else (I'm sorry I was lazy and couldn't be bothered to scroll to much through last thread!) and anyone new!

My Update:
TTC #2
Cycle 9
CD 7
Currently waiting scans & tests to find out whats going on with AF, pain & other bloomin horrid symptoms.

FX for everyone with this thread. Baby Dust to all and happy BM Glitterball

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susso · 08/05/2018 13:38

Hi ladies,

Sorry I've not been posting. Been extremely busy! Hope everyone's good! Currently back in my fertile window so fingers crossed!!

italianwifey · 08/05/2018 13:15

Hey @daisymay25 , I’m sorry that’s rubbish, don’t lose hope though because I know lots of people where it took a while, isn’t it only like a 15% chance each month?
The only thing I would say about the fancy opks is that mine just tells you to do it in the morning and when I used the cheapies as well I think my LH surge was the previous afternoon? But either way if you are bd all the way up then it shouldn’t really matter! I’m just finishing the CB trial this month so I’m not sure whether to get a new one after that or just to go with the flow.... what one did you get?

DaisyMay25 · 08/05/2018 12:36

I'm finally back in my FW! Starting the fancy digital ovulation tests tomorrow. Is it worth doing others too? I usually get a positive on them on CD12 so shouldn't be too long until I'm in that oh so lovely TWW!
It's all starting to get a bit too much, we're on cycle 9 I just didn't think it'd take this long, I know, naive.

italianwifey · 08/05/2018 11:03

hey all hope you're all doing okay - sorry I drifted off for a bit as trying to not be so obsessive about charting/POAS etc which seemed to have helped a bit but am now having doubts about whether I have OVd but am just going to let mother nature take her course this month and leave it be! Wanted to hear how you are all doing. @thisisouryrfx LOL at your aunt.... sounds like something my MIL would do!!!
@twittlebee sorry to hear about the pain, really hope they give you some good news or something they can do to help soon. Did you hear back about your bloods?
@cakelaur how is the pregnancy going, good I hope??
Where are you all in your cycle, would love to see some BFPs on this thread!

lolacola13 · 08/05/2018 10:05

@TwittleBee when's ur docs scan / appointment ?

lolacola13 · 08/05/2018 10:04

I bloody haven't had peak yet on Cb digi . Day 18 and 6 days of highs but no peak...little preoccupied with revision etc at min for last exam a week today so wouldn't surprise me if I ov late . As long as I ov I don't mind it's just all of the weekends efforts were wasted including the unsexy jammies sex 😂🙈.

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TwittleBee · 08/05/2018 08:36

lolacola13 haha well having me as an Ov twin didn't provide you with any luck this cycle so maybe you and thisisouryrfx18 being Ov twins will bring you both a sticky BFP! FX for you both. Any luck on a +OPK yet?

and omg haha lolacola13 yeah jammies and being fully aware of the kids cant make for sexiness haha! FX it was worth it though

rosesandponies welcome and hey there! I'm pretty sure most of us on here are quite a few cycles! Hope you have a good first cycle FX for you

We DTD last night, just because we fancied it rather than because we are TTC which was nice but then it really started hurting me Sad getting so fed up with the pain during sex now. Roll on the Tests & Scan. Just want answers now, no matter what those answers may be.

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thisisouryrfx18 · 07/05/2018 21:16

@lolacola13 😂sounds like a session we had last wk my aunt came over to visit unannounced while we were dtd luckily we d locked the door but she foned me after saying why didnt u answer the door i could c ur car and hear ur tv..sum ppl clearly didnt get what privacy means😂

rosesandponies · 07/05/2018 20:24

Anyone else on cycle one for baby one?🤞🏼

rosesandponies · 07/05/2018 20:18

Spotting very common for me - glad I’m not the only one and to hear that it shouldn’t be a problem to conception! Been on the pill so long I had kind of forgotten but think I used to get it when I was a teenager. Ps yum Chinese ❤️

lolacola13 · 07/05/2018 20:10

Eugh I feel ya ... we dtd this morning whilst kids were downstairs watching tv it was NOT sexy at all . Here's why... jammies kept on to an extent because of kids , First we thought we heard them coming up stairs , then they actually did to argue in the room in front of us, then the cat came in for his funny half hour across the window blinds , just had to get the deed done lol. Hopefully I ov in the next few days so it wasn't a totally waste of time lol . Feeling crampy and ewm galore so should be soon.

