May Bus

Just a little update from my end...

The LAP is tomorrow eek !!

Also, got DPs SA results back on Friday and the letter literally just read ... "no sperm".
I can't imagine I could feel lower than I do right now, with things now going on both ends. I can't help but think, 'it's just not to be'. I'm never going to have a child of my own!

He's also fathered a pregnancy in the past (which ended in termination) but it makes me more sad still!

@Owlpatrol absolutely! They really frustrate me coz it's simple tasks really that they just aren't getting right!

Af came a day early. I might give the June bus a miss ladies. Feeling pretty heartbroken 😔 x

I’m sorry @MaGratgarlick1983 I can’t see anything there.

Welcome @ClaryFray I’m due 28/5!

How are things today @clairehr?

@babybeany I’ve heard good things about preseed but I haven’t tried it myself.

I’m full of ridiculous hope that I’ll be super fertile this month after last months early loss. Which is really silly I know, and I’m probably going to feel a lot worse when AF shows.

@Owlpatrol, hope you can get some answers today.

Today's offering... Just want to get out of limbo now!! Luteal phase is usually around 12 days so am due any day now.

@xLauraa yeah I'm going to call the doctors and hospital...someone must have them somewhere surely!

@Owlpatrol that's disgusting! This shouldn't be happening!!!! What bloods were they? As lots have to be done on specific days I hope they know this and are going to prioritise you!?

@Alex2790 keeping everything crossed for you.

Hi @HidCat my thoughts exactly and yeh we would qualify for IVF but im hoping it dunt come to that x

Bit late but can I join in too, my period escaped me for 46 days last time!!! But due again 29th May still in the 'fertile window' currently.

Age: 29
Ttc: 2
Cycle : 7
CD: 16

Had my scan at the hospital yesterday to check that my womb lining is think enough after issues with the mirena. So waiting on those two. :)

@Alex2790 god yes if you can get the testing do so. At least if there is something it can be dealt with. Would you qualify for IVF?

@HidCat yeh true i do try do this its been a year now so getting a bit fed up hopfully dr can shed some light rather know if theres something wrong with me x

@clairehr oh no. Hoping it's just your system settling in. 🤞

@Owlpatrol nightmare! The same th no happened to my Mum with CT scan results but they did turn up eventually. I hope they find them rather than having to do them again.

@Alex2790 it is possible to have more than one peak in a month so opks are better for guidance than anything else. Try sex every 2-3 dayside the 2-3 weeks mid cycle.

Looks like the below was either a false positive or a chemical, just started spotting going to convince myself that it was a rubbish test as don't think I can cope with another positive gone wrong.

Good luck to all still aboard, I'm hopping over to the June bus.

I am officially a fool. I thought the static smiley meant that I was ovulating right there and then, so I didn't take the delay into account. So wasted a fortune on tests and I'm still only ten or eleven dpo arghhhhh!! Goi g on holiday on Wednesday, just want to know one way or the other by then!

@Alex2790 I fell out of love with opks really quickly as I wasn’t getting a smile or even a smirk! I’m going to try taking my bbt for the next month religiously. I think I will struggle with that too though as I’m such a restless sleeper I think my temps will go up and down. But, if the bbt thing is a success I should hopefully be able to work out when to use a opk? I also heard that even if we have sex when ovulating there is still only a 25% chance of conceiving. Fx for everyone. I am due af on Tuesday and luckily the Superdrug near me doesn’t sell frer and only stocks clear blue (which I have heard are unreliable). So my bank balance is fairly stable! Haha!

Does anyone use preseed? Is it cheaper to buy on line? Is there a particular brand that people can recommend? I wasn’t going to go to this level, but we’ve been ttc for 10 months now with not even a glimpse of joy. X

I think the peak means ovulation will happen within the next 48hrs (correct me someone because I'm new to opk). So you should dtd for three days in a row once you get the peak.

My boyfriend actually made a good point today are opks actually accurate? Came off the pill a year ago been using clearblue opks for six months now im getting high and peak days sometimes i get 6 high days sometimes two before peak. I make sure we have sex on them days and the months when i get six high days we have sex every other day then make sure we have sex on peak day. And still not pregnant! Started taking vit b6 three week ago hopefuly it helps. Got an appointment with Doctors tomorrow hoepfuly they can shed some light x

Tmi alert started getting some light reddy brown spotting hope its not af coming 😞 not due on till tuesday x

@Owlpatrol, that's awful! How can they lose them?? Grrr for you xx

I see it @clairehr! Woop woop!

I'm two week waiting at the mo, anyone else due on around 20th....? Xx

@MrsY87 im taking 100mgs a day i got them from holland and barrett but you can tak up to 200mg a day safley if the 100mg a day does not work i read on the nhs choices website x

@Alex2790 how much B6 are you taking? My LP was only 9 days last cycle so thinking I'm going to start on B6 to see if it helps me.

Meant to say NHS

I'm doing ok....we dtd twice in fw so still hopeful but in other news it looks like the bloody BUS have lost my blood test results argh! And I got so emotional doing them I'm so angry I'll have to do it again and can't get to see my doctor till 4th June!!!