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Ok so is this a positive opk??

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BooseysMom · 26/07/2017 10:33

We're sort of ttc baby no.2 and i'm 45!! No.1 conceived at 40. Am i crazy.?! Do i really want to do it all again at my age?! 41 was bad enough ..but also wonderful. But to do it all again. We're about to move out of a rented house to a new shared ownership 2 bed so if we have no.2 there would be no 3rd bedroom as there's no way we can afford a 3 bed!..and i'm really happy with just one (baby that is, not bedroom. Lol). .it's much more manageable all round having one ...So this morning i get this opk result..never tried them before..and suddenly i think omg now we'll have to dtd and i don't really want to just like first time round! So scared and yet something drives you to do it. Pesky mother nature! So is this test def positive? If you have a faint 2nd line it says negative. But the longer i leave it the brighter it gets. Aagghh!!

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MrsLadyL · 02/08/2017 16:28

That's a positive 💃💃 Xx

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BooseysMom · 02/08/2017 14:48

Megha22.. No way!! You think its positive for sure? ! I just don't know. We can't afford another one!!
Thanks for the msg by the waySmile

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Megha22 · 02/08/2017 13:06

BooseysMom looks like you will require a 3rd bed if not bedroom , looks very positive to me and somehow i feel you wouldnt mind another child afterall all they bring is happiness and sometimes a change of luck that might put you in situation where you can afford a 3 bedroom

MrsLadyL · 01/08/2017 20:24

Iv had it twice and both times it's dislodged itself..... this time with infection. Had it put in under General this time to make sure was placed correctly but nope it's out!! So playing with nature now xx

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BooseysMom · 01/08/2017 19:30

Sorry to hear about your girls.That must've been awful. It's natural to worry if you've had that experience. I had that merina coil in and got an infection too. I hadn't even had any kids and they put it in and it hurt like fuck! Worse than any period. More like a mc. Never had the back in coil since. No pill or implant or depo or anything. Just left it to nature. But never tried very hard ttc which i feel bad about. I had 2 mcs then fell preg with my DS at 40! Mcs were so painful ..puts me off trying again big time Hmm

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MrsLadyL · 31/07/2017 22:05

First cycle wasn't planned was kind of a realisation moment for us. Had a few issues and had surgery in may. Had my marina put back in to be told two weeks ago it's out and I have an infection. So had just finished period and thought fuck it this is a sign let's go with it and see what happens.... very very nervous so as both my girls were prem so still not 100% xx

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BooseysMom · 31/07/2017 20:16

Hi MrsLady, thanks for msg. Aaggh the 2ww!! How long have you been ttc? Well i've ran out of tests now but feel ovulation def over and we only dtd twice ..no way near enough! Good luck Lady Smile xx

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MrsLadyL · 31/07/2017 11:27

Morning booseysmom has it got any darker at all? I'm on cd17 and it's defo back negative. Don't know if Iv done enough just have to wait and see now. It's so hard all this really don't know why I'm doing it to myself again. 2WW for me 🤞🤞 Xz

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BooseysMom · 29/07/2017 19:04

Good luck MrsLady Smile.. I did another test this morn and got this. Same as last few days. I wonder if it's fainter cos i'm older and my fertility is fading too !!
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MrsLadyL · 29/07/2017 09:39

Morning ladies. Hope you're all well. This is CD15 just now. It's defo going back negative isn't it? Here's hoping Iv caught it 😂 Xx

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MrsLadyL · 28/07/2017 12:00

Thank you I definitely will keep you updated all in this together ain't we. I took one 11am defo (+) exciting xx

Ok so is this a positive opk??
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BooseysMom · 28/07/2017 11:57

Yes very def Pos. Mrs Lady!! good luck!! Let us know how it goes won't you?! It took us 2 years to have DS1 and i was 41 when i had him. Not much chance of another at 45 but you never know! ! Xx

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MrsLadyL · 28/07/2017 09:54

Think I'm going to take this one as a (+) 🙌

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MrsLadyL · 28/07/2017 09:41

I think still maybe negative? Do not know why I haven't invested in clearblue this time around. These strips do drive you insane! Took a long painful 2.5 years for #2 why why why haha first cycle so I'm very optimistic xx

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MrsLadyL · 28/07/2017 09:33

Thank you ladies. Just took this.... so if correct I'm CD14 DTD last night to be sure ofcorse 😂 xx

Ok so is this a positive opk??
Pibbee · 28/07/2017 09:05

That looks not quite positive to me

dowhatyouwish · 28/07/2017 07:41

I would it's positive

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BooseysMom · 28/07/2017 07:38

This is one I did this morn which looks like the one 2 days ago!! Confused

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BooseysMom · 28/07/2017 07:15

The weird thing is i got the exact same line in the morning then by the evening it had gone. I never dtd that nite and all tests been neg.ever since. Yep drives me bonkers it does Shock Do another test this morning and see what you get..post it here if you cab. Good luck xx

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Gunpowder · 28/07/2017 07:10

Test again this morn MrsLady.

Thanks BooseysMum. Did you dtd? (You don't have to answer! Grin ) There's always next month anyway.

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BooseysMom · 28/07/2017 07:10

Sorry MrsLady..that looks alot like mine a couple days ago. I'd say very nearly positive! Wink

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MrsLadyL · 27/07/2017 18:48

Still negative? 👍👎

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MrsLadyL · 27/07/2017 18:45

Just taken this one tho 1hour ago..... thoughts? Xx

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MrsLadyL · 27/07/2017 18:41

I'm also back with the OPK driving myself bonkers 😩 Thinking about ttc #3 just came off BC first cycle currently CD 13...... why do we do this to ourselves 🙈 All neg yea?? Xx

Ok so is this a positive opk??
Ok so is this a positive opk??
Ok so is this a positive opk??
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BooseysMom · 27/07/2017 15:48

Yes Gunpowder it will be fine!! You've done it twice before so you must be super experienced! I do admire you. Tbh at my age one is enough!! It's only cos of my DH saying 'What if' all the time that i'm peeing on all these sticks! ! Talking of which.. i've just pee'd on a stick and it was def negative! So according to the opk i was only possibly positive yesterday morning and then negative since then..meaning if yesterday was the day to dtd, we failed miserably! ! I just can't want it that much i guess Confused

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