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Squinter or evap?

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gjddyUp · 28/03/2018 09:09

Please can anyone talk to me honestly about this pic? Anyone who knows about Evap lines?

Due to test this morning so I waited and did the test, thought it was negative but my minds eye said it was faintly there.

I've become a crazed person who apparently cracks open preg tests now! But here's the pic...

Background - two rounds of ivf. This was a FET.

Squinter or evap?
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PonyPals · 04/04/2018 11:44

You're welcome to join us in a current thread.
Not sure if the link works.

IVF/ICSI (2) - A supportive group of ladies at various stages of the ivf/icsi journeywww.mumsnet.com/Talk/infertility/3200501-IVF-ICSI-2-A-supportive-group-of-ladies-at-various-stages-of-the-ivf-icsi-journey

DartmoorDoughnut · 02/04/2018 09:55

So sorry Sad lots of love on the way and fingers crossed for the future Flowers

RLOU88 · 02/04/2018 08:57

Flowers and my best wishes to you x

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gjddyUp · 02/04/2018 08:23

Thank you. Finally started AF last night and it's a very painful one too.

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mineallmine · 02/04/2018 00:46

Ah giddy up I'm so sorry. It's just shit. Like you, my IVF cycles didn't go easy and I had many cancellations. It makes it a whole other level of hard when even the IVF isn't straightforward.
You need to find ways to be very kind to yourself for the next while while you mourn this loss.

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gjddyUp · 31/03/2018 13:56

Thanks so much Chintaria that's kind of you to come on and say. Yes that does give me hope and I won't give up.

I haven't told anyone at work but I think for the next round I might have to tell my manager because trying to have short notice days off work is quite stressful too.

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Lamaitresse · 31/03/2018 13:30

So sorry that it’s another cp GjddyUp, it’s tough I know. I just wanted to come on to wish you well & to give you a bit of hope. We went through lots of IVF to have our dd (now 4) and so many FET’s I lost count. My goodness it was difficult, that terrible sadness when it doesn’t work, and the strength you need to pick yourself back up and try again. The round before falling pregnant I was devastated, and just about ready to give up. Distraction is definitely a good idea - and slowly you’ll start to feel stronger again. Wishing you lots of luck, and a successful round next time round...

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gjddyUp · 31/03/2018 09:31

Thank you guys I really appreciate your support. Going to have a day of doing things I wouldn't have been able to do if I was pregnant I think! Distraction will be the key.

I just want to dive into my next round straight away now but I know it's not that easy.

At least I have a busy Easter planned. Hope you guys are all up to lots of nice things this weekend too.

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skippykips · 31/03/2018 09:05

Oh @gjddyUp I am so so sorry. ❤️

BrutusMcDogface · 31/03/2018 08:38

So, so sorry 💐😔

RLOU88 · 31/03/2018 08:35

So sorry x

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gjddyUp · 31/03/2018 08:23

Thank you. I just wish this would happen for us naturally without having to go through all of this.

Last year it took us the whole year to have one round of ivf.

Started cycle in Feb and had egg collection, turned out to have OHSS so had to freeze and wait a few cycles to get back to normal. Finally had my egg transferred last May and got pregnant June but it was a chemical.

Then had to wait more cycles to 'reset' and stimming and egg collection in October. Fresh transfer couldn't take place as they saw fluid in my one remaining tube so they wanted me to wait a few cycles.

So that takes us to now! Had a grade A blastocyst transferred and now it was another chemical.

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kikisparks · 31/03/2018 08:19

So so sorry OP x

Speedy85 · 31/03/2018 08:15

Bad luck OP Flowers I'm very sorry.

doowapwap · 31/03/2018 08:11

I'm really sorry op

MrsDx · 31/03/2018 08:04

I’m sorry OP. I’m thinking of you. There’s nothing anyone can do at the moment but I really am so sorry x

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gjddyUp · 31/03/2018 07:44

Looks like it was another chemical pregnancy

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gjddyUp · 31/03/2018 07:44

This is a FRER this morning with FMU and it's 3days after test day so I can't get any more accurate than that

Squinter or evap?
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doowapwap · 30/03/2018 18:28

Fingers crossed for you, I'm really hoping you get a positive

kikisparks · 30/03/2018 14:40

Fx for the FRER!

DartmoorDoughnut · 30/03/2018 14:35

@gjddyUp I’ve got my fingers crossed you can get another FRER and get another positive

Speedy85 · 30/03/2018 13:58

OP if it were me I would probably carry on the meds today and take one more test tomorrow if possible just to be sure with first urine if the day.

Flowers for you either way Flowers This sounds like a stressful experience.

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gjddyUp · 30/03/2018 13:56

Thanks RLOU

I have gone out and bought some proper FRER just now. I need to know for sure as it makes me feel nervous that they've told me to stop meds in case I am pregnant.

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gjddyUp · 30/03/2018 13:51

I really hope it's positive sleepycat but I do think it's a bit insensitive to post that on this thread to be honest.

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Shannan · 30/03/2018 13:25

Looks positive to me! Fingers crossed xx

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