TTC after pregnancy loss - thread 15 - Christmas miracles

@DaisyMay25 thanks! 🤞🤞 i was expecting af today although sometimes my cycles can be longer so maybe Monday. And my last bleed was after my ERPC so it's possible I'm completely wrong!

@Boboelephant how exciting! Fingers crossed!! When's Af due for you?

@DaisyMay25 I think tomorrow. Will just use an IC but tomorrow is cd33 and that's when I got my very faint bfp last time so fingers crossed!!

@Boboelephant I'm gonna do a sneaky one on Sunday, luckily I've got loads of internet cheapies! When are you testing again?

@ek78 I know what you mean!! This message board has helped me so much during the past month. Fingers crossed af stays away and Sunday you get your bfp.
Sorry no early joy @DaisyMay25. It's always nice to think you'll get the bfp before af is due isn't it!? Are you going to wait for Tuesday now or do a sneaky test Sunday?
I keep telling myself I should allow for this to be one of my longer cycle months and wait til Tuesday but honestly I'll probably test tomorrow again! 🙈

Thanks @bobotheelephant! Not 100% on ov day. It’s my second month of using digital opks. I got the flashing smiley for 2 day’s then the day I expected the fixed smiley, I got a bloody error message on the stick. by the time I tested the next day it was flashy smiley. I assumed I had missed the lh rush on the test but was ovulating - which would be in sync with my Fertility app and previous months pattern. So who knows? I’ll wait til Sunday for AF and then test again if it doesn’t show. This message board is a lifeline.

*late

Bfn for me too. AF is due Monday, and I'm never let so we will see!

Ahh sorry @ek78! Although its not over until AF shows up! Are you sure about your ovulation dates?

Argh. BFN for me - part of me doesn’t believe the test but I used clear blue early response so should be showing by now. Still no AF which is weird for me, I never go this long. Congrats @coastalchick! Glad to see some good news.

@Kkk87 oh the baby showers would be so tough! You poor thing. I don't think I could handle one of those at this point.
@Mimilicious013 haha thanks! Yesterday I did use a frer but I have a stack of IC's to use from now on. I made sure I went to the toilet early before I could be tempted to test. So now I HAVE to wait until tomorrow. I have weird slightly painful stomach twinges/cramps this morning so who knows?? Also a bit of back pain. But no AF yet so fingers crossed. My cycle tends to be 31 then 34 days then 31 again so not sure which one I'm on!
Good luck to all the Friday testers!!! Has anyone tested yet?

fx for you too @ek, really hope you woke up with no af

@bobo, how are the symptoms today and keeping an eye on your bfp post soon. really hope you are using ics dear.

congratulations @coastal í¼í¾í¼í¾. wishing you all the best hun! !

good luck with testing @daisy, fx for more bfps

Good luck @DaisyMay25 we're thinking of going on holiday around due date but I reckon the baby showers will be before that so don't think I'll be able to get away with not going. Found out yesterday that one of them actually shares my due date. :(

@pioe I'm testing tomorrow, it might still be too early!

I'm lucky we was away when baby showers happened, DH went to see our friends 3 day old yesterday, I couldn't bring myself to go

Congrats coastal that's brilliant news! It's so nice to be happy for people being pregnant again for some reason I just feed sad about all my friends. @Kkk87 oh god I haven't got to the baby showers yet. Dreading that. Anyone else testing tomorrow?

marty there’s one about TTC a girl. I envy others their blissful ignorance.

Thanks ladies! Of course I will worry every moment now after last time but am very grateful it's happened. Just have to hope it sticks now

Congrats costal! Great news!

@flat white
I must of missed something which thread is awful

@DaisyMay25 that thread is awful! I once got abuse from a woman on here because I said that people should focus on baby being healthy, not gender, and that I'd be grateful to be pregnant at all (I wasn't at the time). She was a right cow! I can't stand people like that when there are so many women out there struggling with infertility, loss etc.

What I'm also coming across are women oozing with confidence about pregnancy, which is fine, but to the extent that it's irritating. They have absolutely no idea what it's like to be so terrified every day of something going wrong!

Hi ladies! Anyone who would like to join the FB group needs to PM me with the email address you use for FB and I'll add you.

@coastalchick congrats again! Yay! Xx

Congrats @coastalchick!

Congratulations @coastalchick!! What wonderful news. Fingers crossed it's a sticky one!

Congratulations @coastalchick -what fantastic news!