Thou shall not tell everyone to eat Yams

cannon it sucks doesn’t it, the dreams are always so realistic as well :( my bank card is lost in the house somewhere lol but at least I can’t buy any tests anyway... runs home and uses an opk as an hpt just to disappoint myself further

bubblegum i hate my brain too. I never recall my dreams but I've definitely had a lot of BFP related ones. I guess our desire to have bub is pretty intense! Sorry you've lost your bank card - hope you cancelled it quickly. But yes, sounds like a blessing in disguise if you aren't able to buy pregnancy tests!

Welcome tired sorry to hear about your losses :(

cannonball I dreamt I was pregnant last night too. I hate my brain.

Af is due tomorrow and I’m already cranky. Luckily I’ve lost my bank card so I can’t pick up any hpt’s after work. I do them knowing full well I’m not pregnant, I may as well just flush a tenner down the toilet

Welcome @Tiredofbeingsotired - sorry to hear you have had a rough journey so far.

Yeah,I'm thinking it's probably a good idea to get proficient at driving before a bubba comes along. I really hate driving though - will have to psych myself up for it!

I don't drive. I've never even had a lesson. DH took me out for a drive a few months ago and I wasn't keen, but I'd like to be able to drive before I become a Mum so I really need to get a wiggle on and book some lessons (although it's not as if becoming a Mum is happening anytime soon).

Sorry to hear just. I need to get some refresher lessons as I passed my test about four years ago but haven't really driven since - we live in London and don't have a car. I'll just add it to the long list of shit that I need to sort out :(

Sorry to hear about AF juney. Hope you're managing to keep yourself sane.

Welcome tired!

Had a dream i was pregnant last night. It's not the first such dream either :( so rubbish to wake up! I'm definitely out this month as we missed my peak days... although we did do the day before I got my peak. Not sure if that is going to help...

Have a good day all! I need a holiday...

Hi @Tiredofbeingsotired, Im also TTC#2 with a 3 year old in tow. Hope you’re not here long (in the nicest sense) x

Hi all, do you mind if I join in? I've been reading for a while now

We're TTC #2 and have been for 18 months now. I'm 40 which I'm sure isn't helping. I've had 3 early MCs/ chemicals and should have just had a baby.

So here I am, chugging high dose Folic acid because of other meds, pretending I'm not symptom bloody spotting for 2 weeks a month, and envious of friends who are pregnant again because 'it just happened'

Currently trying to work out what supplements to add in - just taking a multivitamin and magnesium, and overhauling my diet a bit as life with a 3 year old means I tend to survive on caffeine & sugar.

Thanks @Unicornberry & @Bubblegum89 - I have been, but need to go back. I will this month if/when AF properly arrives. It worries me, I think if I can't get AF right - how am I ever going to concieve?!

I have had a little look too @Unicornberry - may have bought one or two bits!

@bubblegum I now have half a spare bedroom of baby stuff just waiting I have my DDs prams, slings, clothes, blankets, bath, car seat and we use cloth nappies so I even have enough nappies until my future baby potty trains DH can't ever get me to leave the unisex newborn clothes in Tesco!

lovepina oh really? Maybe it’s worth mentioning to a doctor? It does seem an odd thing to have happening a week before your period is due!

unicornberry I’m obsessed with buying baby stuff haha my daughter is 9 now so I have zero baby things

7dpo is really early, have you asked your GP about this?

I've got loads of newborn stuff saved from my last baby, I sorted it out today and I've realised that I don't really need to buy anything for DC2 except some more clothes maybe! That takes the fun out of it because I like to buy while TTC as in the first half of pregnancy I'm too scared to buy anything.

It's been normal the past few months, not normal forever! Lots of problems have reared their ugly head since I have started TTC - typical! 😪

Aw thank you :) lovepina and that’s crap about the bleed. Do you know what causes it? 7dpo is very early to start spotting or having blood tinged cm but then I suppose if it’s normal for you then it’s probably nothing to worry about!

Read one blog @Bubblegum89 - and I love it! Will go back & read from the start!

Ooo love a blog - will read @Bubblegum89! I would have thought IB a few cycles but now I know this is normal for me. Bummer! 😪

lovepina implantation bleeding maybe..?

Ugh just what a nightmare. I’m lucky I live in the town centre. Still a pain getting public transport to the cities but have an Aldi over the road (very dangerous, I’m obsessed with special buys) Did you fail massively? Or was it just one thing? I found nerves just always got the best of me and I made stupid mistakes but I have huge anxiety about driving. I wish I could do it but I just couldn’t. I think a lot of people fail first time but pass second time because they know what to expect. If only it wasn’t so bloody expensive!!

Also, I have a blog about my fertility journey if anyone is interested in reading it :) talesfrommyuterus.wordpress.com/

I have just had blood tinged CM & felt a rush like AF will be starting soon. 😪 I am only 7dpo but know this is the start. That will be why I fancied chocolate this evening, munching it now. 😪

@just rolling and fag over it?? Really?! Best she got pregnant first fucking time too! Agh!

Bubblegum id love it if that were an option here but we live very rurally and we don’t even have pavements, let along public transport. I can’t go to the shop to get milk unless I get the pushbike out....

Mrs totally get what you’re talking about. I am so sodding sensitive all the time. I shed a tear today because there was a newborn in the same lift as me screaming while it’s mum proceeded to roll a fag over it.

Aw justwaiting sorry to hear you failed! I failed four times and gave up. I’m a danger to pedestrians and other drivers so I decided it was best to stop. Good luck for next time!