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10dpo BFN - am I out?

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bubblybrit · 29/12/2017 08:29

So I promised myself that I would follow the advice of fellow Mumsnetters and not test too early....last all week but then couldn’t resist.

AF is due between 1st and 7th January. It will be the 1st if following trend on last cycle! Opk showed positive on 19th December so according to instructions ovulation should have taken place within 12-36 hours?

Hence this is why I think I’m 10dpo but BFN with a FRER this morning.

Do you think that I have just tested too early or that I’m unlikely to get a BFP this month?

Thanks for advice - still pretty new to ttc!

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bubblybrit · 12/01/2018 20:42

Yeah I don’t think last cycle was very healthy for me. Was way too obsessed so the pressure was off the chart!

Hopefully the phased return is keeping you occupied if nothing else. Plus it’s only for a few weeks!

Will you still get your implant when af next arrives?

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Ameliaxx · 12/01/2018 20:32

Yeah thata definately a good thing stops you driving yourself mad about it lol! Im okay back at work on phased return just office based but completely and utterly bored bu only for three more weeks hopefully. I never got my implant done the lady wasnt in the week of my AF and my AF only lasts like 3 days n they only put you one in if youre on. Not really trying or anythin this month though and not temping for the first time in months it was getting obsessive but ive used an opk the last couple days to use them all up and im ovulating again my cycles go so quickly lol xxx

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bubblybrit · 12/01/2018 19:17

Hey. I’ve been pretty relaxed this cycle tbh. Got so much on in January that I’ve not been able to think about ttc properly...maybe a good thing?

How’s you? X

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Ameliaxx · 12/01/2018 18:31

Hows things going hun? Xx

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bubblybrit · 05/01/2018 18:58

Yes fx. It’s only second cycle so still early days I guess.

Perhaps getting back to work will help as give you a little routine? As well as keeping you busy xx

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Ameliaxx · 05/01/2018 18:35

Urgh how crap! Hopefully next month though 🤞

Im up and down really i go back to work monday but as an admin just answering the phone etc just want to get back to normal now x

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bubblybrit · 05/01/2018 17:54

Didn’t test today as AF arrived this morning? Sad

How you doing today?

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Ameliaxx · 05/01/2018 16:27

How did your test go today? X

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bubblybrit · 04/01/2018 23:46

I’m really sorry to hear that @ameliaxx. I hope that things improve for you soon and that your mental health gets back on track xx

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Ameliaxx · 04/01/2018 23:32

I cant see on my phone wont let me englarge it 🙈🙈

Think it went okay but something else happened this evening so not in a good state of mind for a new job now mental health at an all time low again unfortunately but thank you for asking xxx

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bubblybrit · 04/01/2018 23:08

It’s a total squinter @teaandtoast85. I’m approx 15DPO so would have thought the line would have been darker if positive. However I tested in the afternoon (so not fmu clearly) and AF not due until Sunday!

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TeaAndToast85 · 04/01/2018 23:04

I think I can see something, @bubblybrit

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bubblybrit · 04/01/2018 23:02

This was the test I took this afternoon....I can see a v v v faint line. Mixed reviews on other threads. What do you think? I’m going to text again tomorrow with fmu to see if the line gets any darker...how was your interview? X

10dpo BFN - am I out?
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Ameliaxx · 04/01/2018 22:58

Hun how was your test?! 🤞🤞

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bubblybrit · 03/01/2018 17:13

Thank you for thinking of me @ameliaxx. Hope you interview goes well. You must also let me know xx

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Ameliaxx · 03/01/2018 17:03

Testing day for you tomorrow! Let me know how it goes 🤞🤞🤞

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bubblybrit · 01/01/2018 20:35

That’s awful that the right type of help and support is not readily available for those that need it. Hopefully your oh and family are there for you.

I think I would have tested by now had I any tests in the house! Lol Smile perhaps for the best that I ran out. Almost scared to test as at the moment there is still hope. If I get a BFN then it’s on to the next cycle which would be quite disappointing Sad

Yes think the interview has come at the right time - gives you something to focus on! I’ll keep my fx for you x

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Ameliaxx · 01/01/2018 20:21

Ill be okay i dont get any help and support but thats the mental health service for you lol! I know im panicking about it only being 3 days away now! Yeah having the implant put in tomorrow then can hopefully focus on the interview. You tempted to test yet? 😝

Hopefully we both get a bit of luck on the 4th lol xxx

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bubblybrit · 01/01/2018 19:48

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope that you are ok and getting the support that you need.

Hopefully you can now focus on your job interview. Wishing you all the success in the world.

A fresh start to a new year will hopefully do you the world of good xx

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Ameliaxx · 01/01/2018 18:51

No im giving up with it completely now and the implant lasts 3 years n then its changed. Its just too much with my bipolar my lifes already a rollercoaster without adding this rollercoaster to it. And my personality disorder isnt being helped by any of it either so its for the best really i was warned against it months ago and ive been getting worse mentally everyday as ive got to be off meds while ttc too thats why i ended up psychotic for three months. So its for the best wasnt meant to happen else it would have wouldnt it :)

Still hopeful for you! 🤞🤞🤞

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bubblybrit · 01/01/2018 18:07

Ah I’m sorry to hear that. Gutted for you 😢 are you just going to have a break for a bit and then try again? I wouldn’t get too disheartened as it is perfectly normal for it to take up to 12 months xx

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Ameliaxx · 01/01/2018 14:58

Well my AF has shown today, so that was my last cycle trying lol ive given it 4 months if it should happen it would have so im having the implant done tomorrow

Happy new year to you too! Cant wait to see what result you get on the 4th! 🤞🤞🤞

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bubblybrit · 01/01/2018 09:52

I work in a sales team within financial services so the pressure is always there to hit the many targets set!

My af hasn’t shown yet and not feeling any of the symptoms so far. So think I’ve either had a longer cycle (and it will show later this week Sad) or I’m in with a shout of being pregnant Smile. Don’t want to get my hopes up though!

Phew. Glad it’s not just me and DH that have been discussing baby names lol Smile

Happy New Year 🎉

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Ameliaxx · 31/12/2017 20:40

Aww what field do you work in? As ive been off sick for three months i havent worked through any TWW as yet but itll go a lot faster when im back at work lol.

I know 20% is crap when people just so happen to get accidently pregnant on the pill or without even tracking i just dont know how that can possibly happen!

Yeah AF comes and its like a sinking feeling isnt it. I usually have cramps a few days before AF but i havent as yet and my temp from this time last month was a lot lower and started dropping fairly rapidly at this point. I swear throughout today my boobs have doubled in size theyve gone massive and heavy dont know whats happening want to chop them off lol 😂

Lol we discussed baby names before we even came off the pill 😂

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bubblybrit · 31/12/2017 19:54

My DH and I definitely dtd at the right time this month so here’s hoping! It’s just rubbish that there is only a 20% chance per cycle of actually getting that BFP. I go from being excited to hopeful to disappointed when af arrives!

Just ignore your work colleagues. Clearly they do not understand your situation at all. You should be proud that you have come through the other side much stronger and happier Smile Don’t let anyone put you down!!

Yes I work in a fairly stressful job so don’t really have much time to think about anything. Think this tww seems longer as I have been off over xmas and can’t get it out of my mind. My DH and I have already discussed baby names.....talk about jumping ahead lol Smile

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