Temp Buds 5

Mum03 - 36.7° CD13 LP12 (6th cycle)
Ready - ° CD14 LP13 (9th cycle)
CityAngel - ° CD15 LP10 (9th cycle)
beansprout - 36.6° CD17 LP14 (12th cycle)
NappyValley - ° CD18 LP9-14(9th cycle)
iwillbe - ° CD20 LP (11th cycle)
Jess1996 - ° CD20 5dpo LP14 (3rd cycle since m/c, 8th cycle total)
Minxi - ° CD21 LP11 (12th cycle)
Rahrah - ° 4dpo CD26 LP12(6th cycle)
seaside72 -° CD27 13dpo LP12 (14th cycle)
duchesse - ° CD30 - LP14 (7th cycle since m/c, 44th cycle ftc)
MrsMc ? CD34 15/16dpo LP 10-12 (10th cycle) BFP

Mum03 - ° CD13 LP12 (6th cycle)
Ready - ° CD13 LP13 (9th cycle)
CityAngel - ° CD15 LP10 (9th cycle)
beansprout - 36.6° CD17 LP14 (12th cycle)
NappyValley - ° CD18 LP9-14(9th cycle)
iwillbe - ° CD20 LP (11th cycle)
Jess1996 - ° CD20 5dpo LP14 (3rd cycle since m/c, 8th cycle total)
Minxi - ° CD21 LP11 (12th cycle)
Rahrah - ° 4dpo CD26 LP12(6th cycle)
seaside72 -° CD27 13dpo LP12 (14th cycle)
duchesse - ° CD30 - LP14 (7th cycle since m/c, 44th cycle ftc)
MrsMc ? CD34 15/16dpo LP 10-12 (10th cycle) BFP

Morning. Temp has gone up so have told dh he is no longer on active service . Still not sure when I ovulated though - should I assume yesterday or Friday? Sorry to be so dense.
Am feeling optimistic about this month, so we shall see.

How is everyone? Seaside? Duchesse?
Hope you are ok too Mrs McJ, I know these are anxious times
Jess - I know exactly what you mean. This is the 2ww madness, it's not dignified and it doesn't do much for our self-esteem but it comes to us all. Hope you are ok.

Dh has awarded himself a lie-in

Mum03 - 36.6° CD12 LP12 (6th cycle)
Ready - ° CD12 LP13 (9th cycle)
CityAngel - ° CD14 LP10 (9th cycle)
beansprout - ° CD16 LP14 (12th cycle)
NappyValley - ° CD17 LP9-14(9th cycle)
iwillbe - ° CD19 LP (11th cycle)
Jess1996 - 36.3° CD19 5dpo LP14 (3rd cycle since m/c, 8th cycle total)
Minxi - 36.59° CD20 LP11 (12th cycle)
Rahrah - ° 4dpo CD25 LP12(6th cycle)
seaside72 -° CD26 13dpo LP12 (14th cycle)
duchesse - ° CD29 - LP14 (7th cycle since m/c, 44th cycle ftc)
MrsMc ? CD33 15/16dpo LP 10-12 (10th cycle) BFP

Jess - hugs to you, sorry to hear that you are feeling down, it is so hard not to get hopes up. And yes my parents do live a long way away - a few thousand to be more accurate!!!

So maybe I did OV on Monday night, which would make me 5dpo.

I've had some mild af-like cramps today. Implantation? I wish!

Greedy, I've taught you well. You are correct

Hugs to all.
xxx

jess and beansprout - when i was temping my temp didnt go up till day 34 so i assumed i had ov'd on day 33. but the last time we had sex was day 28 and that is the month i got pg. fettle told me ( and she is one smart cookie!) that apparently you can ov up to 36 hours before your temp goes up. hope that helps! prob not!!!

Good morning all. I didn't temp today (the thermometer has been put away for the next couple of weeks).

I don't know what's the matter with me this morning. I'm feeling down and despondent already and I'm only 4dpo. I think the problem is that earlier this week I became convinced that this month would be the one. I even told DH this. Now I just feel silly! I'm not sure I can cope with 10 days of symptom spotting and then a couple of days of rushing to the loo every 10 mins to check for AF. I'm already symptom spotting even though I know there shouldn't be symptoms to spot at 4dpo. I must be going mad.

Anyway, enough about me. How is everyone else? It's very quiet on here this morning.

duchesse Will you be testing soon?

beansprout I was wondering the same thing about OV and temps. I thought that you OV'd on the last day you had ewcm. I've had no ewcm since Monday morning, but my temp did not rise until Wednesday morning. I am guessing that I OVd sometime between Monday afternoon and Tuesday morning.

MrsMcJnr Indulge me. What were the earliest you had symptoms this month.

rahrah Looks like we're on the 2ww together.

mum03 Sounds like you're feeling a bit better. Do your parents live along way from you? My parents live about 300 miles from me, so I don't see them that often either.

Hello to everyone else.

Temps still high here (36.8), although lower in the mornings (36.3). This is unusual, as they tend to be pretty much the same, give or take .1 of a degree. Still no period. Ho hum.

Beansprout ? thanks, it must be so hard for you and I know it was heartfelt ? sending you a huge hug (a lucky one)

Woo-hoooo!! Congratulations Mrs McJnr that is such brilliant news!! Am so pleased for you!!

