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October Bus - More treats than tricks please!

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HolyShmoly · 30/08/2017 19:03

I'm off the September Bus before it even leaves the station and thanks to my longer cycle I thought I'd start the October page.

TTC #1
Cycle #3
BFP due October 4th

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UnicornsandRainbows1 · 20/09/2017 08:10

@Fia256 could it be that the last test you've ovulated as shown by the temp rise, but with the test, you've happened to take it whilst there's still a high surge (so it's high enough to be picked up but it'll come down as of now).

Sorry I only use opk >_

Fia256 · 20/09/2017 08:04

I’m confused this morning 🤔

Got my first positive opk Monday afternoon (using amazon cheapies). Did two more yesterday morning and afternoon, still positive. Also a temp dip yesterday. Then this morning, temp has risen by .3 which it usually does post ovulation, but I still have a very clear positive opk 🤔

No idea what’s going on!

CherryVicky29 · 19/09/2017 21:26

Thanks @felicityheather glad it’s not just me

felicityheather · 19/09/2017 21:14

@CherryVicky29 I quite often notice that actually. Particularly a day before.

CherryVicky29 · 19/09/2017 20:45

Anyone else had EWCM with AF? I'm not sure if this is normal or not lol

felicityheather · 19/09/2017 18:18

@PabloEscobarlo I use OvaGraph it's a purple icon with TCOYF in it (from the taking charge of your fertility book) that's what I read so originally used to chart with. Some pros some cons as with most I assume

@meow1989 I'd say the spa sounds like a great idea! Wouldn't worry before ovulation!

Liz3891 · 19/09/2017 17:38

It's so strange because for years on the Pill I was convinced that if I missed a single pill I'd get pregnant. Now having unprotected sex for 2 months and nothing seems so strange!!

loobylou124 · 19/09/2017 16:41

@mama I've had ewcm on CD10 before now, but my cycles are only 25 days. This might sound a bit ick but are you sure it's you and not some of his, ahem, leftovers? I've def made that mistake before now! 😂

Mamabooksbabynumber2 · 19/09/2017 16:12

Hi everyone!

I have CM question!!
I had alot of ewcm on cycle day 9 on a regular 30 day cycle. Surely I am not ovulating now? My period only stopped on cd4.

Anyone else had this?

Steaksauce · 19/09/2017 15:31

@Fia256 I'm in the TWW I think it started today (or yesterday but we had a shag last night for luck)

@HolyShmoly haha! I too am cursed blessed with large hips (and bum - thanks mum!) surely after finding it impossible to find trousers that don't gape at the back and giving up on ever finding a dress that fits for so many years means we should get up the duff without any issues right? That should be the trade off dammit! Hmm

HolyShmoly · 19/09/2017 15:26

I am Fia. I'm currently in the throes of my fertile week, expecting to ovulate in the next couple days.

I'm with those that are mildly offended that they didn't conceive on their first month trying. I thought these big hips meant I would only have to think pregnant thoughts around a willy and I'd be upduffed. Alas, no.

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Liz3891 · 19/09/2017 14:48

I'll be testing in October again. Last month I was 10 days late with 2 negative tests before AF came on CD40. My ovulation has been alllll over the place according to my app (using BBT plus OPKs). Sometimes day 12, other times day 25. Not trying per se but letting nature take its course if it's going to. OH has a high sex drive so there's no need to know specific O days anyway.

BeautifulLiar · 19/09/2017 14:27

Meggi the pill is usually out of your system within a couple of days x

Fia256 · 19/09/2017 14:02

Hi all not been on since the thread started, got my positive opk last night so I'm officially back in the game again Grin anyone else entering the 2WW yet or near abouts?!

meow1989 · 19/09/2017 13:58

🤞🏻🍀

CoffeeWithMyOxygen · 19/09/2017 13:33

Fingers crossed then! I'm trying to yell myself how unlikely it is to happen this month, especially given that we only caught the tail end of my fertile week, but it's hard not to hope.

meow1989 · 19/09/2017 13:17

Ewcm is the most fertile so definitely a great time to dtd!

CoffeeWithMyOxygen · 19/09/2017 13:08

Thanks. So (very new at this!) does EWCM mean that it's a good time to DTD? Hoping so as that's what I had this weekend and we DTD three times, but it's dried up now. I use Clue which is pretty accurate in predicting AF so hopefully it's also good for ovulation. It's only our first cycle so not sure I want to get into OPKs and temping just yet.

Sleepingstarsmommy · 19/09/2017 13:07

Can I hop on board.. have had to hop off the Septmeber bus after AF arrived a day early today.

Ttc #3 (#1 born sleeping)
Cycle 2
Age 40 😣 (when did that happen).

Used opks last month but goong to try temping this time too.

PabloEscobarlo · 19/09/2017 13:00

@CoffeeWithMyOxygen egg white cervical mucus

@felicityheather can I ask what app that is please?

meow1989 · 19/09/2017 12:58

It's just not right is it? I'm like: you have one job! (Absolutely no offence meant to anyone who has been trying for a while, I know things take time and I am for the most part joking).

What do people think about spa treatments whilst ttc? I have a weekend coming up and I think fertile window will start the Monday following the Saturday I'm away (hope that makes sense) so I'm hoping you'll all say it's fine to have a drinkie and soak in the hot tub as I won't even have ovulated and I'm being ridiculous to worry 😅

Steaksauce · 19/09/2017 12:43

@meow1989 I felt the same in cycle 1. My actual thought was "wtf womb?!"
Cycle 2 I was very "meh" about it all.

This time with hardcore peeing on opks and getting dh more involved and shagging a lot more I've already convinced myself that I've done enough this month so I'll probably be properly gutted when AF turns up in a couple of weeks time.

meow1989 · 19/09/2017 12:36

Trying not happening

meow1989 · 19/09/2017 12:35

@CoffeeWithMyOxygen egg white cervical mucus 👍🏻

Af has just arrived so bfp due 21 oct. I am quite frankly outraged that first cycle of happening I did not just become pregnant no issues (tongue in cheek... mostly)!

CoffeeWithMyOxygen · 19/09/2017 11:22

What is EWCM? I see it mentioned a lot.