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December Bus - Christmas Wishes

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peterpanwendy · 05/11/2017 09:33

Hi all,

I’ve decided to take the plunge and make a December Bus. I know it’s still early in Nov but for those of us whose cycles fall early in the month it’ll be nice for us to have a new thread!

I’m 23
TTC #1
Cycle: 2

Had so many symptoms in October (unusual for my regular AF) so felt so disappointed when it wasn’t meant to be.

Anyway let’s hope December is our month and hope for that Christmas surprise! SmileHalloween GrinStar

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Owlpatrol · 01/12/2017 08:37

@Babydreaming @Fia256 snap did an ic this morning and a bfn for me as expected although I was getting my hopes up as we had this cheese yesterday and the smell made me gip! Anyway af due sunday or Monday fairly certain I'm out Sad

Fia256 · 01/12/2017 07:27

I've just used one of the tests on my clear blue monitor. Knew it would be pointless as got a bfn on frer yesterday morning and I know the CB aren't as sensitive. Came up as not pregnant, but then when I took the stick out the machine, I can see a very faint second line. Don't know what to think as I know you can't really trust blue dye!

Gem173 · 01/12/2017 07:10

I see a faint line @Babydreaming so looks positive! Fx it darkens and sticks x

Fia256 · 01/12/2017 07:08

@Babydreaming that's definitely a bfp congratulations! Let's hope this is going to be a lucky thread!

Gem173 · 01/12/2017 07:05

Cd 11 Temps back up from 35.97 to 36.17 so hopefully it stays risen in time for my ovulation dip/rise :)

Babydreaming · 01/12/2017 07:02

Do you mind if I stay on this thread til it darkens? I’m not convinced it’s going to stick! I’m not telling anyone else (including my husband) so it’s nice to talk to others about it!

I’ll tell my husband in one week if it’s still positive (will be my babies 1st birthday 1 week today so will be double celebration!)

FruitandNutty · 01/12/2017 06:59

@LookingAtTheStars89 mine is due next Saturday so one day after you! It still feels so far away doesn’t it.

Sparklesdontshine · 01/12/2017 06:53

Eeek @babydreaming that looks promising!!!

I'm not bothering testing today I'm that sure that I'm out. I have spent a fortune on first response this month, and have none left now so I'm just waiting for af to arrive over the weekend.

Foreverretro · 01/12/2017 06:44

@Babydreaming that looks like a line to me - congratulations! Everything crossed that it sticks for you!

Babydreaming · 01/12/2017 06:29

@fia256 sorry I don’t really understand temping! That sounds positive though? I feel so hot at the moment, was getting night sweats last night even though temp set at sameness as always!

FruitandNutty · 01/12/2017 06:28

@Babydreaming a line is a line! Congratulations!! Test again tomorrow, probably just needs time to build up HCg levels. Also not everyone gets implantation bleeding.

Fia256 · 01/12/2017 06:13

Sorry got myself confused there, today's was 37.09, which is a 0.14 jump from yesterday x

Babydreaming · 01/12/2017 06:12

SORRY I meant accepting of a BFN

Fia256 · 01/12/2017 06:11

I'm out of tests now, but my temp has been climbing over the last few days, today it's gone up 0.14! Had a bit of spotting on Wednesday and one tiny bit yesterday, typical pre af spotting.

Example of my temps are - last Friday 36.74.
Then the last 4 days have been - 36.86, 36.90, 36.96 and today - 37.14?!?!?! If AF ends up coming, it's going to be really cruel as these temps are getting my hopes up!!

Babydreaming · 01/12/2017 06:11

Happy December Everyone!!! Time for those advent calendars!

So I caved a day early and tested and now I’m kicking myself. See pic below.

It’s a VERY faint line - its a bit darker than the pic in reality but no where near the control. Last time this happened it was a chemical and I didn’t have any implantation bleeding.

Now I feel more anxious than before! Would have been very accepting of a BFP this month as was expected and we wanted to start properly trying next month for a September baby.

I’ve only been using cheap OPKs and PTs from amazon so not sure how sensitive they are.

I’m 9/10dpo

December Bus - Christmas Wishes
December Bus - Christmas Wishes
peterpanwendy · 01/12/2017 06:09

Anybody else feel like us women are not properly educated on the side effects of contraception? It's terrible!

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Foreverretro · 01/12/2017 04:57

@ImpatientMammy I think there’s a few of us on here who have had the mirena out quite recently - for me my first cycle was 45 days, then my second was only 30 but I didn’t ovulate in the second cycle. This is my third cycle & I’m now on CD15 and hopefully going to ovulate this weekend (as per 2 out of the 3 tracking apps I’m using 😂).

In some cases it can take up to a years for your body to return to normal after the mirena (which I have only found out since having mine removed) so try not to obsess over it too much for now (that’s a major case of do as I say not as I do!) & hopefully it won’t take that long for you!

Good luck Smile

LookingAtTheStars89 · 30/11/2017 23:34

@FruitandNutty My period is possibly due next Friday of it's a 28 day cycle. Time does seem to be dragging!

ImpatientMammy · 30/11/2017 23:03

I'm not feeling the drag yet but we're really busy this month so hopefully that will stop me becoming a crazy person. I've heard it can take 6 weeks for a period post mirena but fertility is meant to return immediately 🤔 it's so confusing just gunna OPK and temp and hope for the best 🤞(clearly I'm obsessing a lot more than I'm admitting to myself) can't wait till the group gets another BFP keep us all going x

FruitandNutty · 30/11/2017 22:51

I had mulled wine this evening, I don’t think that counted as it tasted mostly like orange juice! Grin I’m 7dpo tomorrow and so far I’ve had zero noticeable symptoms, just the usual sore boobs and bbt temp rise, although today my temp did dip, but don’t want to read too much into that. Anyone else find this week just dragging so slowly?! I want to get to the end of next week already lol.. hate how ttc makes you wish your weeks away!

peterpanwendy · 30/11/2017 22:11

@LookingAtTheStars89 @ImpatientMammy I didn't give up anything last cycle and it ended in a BFN so thought I'd reign it in this month. Haven't completely given up anything but only drank one night this month and am having decaf hot drinks at home then the odd coffee when I'm out. All in moderation!
I am however consuming unhealthy amounts of pate because I love it so much and don't want to give it up haha!

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slytherindungeon · 30/11/2017 21:44

Hi Can I join in?

TTC #2 (14 months old)

Age 28

Cycle 1 - just had mirena out

Trying to stay relaxed about the while thing as last time is convinced myself it would take months and I conceived on the 2nd cycle. Still have the paranoia about secondary infertility though...

ImpatientMammy · 30/11/2017 21:28

I feel like I'm putting enough pressure on without putting my life on hold too. @louella99 I'm the same not much of a consumer anyway but I drink tea and def won't be avoiding the Christmas cheese without a BFP x

LookingAtTheStars89 · 30/11/2017 21:22

@ImpatientMammy Ugh! I have given up everything you wouldn't eat when you were pregnant AND caffeine AND alcohol!

surreygirl1987 · 30/11/2017 21:16

Party bus sounds AWESOME! 😁

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