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Nutty fun loving TTCers [thread #2]

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TwittleBee · 26/04/2018 13:40

@thisisouryrfx18 thank you for bringing us together to have this thread Flowers but as we have reached 1000 posts we need a new one now!

So let the nuttiness continue Grin

Calling all nutters (TTCers & Graduates) here
@Cakelaur
@italianwifey
@lolacola13
@susso
@DaisyMay25
@GoldilocksTheGraceless
@HidCat
@BDFT

And everyone else (I'm sorry I was lazy and couldn't be bothered to scroll to much through last thread!) and anyone new!

My Update:
TTC #2
Cycle 9
CD 7
Currently waiting scans & tests to find out whats going on with AF, pain & other bloomin horrid symptoms.

FX for everyone with this thread. Baby Dust to all and happy BM Glitterball

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Lolacola13 · 09/05/2018 17:40

Oh @TwittleBee big hugs ur doing the right thing getting sorted . But ur right ANYTHING could be cancer, keep us updated the appointment won't be long coming in. @MaGratgarlik1983 I soooo hope this is the real deal for u! How many days post ov are u

thisisouryrfx18 · 09/05/2018 17:19

@TwittleBee try and not worry hun i know its easier said than done when it comes to cancer i panic about it all the time when i get any kind of illness a lot of my family members have had cancer so it scares me to death. But i will say any symptom u type into google it always says cancer of one kind or another scare mongering at its finest. Have u been breastfeeding ds? Could it maybe be a blocked duct or cyst? A lot of your symptoms could be endometrosis or related to the pcos.

MaGratgarlik1983 · 09/05/2018 17:10

Posted too soon, here's the ic...

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MaGratgarlik1983 · 09/05/2018 17:09

Hi ladies how are you all?
@twittlebee that sounds tough. Hope the results are good news for you.
Well, I POAS ic this morning and deffo something in it so did a frer but only vvvvfl if at all... Will try to wait a couple more days!!

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TwittleBee · 09/05/2018 17:04

thisisouryrfx18 I agree, seems odd you would be getting the EWCM recently and didn't get back then... Does seem like your body is trying to Ov around now from that!

Yeah cannot wait for them now, I'm a bloomin idiot and looked up my symptoms online and am now convinced I have fricking Ovarian Cancer, I have all 10 of the top 10 symptoms - blurgh! And the Dr did say she is concerned it could be something sinister because its come on so quickly. Driving myself loopy! And I still haven't gone and got my bloomin breast examined despite it still leaking and hurting. Gonna go Friday now as I must admit I am freaking out - I apologise if any of that triggers anyone xx

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thisisouryrfx18 · 09/05/2018 16:59

@TwittleBee im soo tempted to lol but im not convinced i ovulated when ff says im still gettin ewcm today and @Cakelaur thinks i should ovulate soon plus ive not had a positive on an opk STILL so i dnt know why its saying i ovulated..oh well gd ur tests are comin up fx they find out whats causing ur pain x

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TwittleBee · 09/05/2018 15:52

thisisouryrfx18 yeah I am okay, 6dpo here so half way through my luteal phase. Are you gonna be doing any FRERs this cycle?

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thisisouryrfx18 · 09/05/2018 11:39

@italianwifey we ve been the same this mnth tired lol

thisisouryrfx18 · 09/05/2018 11:24

@TwittleBee its bizzare isnt it? How u gettin on? @Cakelaur hope u enjoyed hols and r feeling better x

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TwittleBee · 09/05/2018 08:18

thisisouryrfx18 oh my how strange! And that is with your Vaginal temps adjusted too as Cakelaur suggested? Least you DTD just before that predicted Ov! If that Ov day is correct surely you will be having a shorted cycle this month, rare for luteal phases to be longer than 16 days.

italianwifey haha bless your DH, and I'm not sure we can have TMI on this thread after other information shared over here. Only take 1 successful time DTD to make a baby so FX the Preseed helped.

Cakelaur oh bless, yes I would certainly take the nausea and cramping as a good sign! I remember all those round ligament cramping early on. How many weeks are you now?

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italianwifey · 09/05/2018 07:24

@thisisouryrfx I thought it was okay... I didn’t bother with the applicators just used it like normal lube 😂 but I can see how that would feel a bit much! FF is telling me I haven’t ovd according to temps... my temperature is being weird this month! I’m pretty sure I felt it though... who knows, like @twittlebee said it’s typical! @cakelaur I’m glad you had a good hol - I reckon the nausea etc is all a good sign, try not to worry. Good luck for the scan will keep everything crossed for u x

thisisouryrfx18 · 09/05/2018 06:10

@Cakelaur i think ur right and ff has went insane lol

thisisouryrfx18 · 09/05/2018 06:08

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thisisouryrfx18 · 08/05/2018 23:05

@italianwifey how did u find the preseed i just used it for the 1st time well 1st time i put it in i fell asleep before we dtd😂1st time using it and actually having sex lol..its a bit watery and they tell u to put too much in i think, i dnt normally get ne ewcm either. Thanks for the advice with the temps i was saying to @TwittleBee i dnt think the weather helps either hot n clammy one day then cool the nxt!

