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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Nutty fun loving TTCers [thread #2]

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TwittleBee · 26/04/2018 13:40

@thisisouryrfx18 thank you for bringing us together to have this thread Flowers but as we have reached 1000 posts we need a new one now!

So let the nuttiness continue Grin

Calling all nutters (TTCers & Graduates) here
@Cakelaur
@italianwifey
@lolacola13
@susso
@DaisyMay25
@GoldilocksTheGraceless
@HidCat
@BDFT

And everyone else (I'm sorry I was lazy and couldn't be bothered to scroll to much through last thread!) and anyone new!

My Update:
TTC #2
Cycle 9
CD 7
Currently waiting scans & tests to find out whats going on with AF, pain & other bloomin horrid symptoms.

FX for everyone with this thread. Baby Dust to all and happy BM Glitterball

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lolacola13 · 25/05/2018 19:36

Thanks so much guys. Tested again on ic and it's barely visible not that it got v dark on those anyway but still shitty to see. Have one more frer to use tomorrow and I'm not buying anymore . No bleeding or anything yet. But am I correct I'm guessing my hcg levels need to fall down to zero before I start to bleed?

IsAnyoneElseMissingCheese · 25/05/2018 19:18

Flowers @lolacola13

sophi22 · 25/05/2018 18:35

So so sorry @lolacola13 x

MrsV2018 · 25/05/2018 17:38

@lolacola13 so sorry... such a horrible thing to go through

Cakelaur · 25/05/2018 14:00

@lolacola13 babe I'm so so sorry. It really is the most soul destroying thing. Sending massive hugs. Xx

thisisouryrfx18 · 25/05/2018 13:45

@lolacola13 its soo cruel that u got ur hopes up hope ur doing k❤ ur right we all get it x

lolacola13 · 25/05/2018 11:53

Thanks guys. Kind of u to reply . I know u all care as we're all in same boat . Nice to have this support . No she said as Iv had two healthy preg and no miscarriages before it's just one of those things but also said that doesn't make it any less hurtful . She was v nice. Said to come in today and wed for bloods to make sure hcg is dropping . When hcg is back to zero and bleeding has stopped I'm welcome to try again. Gutted. But I can't let it beat me .., I know I can do this

DaisyMay25 · 25/05/2018 11:39

@lolacola13 I'm so so sorry Thanks

HidCat · 25/05/2018 10:52

@lolacola13 I'm so sorry. 💐 Has your doc said anything about investigations? I hope they do and find some answers.

lolacola13 · 25/05/2018 10:40

Had a hunch the last few days this bean wasn't going to stick. After so many blazing positives and a few digital positives too. I was feeling no preg symptoms at all. Almost empty. Did a frer today and it's almost negative. Hcg Levels are falling. Irony of it all is as I was doing the test the doc rang to make sure I was on vitamin d as she was just looking at my referral . :(... feeling just rubbish. She's told me to come in for blood test today and Wednesday and if I don't start bleeding by next week to call her... gutted.

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thisisouryrfx18 · 25/05/2018 09:01

@italianwifey i dunno never found out when i ovulate before lol 14dpo now and another temp drop gonna do 1last test this morning then give up i think..soo drained. Af is such a pain do u exercise when u get it ?sumtimes i find that helps make it go away quicker

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italianwifey · 25/05/2018 08:50

How long is your lp normally @thisisouryrfx?
Hope all the rest of you are doing okay!
Fed up of AF now, she is clinging on this month! @twittlebee if it’s his weekend you are getting married good luck and hope it all goes well! Enjoy :-)

thisisouryrfx18 · 24/05/2018 20:47

K ive had backache and cramps all day and still no af uugggh

DaisyMay25 · 24/05/2018 12:56

@TwittleBee exactly, that's what I'm looking to later in life. Hmm possibly, tests are very confusing, I'll use another on Sunday and hopefully get a better answer. I bet you're looking forward to having a month off, although they say that's when it's most likely to happen haha

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TwittleBee · 24/05/2018 12:49

Thanks lovelies! Weather is meant to be thunderstorms all day though

DaisyMay25 yeah that's what we liked the idea of. Once we've had all our children (if we're lucky to have more) it will be nice to have a family celebration with them. Hmm I can see a line, not sure if an indent would be picked up camera though? Then again maybe I have line eyes

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DaisyMay25 · 24/05/2018 12:30

@TwittleBee of course it'll be special! I wish you the best for it! And the house move too, that's such a lovely idea about the renewing vows. I told DH I want to renew ours one day when we have children so they're involved in the day.

I've attached the annoying evap/indent line

Nutty fun loving TTCers [thread #2]
Nutty fun loving TTCers [thread #2]
thisisouryrfx18 · 24/05/2018 12:25

@TwittleBee when r u gettin married?supposed to b heatwave so weather should b lovely for pics😊

dee7409 · 24/05/2018 12:18

@twittlebee it is not the WEDDING it is the MARRIAGE...there were 6 of us at my wedding and i celebrated 15yrs this year...congrats for the day and hope it is bright and sunny

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TwittleBee · 24/05/2018 10:14

ah brilliant DaisyMay25 really hopefully times then!
Nope, we are only really getting married on the quiet side just to get it done (although day will still be special for us). We hope in a few years when money is better we will be able to renew our vows in front of all our family & friends and have a honeymoon then

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DaisyMay25 · 24/05/2018 10:11

@TwittleBee I did SMEP this month so I DTD around the right times.
You've got it all going on! Very exciting time for you! You going on a honeymoon?

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TwittleBee · 24/05/2018 10:02

DaisyMay25 FX this is your cycle, do you feel like you DTD at good times?
Super exciting, and we are moving house tomorrow too! I should imagineI wont be too stressed on our Wedding day as there will only be 5 of us in attendance (its a 2+2 wedding along with DS)

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DaisyMay25 · 24/05/2018 09:51

@TwittleBee I'm 11dpo so still a few days yet, I'll test again on Sunday and if that's still negative I'll just wait for AF.
How exciting your wedding is coming up! I got married six months ago, I remember the stress! I didn't even eat on my wedding day haha

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TwittleBee · 24/05/2018 09:48

DaisyMay25 URGH hate the stupid indents on tests! Feel for you there Sad still early for you though isn't it? FX

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DaisyMay25 · 24/05/2018 09:45

Did a frer this morning, thought I saw a second line so took it apart to get a better line and it was an indent! How annoying!

@thisisouryrfx18 the waiting must be awful, hopefully she shows soon or not at all!

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TwittleBee · 24/05/2018 08:24

IsAnyoneElseMissingCheese haha yeah I didn't actually realise until you just pointed out!

thisisouryrfx18 Sad I suppose most LPs are 14 days long so might be another 2 days before AF turns up. But FX that maybe she will be a no show still!

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