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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC APRIL 2007 Thread Ctnd.....

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Ambi · 10/04/2007 21:17

OOop sorry, didn't mean to fill up the last one

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jhyesmum · 14/04/2007 10:21

Awen - so glad your doc phoned. At least you know what you're doing now and you can start a fresh again. I know that dosen't really help as we all want to be PG now, but you can relax a little now I hope. ((((hugs))))

MamaMaiasaura · 14/04/2007 10:19

no idea what the french horn thing means.. although freud might

Right.. some good news for me My consultnat just telephoned me How absolutely lovely of her to call me on the weekend from home. Feel very guilty for feeling so ggrr when i didnt get to speak to her on Thursday. She has said for me to start provera.. going to time it to take on Tuesday 17/4 so start AF on the following Monday 23/4. Start clomid at 100mg on CD2, scan around cd8-14 and blood on cd21. Asked her loads of questions like should i chart/temp, use preseed etc and she told me no. She said I should just try not to think about all that and avoid the internet . THink I might move over to May thread v soon as def no BFP for me this month me thinks. Will also try to stop obsessing.. (hard tho). Sorry for long post but feel like a weight has been lifted as I no know the 'plan of action' iykwim.

Told DP and he is just bloody lovely too .. just feeling happy (sunshine helps - what a gorgeaus day!!)

jhyesmum · 14/04/2007 10:17

Awen CD48 AF? waiting to induce AF
Fruitful CD?? AF 21-24 Apr
Scorpio CD36 af was due a week ago
Jhyesmum CD49 af was due 31st March: body is messed up!!!!

I never have groovy dreams like that!!

scorpio1 · 14/04/2007 10:05

Awen CD48 AF? waiting to induce AF
Fruitful CD?? AF 21-24 Apr
Scorpio CD36 af was due a week ago

i keep dreaming im pregnant! [needs to get a life]

fruitful · 14/04/2007 10:03

Awen, last night I dreamt I was being forced to learn to play the french horn. So what does that say about me? . And then I dreamt that dh had organised a surprise birthday party for me and held it while I was out because he knows I don't like surprise parties...

Awen CD48 AF? waiting to induce AF
Fruitful CD?? AF 21-24 Apr

I'm in the 2ww and I don't know what CD I am! So proud of myself.

scorpio1 · 14/04/2007 09:23

doesn't finish until 8 tomorrow....

MamaMaiasaura · 14/04/2007 09:14

aww scorpio.. bet u have loads of RL friends.

Did you get the handbag?

MamaMaiasaura · 14/04/2007 09:12

Morning you lovely ladyez

Had weird dreams again all about babymakng. Dreamt that had AF as well and am crampy this morning. Keep wondering if I missed a late ov last week now (note to self - should stop obsessing)

Waiting4bamino - give dp lots of reassuarnce that he is so important to you, you love him whatever etc He might have a mate chewing his ear about it. x

Welcome Shanti hope you get lucky this month.

should we start a roll coll thing

Awen CD48 AF? waiting to induce AF

scorpio1 · 14/04/2007 09:09

is today going to be quiet because im home alone again and need someone to talk to!

tigerschick · 14/04/2007 08:49

Morning Laydeez!

Scorpio - (I always miss at least 1 letter out of your name, not the same one everytime, odd aren't I? ) LOL at your dss knocking on the door. Dd knocks on the wall! She stands up in her cot and knocks on the wall of the landing! Bless her

Waiting4bambino - Sorry things are a bit Hope you and your dh are able to talk this out, or you could just keep bd-ing and let him get used to it!

Fruitful - No idea about where to get curtains but hpoe you have fun looking!

Hope everyone else is ok today

scorpio1 · 14/04/2007 07:59

good morning

Fruitful-my ds2 had chickenpox at 11 weeks-caught from his older brother.he was fine re curtains-have you tried toys r us?

Waitingforbambino- yeah i think we all get a bit tired of all the sex 'for a reason'!you sounded a bit are you ok?i find sometimes men don't say what they really mean IYKWIM?they also feel pushed out at pregnancy/baby time.my dp remembers vividly when ds2 was a couple of days old,we went for a walk round town (small,everyone knows everyone) and everyone kept asking after me and baby-he felt he wasn't being noticed-it was his baby too.they are a bit silly sometimes!keep trying though!

i got woken up at 6.30am by ds's knocking on their bedroom door to be let out!! i'm off kiddie clothes shopping today, yay!

