BFN at 11dpo.. anyone else just fed up?!!

I’m sorry, I feel your pain... I’m also 11 DPO today, and got a BFN. We’ve been trying for 2 years and this is our second attempt with IUI. This whole process can get quite frustrating at times! Fingers crossed for you, I hope things work out soon.

Hi everyone just wanna jump in maybe give some of uz some hope il give u a run down of my signs symptoms etc this is my 5th child.
Day 3 po I had a headache that I never usually get
Day 5 very energetic sore lower back pain and was having mood swings
Day 7 energetic mood swings I had a couple spots on my chin and lower back pain
Day 8 had headache back pain and little tied
Day 9 backache
Day 10 backache and happy took test negative
Day 11 no bowel movement backache test negative
Day 12 constipated couple irrigated mood swings but was ok I did feel like my legs was getting on my nerves a bit tingling sensation. Negative test
Day 13 negative test constipated
Day 14 constipated positive test
In the mean time in all this I never had any implantation bleeding hardly any cm only last couple days and can’t see it only feel it. I also never had and swelling of breast no nipple changing nothing.
1 day I did have a shooting pain in my breast that was it. My biggest tell sign I would say was vivid dreams I knew straight away that’s why I kept testing I was dreaming everyday from 2dpo and I could remember them and felt so real I had this with all my pregnancies.
I did first response test and clear blue everyday on 13dpo there wasn’t even the slightest of a line not even a squinter woke up this morning day 14dpo took clear blue digital said pregnant 1-2 weeks.
So if u r all getting bfn at 11 12 or 13 dpo there’s hope for uz. I ovulated on day 17 also

@LouLouB1987 hope you are well. I found this thread after testing at 11dpo only to get s BFN and I’m feeling pretty low about it. I wondered if you got your BFP in the end? Xx

Yeah bloods came back negative so still waiting for af to arrive. I'm 2 weeks late now, it's frustrating. Have a great holiday and try to relax, let nature take its course xxx

How are you doing @LouLouB1987?

I am sorry OP. I know it is impossibly hard. It is easier said than done but I do think not keeping tests in the house and only testing when your period is overdue by at least a day or so is the best way to keep sane. You'll still be thinking about it all the time of course, but somehow not going through the testing repeatedly will help. Maybe. Hopefully. I wish you so much luck anyway.

Yup I'm on cd41 with pg symptoms but only BFNs and what I think are probably evap lines but most of me is trying to believe they're very faint BFPs.

Had bloods taken today so will hopefully find out soon!

There it is!

Awk it won't let me upload it but it's a BFP!!

Just got this-shaking I can't believe it!

@ReeRee1608 that middle test...

I'm with you on this. I thought I had all the symptoms after having a early miscarriage in Nov but no it was AF on the way. You have to stay positive it will happen and hopefully soon!

@Kentnurse2015 this is true. fingers crossed otherwise back to trying x

You’re only 11dpo though. I have to be over a week late before I get any sign of a bfp so who knows what will happen!

I'm hearing everyone and relating too much. I'm feeling defeated and like I'm going insane. More pics from today's test. I can't believe how shoddy my body is, how can something we were born to do be so hard feeling super disappointed in myself, just had enough no answers just in la la land.

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Yes I've had a whole load of tests. Diagnosed PCOS (although I believe I am ovulating) and now on Clomid for up to 6 cycles. No idea are that, can't quite bring myself to think about it.

I handle it quite well (I think) most of the time but then the reality kicks in and I feel sad that I really thought I would be starting to think about a second child now not still trying to conceive the first.

It's really weird there seems to be a few of us on MN having a strange long/late af cycle just now. I really hope for us all it's a good sign, fx. Otherwise do you think it could be something to do with xmas?? Like bad diet for a week has messed up our cycles, lol maybe i really am losing my mind

Im in the same boat too!! 10 Dpo and have no symptoms at all really! Am waiting for AF because i can face another BFN. Been almost 2 years now, so frustrating!!!

Feeling your pain today too!! It's been almost a year since I've had my mirena removed, I've got PCOS so very irregular periods and have been taking Clomid the past few months.

Got a BFN on IC at 11 DPO this morning (well, very faint shadowy line but I think it's an evap). Ive sore boobs and no pms yet, I've no more cheapy tests left and I'm not wasting my digis!!

My consultant and gp surgery can't agree who needs to prescribe me more Clomid so I'll probably need to do a non medicated month next month and see what fuckery my body throws at me!

Sorry for the rant, feel better now!!

Omg same here exactly the same since ovulation as well! Think I'm out as tested Friday and bfn I'm on cd30 and no sign of af or spotting and trying not to get hopes up as I'm sure I'm out. Just want af to come or I'll be testing tomorrow