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Maybe this will be our month ! Who is joining me?

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justanotherday4 · 08/01/2018 15:52

Hi all, so I’m in first week of my cycle , CD 4 to be exact, third cycle TTC #2! Anyone else similar and would like some support ? I don’t have anyone to talk about this with RL!

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mummyjl15 · 20/01/2018 09:16

Congratulations @Ktn35 that’s amazing! :)
@mamabear05 yeah I know, it’s been a complete rollercoaster the last few months with lots of BFPs following miscarriages at 6+5 and 4+4 weeks :-(
Hoping this will be our month! CD 10 today with another negative OPK. I’ve been having twinges/pains on and off for 4 days on my lower right side so maybe a sign of ovulating soon? I hope so anyway!! Fingers crossed :) if it’s not our month I’m going to go for the cheaper OPKs next month. Clearblue is so expensive!! Spent £50 this month already!!

mamabear05 · 20/01/2018 07:32

Congratulations @Ktn35 x

Ktn35 · 19/01/2018 23:20

Got a second BFP today so hopefully is going to stay ... will test again on Monday. So that BFN at 9dpo, bfp faint at 12 and clear digital bfp at 13 days. Please keep me updated too! I hope it is all our month!!

mamabear05 · 19/01/2018 21:44

Sorry I don't use the clear blue smiley ones as I'm a poas-aholic and we would need to remortgage if I didn't use internet cheapies lol x

mamabear05 · 19/01/2018 21:42

Awww @mummyjl15 I'm so sorry to hear that you've had 2! That must be awful. I'm terrified now after having 1 and wondering if it's going to happen again :( I started using opks from cd3 if I take the day I started bleeding with the miscarriage as cd1. I got an almost positive one off on cd10 then they went really pale again but then had two days of positives on cd18/cd19 meaning I probably ovulates on cd19/20. I usually ovulate on cd17 so was put back by a few days due to the miscarriage. Tests went negative again on Tuesday but then had a one off almost positive again yesterday. Negative today. Haven't a clue what's going on but I'm assuming I'm in the tww now although when I say positive my opks have only been the same colour not darker than the control line which they have been previously so whether I did or didn't ovulate it's hard to tell x

mummyjl15 · 19/01/2018 18:34

I’m on CD 9 today...negative OPK. Anyone on here that’s had a miscarriage recently? When you get the smiley face how long did you all have before it was a solid smiley?

Ktn35 · 19/01/2018 16:51

We’ll I’ll test again and see later! Coming around to the idea now! How are you going? X

justanotherday4 · 19/01/2018 08:25

I’m sure you are ktn, it must be a whole big mix of emotions for you but try to look ahead positively, there’s no reason why this won’t be a healthy pregnancy.

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Ktn35 · 18/01/2018 21:53

Ovulation is a weird thing and seems to have a mind of its own! I’ve got my fingers crossed for you! Keep us updated! I am still in denial I think ... it’s a strange feeling and I have not responded as I thought I would ... think i’ll test again on Saturday and take it from there. I am scared of a chemical again! X

justanotherday4 · 18/01/2018 20:36

Ah ktn congrats, that’s a very clear bfp!! Try to just enjoy it, easier said than done I know but massive congratulations! Keep us all updated.

I’m CD 14 today, no sign of a positive opk yet.... have been aiming for dtd every other day but much easier said than done with a toddler and working but according to my app this is my first fertile day so will have to find the energy somewhere lol.

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Ktn35 · 18/01/2018 20:00

So umm 12dpo and all symptoms stopped. So I decided to test just to eliminate the possibility and accept BFN but this happened ... it is a line I think?! Is it to early to accept it???? Feel suddenly freaked out!

Maybe this will be our month ! Who is joining me?
Maybe this will be our month ! Who is joining me?
Maybe this will be our month ! Who is joining me?
mummyjl15 · 17/01/2018 21:20

Same here @mamabear05 I had a second miscarriage on 23rd December and I think I had my first AF last week but not entirely sure. I’m using the OPK daily at the mo though, determined to conceive baby number 2 soon! Started off being all chilled and relaxed about it all but 12 months on and 2 miscarriages later I’m getting a bit obsessed now! Haven’t had any caffeine for months and I’m getting withdrawal symptoms haha!

mamabear05 · 17/01/2018 19:30

Hi guys I'll join too if that's ok. Currently 3dpo after early miscarriage (6 weeks) on 27th Dec. Really doubt it will happen for us straight away especially considering I've not really had a 'normal' AF yet but keeping everything crossed! Xx

Ktn35 · 17/01/2018 19:24

Help!!! 11dpo now ... should I test?? I have two frsp and very little will power 😬!!

AmazingGrace16 · 17/01/2018 16:34

Ovia keeps adjusting my fertile window and it's not making sense with the opks I'm doing. Three days of flashing smiles and ewcm is getting gloopier. Cd11 today and I think I might ov around cd11 or 12.

How soon after dtd is it ok to check ewcm?

Woodchuck9 · 17/01/2018 15:07

Fingers crossed my 3rd cycle TTC my 1st and at was due yesterday and no sign of her 😆

Ktn35 · 17/01/2018 14:42

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Ktn35 · 17/01/2018 14:41

@justanotherday4
I haven’t tested at all and I am determined to wait until day 14 too but i’m losing my will power everyday! I have loads of weird aches and twinges this week but I seem to be incapable of differentiating them from AF pains! I’m sure I didn’t used to get thirst twinges before AF ... or did I???!!!!

justanotherday4 · 17/01/2018 13:47

Ktn35 have u managed to avoid testing yet? I’m determined to wait at least 14 dpo this month (assuming ov occurs as no positive opk yet) but I’ll just see how long that lasts, can’t help myself!! Grin

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justanotherday4 · 17/01/2018 13:45

&mummyj15 I’m using opks at the minute too, all negative so far on CD 13.... trying to just dtd every other day but it’s easier said than done!

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mummyjl15 · 17/01/2018 08:31

To be honest @Ktn35 I have no idea! I had a miscarriage at 4+4 weeks 2 days before Christmas and have had 2 lots of bleeding since then so I’m not entirely sure which was my period. I’m going by the last lot of bleeding I had which would make me day 7 today. I know my ovulation dates are all over the place since my first miscarriage in the summer, sometimes it’s day 7 sometimes not until day 20! It’s going to be an expensive month for OPK tests!

Ktn35 · 16/01/2018 20:53

No I haven’t I’m afraid so can’t be much use to you. When’s your next period due? X

mummyjl15 · 16/01/2018 13:56

I started my clearblue digital OPK this morning (day 6), negative. I’ve been having weird pains for 2 solid days now without any stopping, it’s almost like a nerve/twisting sensation in my lower right stomach and I’ve been spotting since my period stopped. That’s if it was a period as it was so much lighter and pink in colour rather than red. Wondering if it was perhaps implantation but it lasted 4 days. Has anyone else had implantation bleeding/cramps before?
Perhaps it was still part of my miscarriage from a couple of weeks ago though so I’ll continue with the OPK until I get that smiley face :)

Ktn35 · 15/01/2018 18:52

Congratulations Brownbear! I am on 9po and am not supposed to be obsessing as we are not trying just not not trying if you know what I mean! However, I have become obsessed 😬 had a chemical last month and suddenly realised that I really did actually want it to happen. Feeling a bit periody today though 😔!!

Stee1 · 15/01/2018 15:49

I'm officially 2dpo by apps but had a bit of pain/cramps yesterday so could of been ovulation now for the 2ww 🤞

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