Cakelaur · 08/05/2018 23:03

@italianwifey pregnancy is dragging at the mo!! 8 weeks today!! Scan on Friday that I'm dreading!!! Never made it past this point so I'm so nervous the same will happen this time!! Nausea is hitting me like crazy as are cramps and pulling so I hope that's a good sign. And I've had a lovely holiday in Mauritius. A bit scared about going back to work. (I've had the last month off) but life must go on. Provided all is good on the scan I'm going back part time. How are you?

@DaisyMay25 I always did ICs alongside. But only cos I'm obsessive. The cheapie would always register the night before the clear blue monitor.

@Lolacola13 congrats babe!! Whoop! TWW here you come!!

@thisisouryrfx18 I'd say tomorrow is your day!!! Get one more BD in tonight if you can! Chart looks good but not quite there but ewcm is a great sign and judging by when Af is due, id say you're pretty much good to O! 😉

@TwittleBee Good luck with the tests hun. Hopefully it comes up with some answers.

italianwifey · 08/05/2018 21:31

@twittlebee I know!!! rollseyes why does my brain have to torture me like this haha. Oh well, either way I don’t think I’m in with much of a chance this month, we’ve only BD a few times due to both of us being shattered!! But who knows, I did give pressed a go this month because DH is circumcised and all the extra BDing is making him a bit sore haha sorry for the tmi!!
@susso hey!! Nice to hear from you, hope it is your month this month!
@thisisouryrfx I don’t know if this would reassure you at all but my most recent Gynae appt she told me that temping can be really affected by lots of different things - she seemed to think that there was almost no point because it can be so easily variable! I’m not sure I agree as I’ve seen some charts where it’s really obvious but just to say try not to worry too much about it, look at the other bits of info too. Really hope it’s you month though. The Ew is a good sign - I usually only seem to get a little bit I’m not sure why. Hoping the presses will help with that!

thisisouryrfx18 · 08/05/2018 17:50

@TwittleBee i know i had ewcm past 2days now today nuthin! Things keep happening to get my hopes up for no reason ive been feeling soo up down past wk its ridiculous

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TwittleBee · 08/05/2018 17:42

The EWCM is a good sign obviously at least thisisouryrfx18. Usually I get that for about 5 days before I Ov so FX its a sign your body is gearing up towards it too! Hoping Cakelaur will re-appear soon with her charting wisdom for you. Doesn't seem though you have Ovd yet though at all looking at your temps now Sad

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thisisouryrfx18 · 08/05/2018 17:36

@TwittleBee this is my chart cd25 now

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TwittleBee · 08/05/2018 17:30

lolacola13 tests this Friday and Scan on the 22nd. Shitting myself but also want it to hurry up! WHOOOP to you finally peaking! DTD with DC about and in jammies now worth it as that would have been in FW! so FX for you

italianwifey hey lovely, nice to hear from you. So typical of TTC that you lay off being obsessed with charting to relax but then anxiety plays up abut whether you Ovd! FX for you that this will be your lucky cycle. I am at 5dpo here, trying hard to not over analyse and trying hard to resist the thought of POAS early again after last cycle's disappointment.

DaisyMay25 bless you, feel the same as you too, didn't expect it to take this long seeing how easy rest of my family have had it with TTC. Lolacola came up with a brilliant tactic of using IC OPKs until they start getting dark and then switch to the CB Digis to catch a Positive. Saves money! FX for you for this cycle and happy DTD for your FW!

susso hope you are busy with good things lovely! Baby dust to you for your FW!

thisisouryrfx18 what is your chart looking like now and what CD are you at? So frustrating that you haven't had a positive yet and your temps seem wild for you! Deffo start thinking about making that Dr app soon Flowers

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susso · 08/05/2018 17:03

Thanks guys!! Wahooo @Lolacola13 !! 😄😄 really got my fingers crossed for us all this cycle, we will do this 💪🏼xx

thisisouryrfx18 · 08/05/2018 17:01

@lolacola13 woohoo got there in the end lol im peeing on an opk in 5 wish me lucj haha

Lolacola13 · 08/05/2018 14:58

And we have a positive opk!! Hooray... welcome back @susso !!

thisisouryrfx18 · 08/05/2018 14:36

Welcome back girls! @italianwifey and @susso keep ur chin up @DaisyMay25 💪 im getting fed up of it aswell feels like its taking over my life!

thisisouryrfx18 · 08/05/2018 14:33

@TwittleBee nope still no bloody positive but my temps been bit higher today hopefully it continues to rise..thats a shame that ur in soo much pain fx it eases up for u❤ @lolacola13 the wait continues eh?