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28 and TTC: Anyone else in same boat?

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FruitandNutty · 10/08/2017 21:41

Hi there,

I'm a newbie here, and I've been finding all the conversations/threads really interesting to read.

Me and DH have just started trying for our first baby. We started not using protection around day 20 of my current cycle (I have quite a long cycle at 30-31 days on average). I didn't really expect anything to happen, as probably too late/I had already O'd. Haven't had full on AF yet, but some spotting. Guessing she is on the way. After AF, we will be starting to 'try' properly, with a full cycle ahead of us – any tips would be appreciated!

Also, I have been doing some general research into how long it might take someone of my age. I had thought that 28 was relatively young (in my friend group, only one has children), but from reading around I see that the majority of people have had multiple babies by my age! What is the average age for first time mums these days? Is there even one?

Hoping to hear from anyone who is in a similar situation to me, and just at the start of their journeys :-)

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Babaganoush123 · 11/08/2017 10:04

Hi guys, I'm 27, had my copper coil removed just after I ovulated (typically) last month and so this month is my first month TTC! I'm really excited but also very nervous if nothing happens. I know it's normal to take up to a year, or longer, but I'm such an impatient person & also such a worrier. I've already been looking up ways to increase chances of conceiving but think I need to calm down a bit and just see what happens for now. Good luck everyone! Smile

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FruitandNutty · 11/08/2017 09:39

Hi ladies,

Great to hear from those in a similar situation. Congrats on getting married Aspenn2017!

Good luck both with ttc and would be great to hear updates.

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Aspenn2017 · 11/08/2017 05:36

Hi ladies,

I'm also a newbie here, have been lurking for few days but I'm in a very similar situation to you both so thought now was a good time to say hello! Smile

I'm 27, got married last month and just had our first month of trying. Been off the pill for 4 months, cycle seems to be 33 days. AF was due yesterday but not getting my hopes up as had some stomach cramps like it's on the way so going to give it a few more days yet.

I've been using a couple of apps to track when I'm ovulating I've been taking preconception vits for a month, but trying my best to have a 'casual' attitude and not overthink everything!

Good luck both! Excited to hear how you get on x

Nicolle468 · 10/08/2017 22:38

Hi,

I'm 26 and this is our first month TTC.

I stopped taking my pill about 6 months ago because we knew we wanted to start this year. Cycles started off a little erratic after being on the pill for 10 years but now exactly 28 days each month.

Also taking and logging my basal temp.

AF due (but hopefully not arriving!) 21st Aug.

Good luck 🤞🏼

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