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TTC #2 April BFPs

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CatRen27 · 18/03/2018 21:13

Following on from our last (many) threads, this is one for anyone hoping for a Christmas baby number two.

My stats -

Age: 35
Cycle: 24+ lost count..
DC: 3yo this month
AF due 19th April
Not a hint of a bfp in that time

I'm charting now and send myself crazy every tww so come join me for the bumpy ride x

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sodababy2 · 05/04/2018 22:21

See how you feel then @newmama2018 - I understand the feeling of not wanting to miss a cycle though. Rooting for you!

newmama2018 · 05/04/2018 22:18

@sodababy2 due to endometriosis my cycle is in two parts and I have two ovulation peaks and two periods. I usually ovulate anywhere between day 8 and day 20 so it's not exact. Ovia says I'm a 7.5 today and my opk are not dark yet.

Online research has mixed reviews. I'm not sure OH wants to do anything because it was o my yesterday I had surgery. After three years though I'm reluctant to miss a month.

newmama2018 · 05/04/2018 22:15

@mayago it means waiting up till 1am till the golf finishes and I didn't sleep last night. I'll work through the pain though 😆 it hurts a lot I won't lie. Just don't know if this month is a write off

mayago · 05/04/2018 22:13

I'm due to test Saturday if I'm following Ovia. AF due around the 11th! And yes, I have bought a pack of FRERs... Cramps and spots mean I'm obviously preggo, so yes, the crazy has already set in here Wink

I'd BD newmama. It can't hurt, unless it's not comfortable for you, of course.

sodababy2 · 05/04/2018 22:12

Did they say anything about sex @newmama2018? I'd probably give your body a bit of a chance to heal but if you don't want to miss a cycle then maybe just wait a few days if CD9 is early for you?

newmama2018 · 05/04/2018 22:10

@sodababy2 it's where they do keyhole surgery under general anaesthetic to look inside your tubes. They flush it out with dye to check for blockages and I had endometriosis cut away too. I have three little incisions because they had to use more than the camera.

Just don't know if it's worth getting it on tonight and having practice sex. I'm cd9 so shouldn't be ov yet but not sure if the surgery will make it a dud month anyway.

sodababy2 · 05/04/2018 22:07

Sorry @newmama2018 not sure what a laparoscopy is. Is it for fertility? Isn't there a test where they put dye round your tubes and it can help fertility as it flushes everything out?

sodababy2 · 05/04/2018 22:05

Yes pink acupuncture is for fertility. I'm not really certain I believe it but it makes me feel like I'm doing something.

On the other hand I got pregnant with DD on second month of acupuncture after 8 months TTC before then. Same this time round - tried for 4 months then did acupuncture and got BFP 2 months later (but obviously lost it). She also knew I was pregnant this time too. So maybe there is something in it?

newmama2018 · 05/04/2018 21:56

Hi everyone! How are we all this evening?

I had my laparoscopy yesterday and wondering if it's worth BD tonight as I'm cd9 or if this month won't work because of the dye.

Pinklily1 · 05/04/2018 21:18

Welcome to largepinot and knittinggurl.

Who is our next tester?!

Soda, is the acupuncture to help with TTC? I've heard that that and reek can have benefits.

sodababy2 · 05/04/2018 16:54

Welcome @largepinotplease and @Knittinggurl

Oh no on the tests @mayago! I'd be wasting more money on FRERS..... When are you due to test?

I think I'm 5dpo today. Got acupuncture tomorrow and feeling ok at the moment but I know the crazy will set in properly next week

TwittleBee · 05/04/2018 07:42

largepinotplease hey there! FX for you that you wont have to be on this bus beyond this cycle as you get the xmas baby you want Smile

Haha I am so worried about Xmas baby CatRen keep thinking about maybe we should put this cycle on pause but cant bring myself to suggest it to DP. If we fall this cycle DD would be 1st Jan (my birthday!) which is nice but I fear #2 will come early like #1! And as for the TWW, I am just a mess the whole cycle apart from when AF is around haha!

CatRen27 · 05/04/2018 04:15

Hello largepinot and welcome! Love your name Wine It's crazy how different #2 can be isn't it, it only took 3 cycles to conceive DD and 20+ months on I'm STILL HERE.. Hopefully it's a christmas bub for you! If we conceived this cycle the due date is 25 Dec haha.. ohhh dear. I'll also start testing on the 13th I think (10dpo) and go from there. AF due around the 15th I think as I ov'd slightly earlier than previous months.

HATE the tww.. I've got a tonne of work to do but work from home so am spending most of my time thinking about it. I'll be a mess next week!

