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BFN at 11dpo.. anyone else just fed up?!!

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LouLouB1987 · 30/01/2018 08:40

Just ranting. Sick of seeing one line. Sick of my body playing tricks on me. Sick of AF. And sick of TTC all together!!!

This was cycle 12, AF due 4th Feb. Had a strange one this month. No PMS at all, usually regular 28 days, boob ache after ovulation right up to AF but this month, nothing. Been really crampy too. So i hoped for the best, let down again! I know its still 5 days until AF but hoped a first response would give me that illusive BFP!! Ah well, I'll moan, nothing will change and I'll be back here again next month 😂

Rant over!!!

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Merrz · 30/01/2018 12:02

Yes feeling your pain! Really really fucked off with ttc at the minute. Beginning of March will be 1 year since i came off the pill, just never imagined it would take this long.
No idea what's going on with me this cycle, been regular 30 days since July so af should of arrived on friday past, now cd 35, been getting mild af type cramping as if she's on her way since thursday but no sign and BFN on FRER this morning Sad
ReeRee that's interesting, now i'm going to get my hopes up. Doubtful though, 16dpo today and 4 days late so surely would be showing something by now if was bfp

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LouLouB1987 · 30/01/2018 11:46

@shortgreengiraffe its so hard. Month in and out going though the same struggles. 2 years wow! Have you had any fertility checks? Best of luck though 💕

@ReeRee6108 thanks for the positive vibes! I guess your not out until a proper period kicks in! Fingers crossed as always and lots of luck to you that it all goes well!! X

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ReeRee6108 · 30/01/2018 11:29

Hey Lou, I had a similar month no PMS nothing. Loads of negatives got some faint positives on CD42 (usually 32day cycles). Went to the dr who was not helpful at all refused to give me a blood test and told me they were negative, I felt super stupid. However the next day I started bleeding lightly, so I thought this was AF. Fast forward 2 weeks I still feel not right. Took 2 first responses 2 days ago, again faint positives. Waiting for some more tests to see if the lines get darker in case I'm imagining them. But this would now be CD55, my first pregnancy I didn't ever test positive on urine until 7.5 week mark. So stay hopeful, your not out yet xx

shortgreengiraffe · 30/01/2018 11:26

I feel your pain. 2 years TTC here. I've hardly ever actually taken a test as I usually get AF symptoms (post ovulation boobs etc) in the window between when it would show up on a HPT and AF. But when I do it's crushing to see absolutely nothing. I just want my second line!

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LouLouB1987 · 30/01/2018 11:08

@theworstwife I think I need to do the same in future! Pack up the tests and just go with the flow lol!!

Best of luck to you. Hugs Flowers x

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theworstwife · 30/01/2018 10:45

Totally feeling your pain - TTC is so hard and demoralising, I am trying not to test as I find it easier just to get AF. Sending lots of hugs x

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