No AF here, now CD36, period a week late!and BFN! (and i am fine with this BTW)

waiting4bambino · 13/04/2007 23:21

No, he's not disappointed, he said he expected it would take up to a year to happen, as i've been on the pill continuously since i was 16 and I'm now 28! I think he just thinks that we're going to become tired and irritable and wont have time for each other . I hate the thought of that, but i'm 100% committed to giving effort to both of them.... aarrrgghhhh! Conscience go away!

fruitful · 13/04/2007 23:16

Also off to bed, since I suspect it my turn to get up in the morning!

fruitful · 13/04/2007 23:16

I don't think it becomes real for men till they hold the baby. while we tend to get emotionally involved before its even conceived.

Still, my reaction to that kind of convo would def be "WHAT? Don't be so silly" rather than taking what he said seriously!

Did he expect it to happen straight away? Is he maybe disappointed too?

waiting4bambino · 13/04/2007 23:10

I guess so Fruitful, its hard not to feel disappointed though, as i thought he was into it as much as me. Hopefully I'm already pg and he can't change his mind!!!! I know i'm not giving up now anyway. Off to bd soon!

fruitful · 13/04/2007 23:08

Men! Honestly. Tell him he's started something and he can't stop it now just cos he's getting cold feet. If you weren't really great together you wouldn't be thinking about a baby, would you?

And oh boy do I get tired of all the bd'ing to order. Dh is getting his money's worth this time, I think he was quite disappointed that ds only took 1 month.

waiting4bambino · 13/04/2007 22:55

just kind of had the "we're really great together, do we really want to change it?" conversation with dh. Bit gutted really as it was more or less him that suggested we should try, and now i've really gotten into it.... On one hand i can see that he is right, but i just have this massive overwhelming need that i can't explain or control.
Also, getting tired of the bd-ing! We don't usually do it this often and believe me, after some of the days i have at work, i honestly can't be bothered! Does anyone else feel like this? Please say i'm not the only one!

fruitful · 13/04/2007 22:09

Hello all. Listen to you lot saying I got a BFN so I'm not pg!

ITS NOT OVER TILL THE FAT AUNTIE VISITS, OK?

and sometimes not even then!

ds has the chickenpox now. Which at least means he'll have the worst of it over the weekend when dh is here to help. And I won't have to worry about the older children coming into contact with it when we have a tiny baby.

I've been looking at nursery curtains and room decorations today. This is not quite as sad and pathetic as it sounds, we've just moved house and all the rooms need redecorating! Which is fun.

So, where can I get really gorgeous fun bright nursery curtains with sewn-in blackout lining?

tigerschick · 13/04/2007 21:46

Hi Shanthi! You're more than welcome to join our happy little band! Hope you are as lucky as many seem to have been lately

Furrymummy · 13/04/2007 21:45

Hello! Been busy last couple of days, hope everyone is okay
Wow - look at all the BFPs, I'm sure it must be catching!
CD27 for me now....

Shantih · 13/04/2007 21:34

May I join?
TTC#2-9months now (#1 happened 1st time out of the gates...DD3yrs)
CD28 (DPO17maybe) AFdue04/15
Just trying not to go crazy waiting on a +.

tigerschick · 13/04/2007 20:59

Sorry you're missing your ds Awen. Hope your new carpets are nice tho

MamaMaiasaura · 13/04/2007 20:46

Scorpio - your ds's are gorgeaus (what a fab sporticus outfit too )Sorry for your BFN x

ds gone to his dads for the weekend, am missing him already. He threw several strops today saying he didnt want to go there and that he isnt comfortable there. Poor love, thing is he dad isnt a terrible dad or anything and although he is quite a bit of a twit he means well by ds iykwim. Sounds so silly to miss him for the weekend, but I do. Another busy day tomorrow .. last of carpets being laid loving house at mo and am really nesting and making it all lovely (just want another little one to share it all with)

might be a geek tonight and play sims (can have a baby that way lol ) or play final fantasy.. hmm

Did you get the handbag scorpio? Lexie I know what you mean about this thread, really friendly here and kinda comfy

scorpio1 · 13/04/2007 20:04

my dp and the kids love barnyard!your dinner sounds lush

bella-shag!

BellaBear · 13/04/2007 20:02

CD 12 and I'm getting OV signs (or is it in my mind?? probably!)
shagshagshag! (but not as much as last month!)