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largepinotplease · 04/04/2018 17:18

Hi All, I'd like to jump on board if I may 😬

Age:29
DS 18months

Been off the pill since late November but didn't officially start ttc until January. I really thought last month was the one but unfortunately not. I ovulated last Thursday and I'm just coming to the end of the first week of the tww. I can test on the 12th as AF due the 13th (all according to my app) as I have a 31 day cycle (again according to the app) I'm really hoping for a bfp this time as it'd be lovely to have a Christmas baby. It only took 3 cycles to conceive DS but it's been harder to find the time and energy this time round 🙈

Good luck all 🤞🏻

mayago · 04/04/2018 15:44

Twittle I've come to realise the First Response tests in the pink wrappers are FRERs, and the white ones are FRRR. And you can guess what I have multiples of upstairs Hmm..

TwittleBee · 04/04/2018 15:01

Knittinggurl bless you, I am the same, DS was an accident (one time no protection was used too!) so certainly was shocked this is taking so long. Can't believe that its so common to take over a year to conceive still.

CatRen27 ah thank you! Perhaps my cycle will be going back to being short like it was a few years ago! Used to be 26/27 days past year its been 29/30 days

CatRen27 · 04/04/2018 14:15

Hey twittle yep we dtd every day for 4 days before ov so i think we're in the running! And yes the date of ov can definitely change, what's usually stable is the length of your luteal phase so af should always arrive the same number of days after ov. Mine ranges from cd16-19

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Knittinggurl · 04/04/2018 13:54

Thanks @TwittleBee and @CatRen27 - fingers crossed for you too - and everyone else on here

No I didn't struggle with DD, it was quick - I got really lucky and I'm only realising now how lucky I was. Rationally I knew it was really likely to take longer a second time but in my heart I'd got my hopes up unrealistically high. Wishing Baby dust for everyone this month

TwittleBee · 04/04/2018 12:22

HidCat FCK! Just realised you are right! Means ones I have indoors already must be too NOOOOOOO! Why would we need a Rapid response bloody hell!

Anyone know if its usual to ovulate a few days earlier than normal btw? Wonder if the relaxation of not being at work for 5 days is bringing ov on earlier for me? Had lots of EWCM today and had a skin break out yesterday (which usually happens 3 days before ov)

HidCat · 04/04/2018 12:15

@TwittleBee watch out in Asda though as all the ones I ever visit only stock the Rapid Response, not the early response! Make sure it says 6days earlier on the packaging! Can you tell I got caught out on that one lol.

TwittleBee · 04/04/2018 08:07

YassQueen lovely hope you got in plenty of DTD!

Knittinggurl hi there! as CatRen27 rightly pointed out any amount of TTC is tough! Hope you get your BFP soon lovely.

CatRen27 Did oyu have plenty of DTD before Ovulation though? I'm sure timings will still be okay! FX!

We DTD last night, I should be ovulating in 5/6days! I've decided I'm giving in this month and just admitting I need to stock up on FRER from asda rather than going for last minute runs to pricier stores to get them because I cannot resist them HAHA

CatRen27 · 03/04/2018 22:51

Welcome knittinggurl! Its certainly no competition, ttc for any length of time can be rough, sorry its getting you down. Did you struggle with dc1?

I had ov pain last night so didn't dtd which is crazy but the last thing i needed was to be jabbed in the cervix by dh.. romantic huh! We'll dtd tonight just in case and then calm down a bit i think.

mayago i know it's strange, usually its the opposite but i swear having those few nights to ourselves brought stress levels right down to zero. Turns out I'm quite tightly wound up most of the time..!

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Knittinggurl · 03/04/2018 19:20

Please can I join too?

Age 39
DD 9 months
Cycle 4

I'm on CD 17 today and had my peak OPK 48 hours ago so I don't think there's anything more I can do this month. AF due 17 April.
I know many others have been TTC for much longer - I'm so sorry to hear your stories. Still getting me down a bit now tho....

mayago · 03/04/2018 14:31

Cat I think they're 25mIU/ml as opposed to like 6.5 for FRERs. The packaging says not 6 days early, but effective from the day of missed period, or something like that. Such a rookie mistake!! I'm also out of ICs, and don't want to stock up as I'd rather just be pregnant already! And I have 4 or 5 FRRRs and a couple packs of digitals I couldn't resist when there was a special offer...

Sounds like this thread will be quiet as all the positive OPKs will mean people have better things to do over the next couple of days... Grin

Also - how lovely to read DTD bringing you together this month Cat TTC can do the opposite here!!

YassQueen · 03/04/2018 14:04

I've just started using FF based on the recommendations here so thanks all Grin hopefully it'll be better than Ovia which I find really off.

Just had a positive OPK so thankfully haven't missed ovulation. DH just grinned when I told him Grin

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