thisisouryrfx18 · 07/05/2018 20:03

Why is mother nature such a bitch? it makes no sense that when we re close to ovulating(assuming i am) we get cramps and soo much bloating..yh that really makes us feel attractive and in the mood to dtd!

thisisouryrfx18 · 07/05/2018 12:40

@lolacola13 yey to ov twins! 😂 itd b gd if we did sumone to rant to in the exact same position lol

lolacola13 · 07/05/2018 12:10

@TwittleBee you have been replaced by @thisisouryrfx18 as my possible ovulation twin 😂😂😂.. god help us

thisisouryrfx18 · 07/05/2018 11:10

@lolacola13 oh well doesnt hurt to try lol me n OH have a day off together mid week dnt know if itl b too late by then..ive been gettin ewcm 2days now but no ovulation on ff and no positive opk, the waiting is beyond annoying isnt it? Maybe we ll end up ovulating at the same time haha

lolacola13 · 07/05/2018 10:58

@thisisouryrfx18 forgot to say re the morning sex I can't remember by Iv definitely read it more than once something about testosterone. Give it a google . Prob just hear say like EVERYTHING else we read lol

lolacola13 · 07/05/2018 10:57

@thisisouryrfx18 oh I don't mind it when I'm drunk lol just him hahaha..I have just had my 5/6th high on that bloody Cb digital. Hopefully Itl come soon have been dtd plenty and lying up for half an hour after . That's all we can do eh! V v bad headache today and tender boobs so fx it's on it's way . So frustrating isn't it

thisisouryrfx18 · 07/05/2018 10:18

@TwittleBee woohoo either way at least u ovd @lolacola13 i dnt mind drunken sex tmi lol my OH is always more frisky when hes had a drink so am i haha why is morning sex better tho? Done ANOTHER opk which was negative..again! Also my temps have been dropping past few days im soo confused!

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TwittleBee · 07/05/2018 06:43

Although still not convinced I didn't ovulate the day before it's saying I did. I am thinking that because 1) I had my proper sharp ovulation pains on way to work and 2) it could follow my temp pattern with previous cycles

Nutty fun loving TTCers [thread #2]
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TwittleBee · 07/05/2018 05:59

Cakelaur thank you, you were right FF picked up I Ovd when you said! So I'm 3dpo.

lolacola13 ah phew then so still well within the norm for you with Oving. I get you on the alcohol and sex, same here for me. Didn't know about the morning being best time though! Not sure how we will fot that in with DS waking by 5.30 every morning haha.

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lolacola13 · 06/05/2018 22:54

In fairness I ovulated day 17 last month but had my high on day 16... which is today (16) so that's why I was all geared up to see it today. That was slightly earlier last month than usual For me so I shouldn't really go by it lol.. if I haven't ovulated by day 19/20 I'll be worried up to then is normal for me . No dtd today oh had a few beers in the sun and is currently in the land of nod . I'm not a huge fan of dtd when he's had a few tins 🙈😷... we did yest and Friday and will try and get a quickie tomoz morning.. lol sorry tmi. But I have heard that morning sex is better for ttc ?!!

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TwittleBee · 06/05/2018 21:17

thisisouryrfx18 ah didn't know about how you shouldn't line read. I do always see my lines get progressively darker until I get a positive though. With good EWCM I'd just leave it to do the work maybe?

lolacola13 oh bloomin annoying urgh! Hopefully you'll have another LH surge and ovulation a bit later?

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thisisouryrfx18 · 06/05/2018 20:39

@Cakelaur thanks for the advice aswell fertility guru yh uve progressed from chart guru 😂

thisisouryrfx18 · 06/05/2018 20:38

@TwittleBee ive not been taking pics theyr clearblue digitals so im just waiting on the smiley face. It says u cant read lines but when ive looked at them after ive ejected them its 2lines but not getting any darker to b positive. Do yous think i should use preseed or better leaving cm to do its work lol @lolacola13 i think ur the same as me in the ttc land of confusion think our plan should be dtd as much as possible and hope for the best x

lolacola13 · 06/05/2018 20:25

Peak day still not here on day 5 of high fertility on Cb digi and had crazy ewm yesterday and today?? Maybe I'm not gonna ov ? Pains have eased too not feeling b positive