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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

April 2ww

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PassTheAfterEights · 05/04/2018 09:47

2dpo & staring down another abyss of symptom analysing, early test resisting, date calculating, FW debriefing crazy brain.

Anyone care to ride it out together? Welcome spotters and distractors alike x

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Clacton · 27/04/2018 12:05

@Kentishgal I can see the line! Have you tested again today!

@helloworld88 fingers crossed for you!

helloworld88 · 27/04/2018 06:33

Hello...back in the tww again...really doubt this will be our month as we only managed to dtd once grrr

I'm 2dpo today and af due May 7th

Been great seeing some bfps on this thread 😁

Kentishgal · 26/04/2018 15:03

I think that's a v sensible approach! I swear next month I'll be less obsessed (I say it every month).

lolacola13 · 26/04/2018 14:49

I can see something @Kentishgal .... I take the attitude though now through heartache of indents etc that unless itsvstaring me in the face I see it as negative .

Kentishgal · 26/04/2018 13:31

Ha just looked at that again - it looks v negative but I swear there was a line!!

Kentishgal · 26/04/2018 13:30

Quite! My husband was guilt tripped into cutting out caffeine so that it isn't just me making an effort!

I bought a frer on the way to work (and did it in the loo at work...what has become of me!) - It's definitely 100% negative. I'll see if I can post one of the ones from yesterday although not sure if you'll be able to see anything on a photo!

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Clacton · 26/04/2018 12:23

@Kentishgal have you got a picture of it? Reiki is a form of healing so if it does work then that's a bonus!
I was having a moan at my OH before I ov about how much us women have to do. It's crazy

I've still got all my symptoms and now adding in cramping and being an emotional wreck. If this AF it's going to be a killer! Im only 6 dpo so still can't even test!

Kentishgal · 26/04/2018 06:40

That's really interesting and if you feel it helps with the stress thats the most important thing. I guess it's the same with the reflexology - I'm not sure if it helps but I enjoy it and it makes me feel better!

I did another test last night and I was absolutely sure there was a line - but it's no stronger on this morning's test so probably not a BFP unfortunately!

Clacton · 25/04/2018 16:21

@Kentishgal take a pic and put in black and white - that usually helps!

I was so sceptical about Reiki, but stress is a proven factor against conceiving so if the only thing it does is make me feel relaxed then I decided it was worth a shot! I have PCOS and as soon as her hands were over my abdomen I felt huge amounts of warmth and was ridiculously emotional afterwards. I can't honestly say if it was that that has helped as I've lost around 2 stone too, but I'm going to continue going every month and try and time it around my ovulation date.

Let me know how you get on with it if you go!

Kentishgal · 25/04/2018 15:50

Sorry I meant clacton

Kentishgal · 25/04/2018 15:49

Claxton I was interested in what you said about Reiki - I go to a reflexologist specialising in fertility but she recommended reiki to help with stress - I was a bit sceptical. Do you think it has impacted on your ovulation?

I'm ashamed to say I've poas four times today. I swear I can see a faint line...but that's when it's up against a light and I'm not sure that counts! I'm like a woman possessed!

Clacton · 25/04/2018 11:34

Gutted to see AF has shown up for a few of us - fx for next month! I've been timing Reiki sessions with my predicted ov dates and would highly recommend it!!

Symptom spotting this month is insane for me

  • constant burping
  • knackered, been having naps when I get in from work and then bed at 10am
  • aches and cramps
  • Headaches (although that's probably because I'm on decaf everything now 😂)

I've been tracking my BBT and it has dipped so I think that is me out according to everything I've read. Think my body is just adjusting as it's my first ovulation in about 10 years!

Jallebi · 25/04/2018 11:16

Thanks @PassTheAfterEights! And baby dust to you and all the other ladies! x

ps - If you do decide to go the OPK route I would recommend CB all the way.

BusyBee27 · 25/04/2018 10:53

Hi all, can I join too?

Age: 28
TTC: #1
Cycle: 1!

I think I’m about 5dpo now and imagining all sorts of symptoms, even though it’s probably way too early for anything to be happening! 🙈

PassTheAfterEights · 25/04/2018 08:58

Morning kittens :D been reading along but insanely busy few days, so fantastic to see @jallebi @englishirishrose & @@waitingforbubbles congratulations one and all!

Sorry for all who've had AF show up. Especially sorry for you @starwishing, huge hugs x you don't have to answer and sorry for the personal question but will you explore alternatives? lots of smoosh to you anyway x x

@vickywood3 hi! how are you? sorry you're being mucked around - had the same this month, cycles usually consistent 28 days to the hour but AF was four days late. such a fucker. its thrown off what the apps think of my dates this month too but i think it's probably time to embrace the OPK's and basal temp checking now cycle 6 is upon us. trying to keep my chin up but we're in house hunting limbo, baby making limbo and I can't work consistently until we effect our major national move so one way and another all a bit frustrating atm - thank heaven for yoga! I hope AF shows soon & May is a better month for you, will you stay on the buses? x x

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TinySnowBuddy · 24/04/2018 23:17

Think AF's on her way early. Going on holidays with extended family bang on o time this month so won't really be able to try properly for two months now. Argh.

vickywood3 · 24/04/2018 19:56

I am 5 days late for AF tested 1 day after missed period and 4 days with BFN. Gutted because you could usually set a clock by me as am so regular 😢. Body is playing cruel tricks on me. @passtheaftereights how are you getting on? Congrats to all your BFPs xx

Lemonsnlime · 24/04/2018 16:52

AF this morning 😒 congratulations to the BFPs 👍

sprinkleofsunshine · 24/04/2018 13:12

Congrats to all the bfp's and good luck to you next cycle @DBoo

Is anyone else still symptom spotting and waiting to test? Holding out to test as I know it's too early but might do it on weekend (af due next Monday). Going to be so disappointed/confused if not caught feel like I've had loads of symptoms Hmm

PocketFullofMumbles · 24/04/2018 09:04

@TinySnowBuddy Grin

Woody096 · 23/04/2018 22:21

I am 3dpo... May I join?

Age- 32
Ttc #2
Cycle 8
It didn’t take this long with my first, about 6 months last time so a bit anxious that it’s not happened. Now in the 2ww😳

DBoo · 23/04/2018 22:15

Think im definitely out. Congrats on the bfps ladies. For those in the same boat as me i shall see u on the next 2ww thread. Bring some luck with you haha.

Good luck with the pregnancies all you bfp'ers!

TinySnowBuddy · 23/04/2018 21:43

@PocketFullofMumbles that puts the BF in BFP Wink

PocketFullofMumbles · 23/04/2018 21:32

I’m so sorry @starwishing Sad and congrats @EnglishIrishRose 🙂

So after several days of shadowy positives on internet cheapies, I followed @waitingforbubbles lead and got a frer - can I now start to get excited?! This is officially no longer a ‘faint’ positive, right?

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sprinkleofsunshine · 23/04/2018 20:18

Hi @Clacton fx for you this cycle! I'm 7dpo, due af week today. It's my first month ttc baby 1. I joined the group super early though so feel like I've been waiting ages already ha

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