TTC #2 (September BFPs)

My GPs are also shit and ignore my concerns. They tell me I'm young and it'll happen.

June I've taken pictures of them. If it's egg quality what can they do? Is it hopeless?

If this is a loss this will be my third in a row. I get pregnant every month apparently but seem to lose them each time :(

Dragon are you keeping your positive tests so you can prove to the GP that they are happening. There are a few things that can cause false positives if I remember. But also if you having numerous cp's it could be an egg quality issue. Either way I'd probably speak to my GP about it.

Saying that I wouldn't take a negative opk as a sign of no pregnancy, LH and HCG are similar but not the same so could easily. get a neg opk and be pregnant.

Well now I'm upset. After my faint positive I did an OPK as I know they turn positive if you're pregnant. It turned very dark.

Just did another one as I don't have any other tests in and it's completely clear. This is exactly the same as last month and when I said it was a miscarriage they said it was just left over hormones, despite me testing negative first, then 5 positive tests that turned negative after bleeding.

The same is happening again.

I am convinced I am miscarrying each time :(

Dolly depends how short, but if we have short luteal phases (mine is) then yes. :(

@DragonsandDungeons I also have quite short cycles- does it mean we have less chance?!

Mouth tastes all disgusting and the bleeding has stopped but I'm afraid to be hopeful that my test was real. After last month (miscarriage hormones giving me false bfp) I'm just depressed. I also think my short cycles mean I won't ever get another baby. I feel so emotional, which usually means I'm pregnant, but...I dunno

Thanks @DragonsandDungeons yes it is hard! Fingers crossed for this cycle 🤞

Dolly I also have a two year old DS and had a miscarriage. Sounds like were similar. It's hard isn't it hugs

Had implant removed in the August, fell pregnant in November. Lost in January then fell pregnant with my son in the May. Had him in December (due Feb) and he's nearly two now. Been trying since he was one.

Thanks everyone. Will retest soon. Good luck to all testing

Ttc #2? (October bfp)
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3035696-ttc-2-october-bfp

Here we are! X

Keeping everything crossed for you @ladydoll.
And yes to the October thread @impatient, I'll join x

It's hard isn't it @dollly, how long were out trying for ds?

Yes please to the new thread @inpatient, I was looking for one yesterday and couldn't find it

Sorry for temp drop @lopey 🙁

Morning all, lots of people seem to be feeling very disheartened at the mo, me included, hang on in there everyone, Nubian, cariad, June, lopey, ovaries, ladydolly, Kashy I think we now count as veterans or the ttc circuit!!

...I have no words of wisdom really but it's been great having everyone's support here, and we're all doing everything we can though so we'll get there!! xx

Congratulations to the bfps and ladydolly yes have fingers crossed for you xx

Shall I start the October thread then for old times sake ?! :) Be good to have a fresh start eh... Don't think anyone has yet but let me know if so) I'll post link when I've done it...

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Thanks @Beansprout30 I know I shouldn't feel like that, it's #2 for me so I know I can do it (even if he did arrive at 32 weeks) it's just the waiting and disappointment each month I can't bear!

Don't lose hope @gotadolly, it will happen for us all

@Dragons I can definitely see it too!

I've got one week to go until AF due - it goes so slowly doesn't it! It's unbearable. 9th cycle so kind of giving up hope slowly over here...

@Dragons I can see it too but I think you must do another really hope it's a bfp

Didn't bother getting wine I was too tired anyway due to rubbish night Friday with dd bless her she has a horrible cough.

Fluffy, when will you test again? Af came for me, I forgot that horrible crushing feeling of getting my period when I was certain I was pregnant-brought back horrible memories of ttc before. This time I must not get so down about it as I already have a beautiful dd and I must focus on her

@dolly keeping everything crossed for you lovely

Only 9po but very very very faint line on an IC early response test. I'm not convinced yet but can everyone keep their fingers crossed for me? Will try and get a pic later today when it's a bit lighter, currently have to stand under the light!

Dungeons, Fluffy keeping fingers crossed for you.

Beansprout I'm exactly the same. Had that initial possible line which was definitely there, but two BFNs since. Went out tonight and enjoyed red wine. Still hopeful though but don't know what to think...

June can you see this pic?

Ive ordered some tests. I'm only 12dpo (or cycle day 3 if this is a period instead) so going to wait a few days. Both my pregnancies only tested postings after I was due.

bean that's rubbish, get thy husband to the shop tomorrow! I only ever drink now when I'm on my period. Silver linings and all that!

dragon I can only see one line on the picture, but I'm always pretty useless at seeing them. I'd definitely get another test and test again soon.