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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Aph413 · 07/04/2018 19:31

I know a few people will unfortunately be joining me eventually so I figured I'd get this bus going.
My cycles are crazy and averaging 60 days and I don't think I've ovulated yet so I'm out for April.

Age: 27
TTC: #1
Cycle: #4 (month 8)
CD: #25

Not holding much hope for conception at the moment but I've got to wait until August anyway.
Such an optimistic person to start the new bus!

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trippingoverrainbows · 25/05/2018 17:10

Congratulations @Keiki 💕

HidCat · 25/05/2018 15:58

@BuntyII there was a post that showed the variations in first positive test and the science behind it.

BuntyII · 25/05/2018 15:48

Thanks @sauvblanc21 I didn't think that actually happened to people!

sauvblanc21 · 25/05/2018 12:30

@BuntyII, with my first pregnancy, I got three BFNs for three days after my period was due, then the BFP... Fingles crossed!!!

BuntyII · 25/05/2018 09:48

Another BFN. Annoying. My boobs are killing me. Hurry up AF

HidCat · 25/05/2018 09:20

@EverythingNow I'm sorry you're feeling down but you're not out yet. Only 10dpo so it could still be happening.

sauvblanc21 · 25/05/2018 09:19

Congrats @Keiki! Oh @EverythingNow, I have my fingers so tightly crossed for you xxx

EverythingNow · 25/05/2018 08:31

Congratulations @Keiki

I’m currently staring at an internet cheapie waiting for it to clear (why do they take so long!!!) but sadly bfn again - 11dpo.

I’d really really really hoped I’d be someone who’d fall again straight after a loss, with that increased fertility you hear about anecdotally. I think I got through last month in combination of denial and hope, I have a feeling that when AF turns up this month that’s when it will hit me. Argh sorry all for being such a downer Sad

HidCat · 25/05/2018 08:20

@Keiki congratulations!!!

Pudding01 · 25/05/2018 08:09

Congratulations @Keiki 😊 x

Keiki · 25/05/2018 08:03

I got my BFP this morning! Ridiculously excited, and scared. Fingers crossed for everyone else. Thank you for your support.

HidCat · 25/05/2018 07:01

2DPO here I think based on ewcm although there's a possibility I've got that wrong as I haven't had a positive opk. Had one that was about half way as dark as the control line but that's it. Expecting AF around 5th June but hanging around to see how everyone else gets on. 1 week left for May BFPs!

trippingoverrainbows · 24/05/2018 22:53

@EverythingNow no news with me either still BFN. @HidCat @Owlpatrol @Keiki how are you guys getting on?

Owlpatrol · 24/05/2018 08:59

Well I was up all night worrying.... and this morning cramps so expecting af anytime soon

HidCat · 24/05/2018 08:54

@Keiki my DS is fascinated by me POAS. Gave him a cheapie to try as he was curious 😂

Keiki · 24/05/2018 08:43

AF due today. No signs. Torn between testing (how, with DC1 following me around) and not testing and putting off reality.

EverythingNow · 24/05/2018 08:30

Fingers crossed she doesn’t @owlpatrol.

Bfn 10dpo today, not even an indent! How’s everyone else?

Owlpatrol · 23/05/2018 19:31

Well life gets weirder and weirder. So I've been spotting for 5 days now not enough for a tampon but no real sign of af yet. According to ovia af due tomorrow now was originally due today having looked back I am usually 29 days so anyway....bfn on a test today so fully expecting af tomorrow now. Living in hope for the rest of the evening xx

Keiki · 23/05/2018 11:34

AF due tomorrow. Symptom spotting like mad. I usually prefer AF to a BFN but I'm so tempted to test this month.

trippingoverrainbows · 23/05/2018 10:55

@EverythingNow I follow the same logic as you with testing as I'd rather know whether I'd had a chemical or just a late period but it definitely doesn't help the mental health!! I honestly have no clue when/if I've ovulated tbh (although suspect around the 10th). I had a 51 day cycle last month after ERPC and I'm currently on CD20 so I'm now testing every morning like a woman possessed 🤷‍♀️

EverythingNow · 23/05/2018 08:33

@trippingoverrainbows it is! Flowers to you too! What dpo are you?

I know the advice on here is not to test til AF is late but while that would’ve saved me wondering why lines weren’t getting darker I would still have tested positive because I was 3/4 days late when I started bleeding.
And I want to know if it happens again.

trippingoverrainbows · 22/05/2018 21:44

@Han2699 hope the sickness has subsided Thanks

trippingoverrainbows · 22/05/2018 21:42

@EverythingNow it's so hard not to test so early, I'm in the same boat. Will keep everything crossed for you Thanks I don't know why we do it to ourselves it's like mental torture

EverythingNow · 22/05/2018 18:55

Ah sorry to hear that @winterwarmers and @TheMagicTorch. Stupidly tested today at 8dpo, stupid stupid stupid! Obviously bfn. I don’t know what I will do when I’m not pregnant this month, I’ve convinced myself it will happen due to increased fertility post chemical. I am going to be gutted I’m sure.