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We'll I've eaten a whole box of chocolates, what to do for the next 12 days. 2ww testing end of Sept

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EsmeGNU · 17/09/2017 21:00

I've eaten a whole box of orange matchmakers instead of dinner. I've read almost every post on AIBU. There's nothing happening on Facebook. I've got 12 days until I can poas..........someone join me and keep me sane

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EsmeGNU · 30/09/2017 20:36

Ante-natal Clubs*

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EsmeGNU · 30/09/2017 20:35

Whoo!!!!! Congrats @Paragonian! Some of us are over on Antenatal June 2018. Xxx

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Paragonian · 30/09/2017 08:33

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We'll I've eaten a whole box of chocolates, what to do for the next 12 days. 2ww testing end of Sept
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EsmeGNU · 28/09/2017 09:50

Thanks for letting us know @GnTplease, hope you get the BFP swiftly once the timing is right for you. Thanks for being there fore the journey.

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GnTplease · 28/09/2017 08:15

Hi ladies just a quick to let you know I'm out. Temp drop swiftly followed by brown spotting so AF is en route. Not feeling too down as we weren't really properly trying this month and timing would have been ideal. All the ladies with their BFP's I hope everything goes perfectly for you and for the rest of us, fingers crossed we get ours soon xx

rachelandthenoodle · 27/09/2017 22:47

Well @ScarlettOH me too. Not AF but took a FRER and still BFN. That's it. I'm out. Good luck to you all; see the rest of you next month. 😞

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EsmeGNU · 27/09/2017 21:22

I'm sorry @ScarlettOH. Have an amazing holiday and enjoy having a drink!

I'll keep fingers crossed for you just in case @CoffeeWithMyOxygen, hope you have an answer soon

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CoffeeWithMyOxygen · 27/09/2017 20:15

I had a BFN this morning as what I think is 10 or 11dpo, so pretty sure I'm out. Just waiting for AF now.

MrsMallon14 · 27/09/2017 19:49

Oh no @ScarlettOH sorry to hear that. At least the holiday will be a welcome distraction. Let your hair down and enjoy and get back on the train next month. 😁

Thanks @esmeGNU I hope so to.

ScarlettOH · 27/09/2017 17:58

Well update from me is I’ve arrived on holiday but unfortunately so has AF I think. Red blood today, although still not much - but enough to be out I reckon. Going to try and put it to one side and enjoy our holiday - had a lovely glass of wine with lunch earlier just because I can!

Good luck to everyone Flowers

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EsmeGNU · 27/09/2017 17:28

Oh @MrsMallon14 so sorry to hear everything you are going through. Hope the doctor is useful tomorrow and everything turns out well. X

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MrsMallon14 · 27/09/2017 16:30

I have no visit from af today but positive test yesterday and negative today! So in total 4 positive 3 negative! Losing my mind.

Got an appointment tomorrow with the doctor as worried it's ectopic due to bad cramping. He will do bloods and we will know for definite one way or another.

Had a good cry this morning as I just think something isn't right, wasn't like this with my little girl and I think I'm putting so much pressure on it being positive.

Good luck everyone! @esmeGNU hope it's still a BFP by Saturday! 😁

Will update once I know.

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EsmeGNU · 27/09/2017 16:13

I need to test again on Saturday and check it’s still a BFP. Then book in with the GP surgery next week. I know some people have to see their doctor, my practice are happy for the nurse to see you and refer you to the midwife.

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GnTplease · 27/09/2017 13:57

@EsmeGNU definitely go easy on yourself and maybe take a step away from the tests! What is the next step now you've had your bfp? I have no idea - do you have to get it confirmed by a doctor?

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EsmeGNU · 27/09/2017 13:17

I’m sorry @rachelandthenoodle hope you have an answer soon. Hugs.

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rachelandthenoodle · 27/09/2017 13:04

Thanks for asking, @EsmeGNU ; unfortunately I tested again this morning and still BFN. I know it's not over til AF arrives, but I'm mentally accepting now that it's not this month. Just want AF to show up now so we can move on.

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EsmeGNU · 27/09/2017 12:59

How’s everyone else getting on? Did AF turn up @ScarlettOH? Have you tested again@rachelandthenoodle or are you waiting?

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EsmeGNU · 27/09/2017 09:05

Don’t apologise @GnTplease we are all either there or have been there. Not knowing is so tough. I swear the days get longer the more dpo you are.

I tested again this morning and the line is still there, keep going back though maybe fertility app and cursing myself for not writing better notes last time. I’ve got incredible back ache and have done all week. I think I’m going to be gentle on myself this week and see how it goes. Im usually in the gym every day doing stupid stuff. I think I’ll stick to the cross trainer this week at least if it doesn’t stick I’ll have less reason to blame myself.

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GnTplease · 27/09/2017 07:58

Temp still high and still no spotting, a little crampy and boobs still super painful. I'm 10dpo and really wanted to test but I held off as I know my DP wants to be there when I do and he leaves for work much earlier than me. This not knowing is so tough, I don't cope well with uncertainty. I'm swinging between yes I'm deffo pregnant and nope 100% not. I mean we literally had unprotected sex once this month, surely it won't happen that fast! Sorry for the ramble, feeling a bit all over the place this morning 🙈

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EsmeGNU · 26/09/2017 20:59

Oh no! @ScarlettOH and @GnTplease FX that you guys aren’t out! Sending positive vibes. Make sure you are gentle with yourselves either way. X

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GnTplease · 26/09/2017 20:16

Oh no @ScarlettOH do you usually spot before AF? If not it could well be implantation. I've had what feel like mild period pains this evening so think mine is on it's way too 😔

ScarlettOH · 26/09/2017 20:00

Just been to the loo and (tmi) brown discharge when I wiped. Could be implantation I suppose but I think it’s AF on its way unfortunately Sad

Bubble04 · 26/09/2017 18:28

@EsmeGNU @ScarlettOH totally agree. I tested with IC and there was nothing, but with frer 2 very clear bfp's. Go for the frer

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EsmeGNU · 26/09/2017 18:22

I’d go with you can drink until you know @ScarlettOH? No shared blood supply, no massive issue?

I’m not a massive drinker but I am a tea addict. When do I decide this is real and go get decafe tea bags? Shock I might wait til the weekend. Just a few more days of full caff joy.

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ScarlettOH · 26/09/2017 17:59

I have two frer in my handbag EsmeGNU - popped into Superdrug after work and got them. Go on hols early tomorrow morning so will most likely test Thursday AM or if I can I’ll hold out til Saturday as then it’s safe to say I’m ‘late’ So long to wait though and I’d quite like to know if I can drink on holiday or not...!

Yours is looking good!!! Everything crossed for you! Flowers