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Reality check... PLEASE!

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Kate8989 · 10/03/2018 08:13

Hi everyone,

It’s around 9 weeks since MC (I was about 10 weeks gone). About 2 weeks after got pelvic pains on left side. Been back and forth to Doctors but nobody knows what it could be.
I have been in severe emotional distress since it all happened, I suffer from anxiety and depression. I’ve had a period since the MC and it was fine (i convinced myself it would be awful).
I need a logical brain to tell me my psychological state could be impacting my body?!!? I can’t take the worry anymore! X

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kaytees · 10/03/2018 20:14

@Kate8989 I'm so sorry you're still feeling so anxious about it all. Your anxiety and depression most likely are having an impact, but at the same time I would hate to think you were minimising the pain etc by saying 'oh it's just because I'm anxious' - pain is still pain if you know what I mean!

Did you get a private appointment booked in the end? X

physicskate · 10/03/2018 10:04

From one Kate to another - I'm sorry you're having such a hard time coping. I'd probably feel quite similar to you as my long journey has taken a real toll on my mental health and resilience.

It is possible your anxiety is affecting your physical health.

Have you been checked to ensure you didn't retain any tissue? Or maybe an infection? Especially if you're still experiencing pain, I'd ask for these things to be checked.

I'm sorry I can't be of more help to you! Didn't want this post to go unanswered...

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Kate8989 · 10/03/2018 09:20

Bump- hand hold

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