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5 days late, negative tests

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outofmymind2 · 07/09/2017 18:51

Anyone had this and turned out to be pregnant? I'm so confused.
I feel just like I did before I got my bfp with my son a few years ago, if not worse tbh.
I don't get af symptoms at all really except cramps for the day before I come on.
I got a clear blue positive at one day late but now thinking it was an evap.
I've just done an Asda pink test and it's completely negative.
I'm literally baffled.

Am I out or is this rare but happens? Help 😧

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outofmymind2 · 19/09/2017 21:04

I will do!

I just wish I knew what was happening! My DP is so frustrated because he wants to know! Xxx

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abby25 · 19/09/2017 19:37

I'm not having that much cm that's why I think I'm not pregnant! and cramps I'm getting are just like period pains! let me know how doctors go tomorrow! :) xxxxx

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outofmymind2 · 19/09/2017 18:20

Thankyou random!
His surgery is Friday so I'm terrified but he'll be okay. Just mummy worrying!

abby you're only a day behind me! I'm having really weird symptoms the last few days, SO much cm (especially today!) and really bad cramps behind my left hip bone.

bob could it be stress or anything else? I hope you all get your BFPs soon💕

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abby25 · 19/09/2017 18:17

ah come join us crazy lady's!!! we are all late with bfn's! I'm 16 days late today and negative tests so reckon I ovulated late this month! xxx

Unibob · 19/09/2017 17:45

I am 11 days late but Had 4 bfn. Normal extremely regular and have never miss a period unless I was pregnant.
I have been trying for years for my 4th

This is driving me mad

abby25 · 19/09/2017 15:18

awww how did it go?! haha told you lol I'm pretty sure your going to get a bfp soon! your having a lot of symptoms! xxxx

RandomUsernameHere · 19/09/2017 15:12

Hope your DS is ok xxx

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outofmymind2 · 19/09/2017 13:10

Been at hospital all morning with my DS (pre assessment) and no time for loo but convinced I'd come on - just got back and it's just loads of cm Blush gross 😂 Xxx

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abby25 · 19/09/2017 12:50

I had bad cramps earlier I thought I had come on... went to toilet and nothing! hang in there! xxx

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outofmymind2 · 19/09/2017 11:13

Thanks Jitterbug!

Abby I've got really bad cramps today so I think I'll be out by the end of the day!
I hope you get your positive asap xxx

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abby25 · 19/09/2017 09:46

awww thabkyou jitterbug.... im just over 2 weeks late now haven't done a test since 12 days late and got a big fat negative! but I'm convinced im not pregnant i reckon i must have ovulated late... I'm waiting another week to test again if I haven't come on... xxx

jitterbug5 · 19/09/2017 09:14

Hello!! Just a bit of reassurance for you guys, my first and only symptom of pregnancy was period cramps... I was ttc for 9 months continuously symptom spotting, the one month I didn't as I was getting married 9 months later, it was my period cramps that reminded me that I was late!
I'm now 38+3 and getting induced next Friday... so don't give up hope!! From my experience, period cramps but no period is a good sign!!

Really hope you get the results you want and soon xxx

abby25 · 19/09/2017 08:05

my cramps are literally just like period pains in the low part of stomach... they come and go .... still no sign of period thought it would have been here by now! having a lot of dc this morning so maybe its on its way xxxx

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outofmymind2 · 18/09/2017 20:57

Very low down mostly left side cramping but only noticeable when I wasn't busy etc.
I usually get crampy for at least 30ish hours before I come on so maybe I won't come on tomorrow!

I'm finding myself wondering if it's uterine cramping or needing the toilet 😂😂 xxx

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abby25 · 18/09/2017 20:25

I know! been good today just had cramping! you?? xxxx

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outofmymind2 · 18/09/2017 19:53

I hate doctors that just mess you around and basically send you off on your way. It's so unfair they could at least try some reassurance!
How you feeling today xxx

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abby25 · 18/09/2017 19:43

she proded my stomach and that was it... said do another test im a week then go back in two weeks if havent come on or got a positive test.... pretty sure im going to have a period soon! doesn't explain the cramping though for weeks! xxxx

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outofmymind2 · 18/09/2017 19:20

Crikey Abby that's ridiculous.
I have a feeling I'll come on soon - purely out of inconvenience haha.
Back at docs on Wednesday anyhow!

Did the docs not even do a bloods? Xxx

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abby25 · 18/09/2017 16:54

hey random! let us know how the doctors go! I've been told to wait another 2 WEEKS and then go back if I dont come on or get a positive pregnancy test! i hate this wait its horrible! still getting cramping I don't know if I'm going to come on or not xxx

RandomUsernameHere · 18/09/2017 12:15

Thanks outofmymind!

I feel pretty normal, but when I thought I could be pg before testing I was having loads of symptoms (sickness etc). It must have all been psychological! AF has been really irregular for a while now so there's definitely something going on.

If anyone is having difficulty getting a Drs appointment then it's worth checking if they offer an e-consult service. I did it on Thursday last week, you just fill out a web form and the Dr called me back the next morning and left a voicemail saying I should book a blood test. Very efficient I thought!

X

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outofmymind2 · 18/09/2017 11:43

Ooo welcome random!

Let us know how it goes
How you feeling? X

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RandomUsernameHere · 18/09/2017 10:54

Hi Ladies hope you don't mind if I jump in on this thread.
Now about 3 weeks late and had 2 BFNs.
Booked in for a blood test on Friday. I just want to know what's going on!

abby25 · 18/09/2017 10:06

oooo let me know how it goes!!! hopefully they will be better then my doctors! xxxx

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outofmymind2 · 18/09/2017 07:36

I've got doctors Wednesday so I'll wait until then!xxxx

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abby25 · 18/09/2017 04:51

I hope you do to! are you going to wait another week to test or have you been using your cheapies? I'm going to test again Monday if I still haven't come on... that will be 3 weeks late xxxx