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Please be my Rainbow!

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Rosasaurus · 08/04/2018 08:10

AF is not due until Friday. I'm trying to convince myself I see something......

Please be my Rainbow!
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Rosasaurus · 17/04/2018 08:48

@Wigglywigglywooo I'm sorry to hear your cycles haven't returned to what they were! It does seem like you would have a BFP by now but who's to know!! It's the not knowing and hoping that's the worst, I ended up wanting my AF to turn up so I could move onto the next cycle! I had a surgical termination in Jan due to my baby being diagnosed with Acrania. Then another procedure due to retained products in March. I've now had 2 x AF - both arrive on time and for the same duration as before being pregnant but both EXTREMELY heavy. No pain but I think that's due to getting my butt back in the gym. My angel was my first pregnancy and I conceived on my second cycle so I'm hoping it won't take long this time but also am recognising that my AF isn't what it was before so maybe my body isn't ready??

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Wigglywigglywooo · 16/04/2018 19:16

Oh sorry to hear that @Rosasaurus it’s so hard isn’t it.

I always used to be 28/29 days before the MMC. Now It has been 34 days, 34 days, 30 days and now I’m on CD 31. So not really sure to be honest! I used to run like clockwork so I’m a bit thrown. I got a peak day on CD 17/18 so surely if I were to get a BFP it would have happened by now?! Got my BFP really early last time x

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Rosasaurus · 16/04/2018 18:37

Hey @Wigglywigglywooo AF turned up Friday night, been super heavy :( I think my body needs more time to recover after what it's been through. When's your AF due? Xx

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Wigglywigglywooo · 16/04/2018 18:02

@Rosasaurus how are you getting on? AF hasn’t showed up for me yet! I did a test tonight but went for a wee two hours before. I’m sure I can see something faint but it wouldn’t be the first time I’ve falsely convinced myself! Xx

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Rosasaurus · 13/04/2018 20:49

@Wigglywigglywooo sending you big hugs! I think this week has been the hardest since losing my angel but I do feel like I have come to the realisation that getting pregnant quickly isn't going to make me feel better. I need to find myself again and allow myself to heal in order to be ready for my rainbow. My AF hasn't arrived today so I don't know if I'm destined to punish myself if I re-test tomorrow!

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Wigglywigglywooo · 13/04/2018 09:08

Yes I feel the same. Keep trying to convince myself it has happened but in reality it took us so long to get the first one I feel like a fool thinking it will happen quickly this time. It is just soul destroying x

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Rosasaurus · 12/04/2018 06:57

@Wigglywigglywooo I'm sorry we are in the same boat, this is my first month of trying and it's hit me harder than I thought it would. My AF is due tomorrow and I still have so many symptoms but I know it's just my body playing tricks on me. Fingers & toes crossed for you! Xx

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Wigglywigglywooo · 12/04/2018 01:19

Sorry to hear about your BFN. We are also trying for our rainbow baby. So heart wrenching isn’t it? My AF is due in a few days ish (my cycles are still a little off) and I already feel that I’m out. Just so upset x

ClaryFray · 11/04/2018 21:37

Sorry to hear this :(

PinkAvocado · 11/04/2018 20:27

Those blue tests seem to give so much false hope.

Redrosebelle · 10/04/2018 06:41

Sorry to hear that Flowers

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Rosasaurus · 10/04/2018 06:35

Got a clear negative this morning SadSadSad

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Redrosebelle · 10/04/2018 06:21

Yes you can. I used mine 3/4 days before period was due and got a clear positive. GOod luck!

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Rosasaurus · 09/04/2018 12:53

Thanks everyone. Can you use the FRER tests early?? It says in the packaging test on day of missed period. I bought some today so was going to test tomorrow or Wednesday?

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PinkAvocado · 08/04/2018 21:49

I can see a line too. Good luck Flowers

fruitcider · 08/04/2018 21:37

I saw a line as soon as I looked at the picture!

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Rosasaurus · 08/04/2018 21:18

ShockWill defo get one and try Wednesday. Thank you Ladies. Of course will update you all xxxx

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PurplePotatoes · 08/04/2018 20:47

I see it too! Good luck Flowers

Pinklily1 · 08/04/2018 20:46

I see a very faint line too. Definitely get a FRER. Best of luck OP!

MrsDx · 08/04/2018 20:43

I think I see a faint line but frer is the way to go to know for sure x

Shocked149 · 08/04/2018 20:39

I see a very faint line, I would get a FR and wait a couple of days. Very best wishes Smile

looliloo · 08/04/2018 18:26

I can see a very faint line, fingers crossed for you StarStar

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Rosasaurus · 08/04/2018 18:07

With my first pregnancy the line was darker at this point which is what's making me think I'm seeing things. I hope it's darker next time I pluck up the courage to test!

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Hopehope20 · 08/04/2018 18:00

I do see a very faint line. Agree....get a FRER. Good luck

Redrosebelle · 08/04/2018 17:22

I’d get a frer I think that might be a faint positive x

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