Not much to report here, except dh seems to have gone to work with my keys so we are stuck in the house all day. I can't even contact him as his phone is switched off

Can I just ask - once you have ov, how long does it take for your temp to go up? TIA

Didn?t temp today ? needed a wee in early hours and forgot as so wanted to stay sleeping ? I was at a fashion show with clients until late last night and was exhausted. Tomorrow, maybe ? the idea does stress me out a bit though ? TCOYF software told me to contact Dr immediately if temps fall below 36.25 as that would mean I might MC. Not something I want to even consider at the mo.

Duchesse ? how are things? And you too Seaside?

Mum03 ? DH happy but cautious me too I guess though did look up my EDD sorry you are feeling down My BF is due to pop any day and I was wondering how I?d find that too. Family pressure is a horrible thing, they mean well and want us to be happy but it just makes it worse Why don?t you write to your Mum in advance of the visit and tell her how you feel? I hope it happens for you really soon

Thanks RahRah Its hard to not feel bad that it has happened for me again and not for you and the others who I feel are so more deserving than I am. I just hope and pray your time comes soon. I did start taking the aspirin (hard coated EC cardio stuff not usual aspirin ? Uki advised me) I started taking it on cd19 actually. I don?t know if it made/will make any difference but I?ve read so often that it is more likely to help than harm but I can ask the Consultant about that on Monday I guess. Thank you for wanting me to stay here! How are you feeling? My Mum got her test results yesterday but they only said she didn?t have Factor V Leiden (which my Aunt doesn?t have either) didn?t say anything about my particular mutation so am concerned that she wasn?t specific enough and that they haven?t tested her for that. She won?t stop taking the HRT until she is told she is at risk rather than the sensible VV

Thanks Jess glad the Dr was sympathetic and that you have a course of action to follow. I really hope things settle down for you.

Hello to Ready, Nappy, Minxi and the rest of the gang!

LOL - Can't believe I missed Ready out... How shameful of me I get down on my bended knees and beg forgiveness......

Morning all.... I have liberated myself today and not temp'd... but I found it hard to resist.

I will catch up with everyone in a bit...

MUM03 - Good on you for the good love making talk about turning things into a positive! Sex is a major thing that normally suffers, so good to know you are on the job

MrsMc - how are you today.... still grinning I expect!

Mum03 - 36.6° CD11 LP12 (6th cycle)
Ready - ° CD12 LP12 (9th cycle)
CityAngel - ° CD13 LP10 (9th cycle)
beansprout - ° CD15 LP14 (12th cycle)
NappyValley - ° CD16 LP9-14(9th cycle)
iwillbe - ° CD18 LP (11th cycle)
Jess1996 - 36.3° CD18 3dpo LP14 (3rd cycle since m/c, 8th cycle total)
Minxi - 36.59° CD19 LP11 (12th cycle)
Rahrah - ° 4dpo CD24 LP12(6th cycle)
seaside72 -° CD25 12dpo LP12 (14th cycle)
duchesse - ° CD28 - LP14 (7th cycle since m/c, 44th cycle ftc)
MrsMc ? CD32 14/15dpo LP 10-12 (10th cycle) BFP

Thank you all for your wonderful support, it really helps. I am not due to ov for another few days yet, but my dh has been fantastic, we have been getting into practice early this month...(sorry tmi!) with most incredible sex/love-making possible. I think he has been detecting how low I have been feeling. But I am now determined to pick myself up and get into positive mood for my mum and dad arriving next week I haven't seen them since last July, so it will be great to have them here. I will determine to forget about ttc while they are around, so please excuse if I disappear for a couple of days. Thank you all again for being so supportive.

MrsMc - are you coming out of shock into excitement yet?

Mum03 - ° CD11 LP12 (6th cycle)
Ready - ° CD12 LP12 (9th cycle)
CityAngel - ° CD13 LP10 (9th cycle)
beansprout - ° CD15 LP14 (12th cycle)
NappyValley - ° CD16 LP9-14(9th cycle)
iwillbe - ° CD18 LP (11th cycle)
Jess1996 - 36.3° CD18 3dpo LP14 (3rd cycle since m/c, 8th cycle total)
Minxi - 36.59° CD19 LP11 (12th cycle)
Rahrah - ° 4dpo CD24 LP12(6th cycle)
seaside72 -° CD25 12dpo LP12 (14th cycle)
duchesse - ° CD28 - LP14 (7th cycle since m/c, 44th cycle ftc)
MrsMc ? CD32 14/15dpo LP 10-12 (10th cycle) BFP

Big congratulations MrsMcJnr. Brilliant news

My temp was slightly up again this morning. FF now thinks I OV'd on Tuesday so that makes me 3dpo. I saw my GP yesterday who was very sympathetic. He seemed to think that my extended spotting after af was probably hormonal. He said that it is common for cycles to change after a miscarriage - it is sometimes temporary and sometimes permenent. He didn't really know if it would affect my ability to conceive. But if things are no better after another 2-3 cycles then they will start doing tests to look at the hormone levels. It is just a relief to be taken seriously.

Anyway I think I have OV'd this month so I'm ditching that thermometer for a bit.

Sorry that you are down Mum03. I know how you feel about your Mum. My parents were so excited when I told them I was pregnant (would be 1st grandchild). I also told them that I conceived quickly (it was the 2nd cycle of properly trying). So now I can't get it out of my head that everytime I call them they will be expecting happy news.

So sorry to hear that you are so down mum03 - Big hugs. Have some of my positivity!!

You missed me out Rah!

Fettle & Greedy - hope you guys and bumps are doing well... are you both around 20 weeks now? Are you going to find out the sex of the baby?

Evening girls...

Sorry not been on all day, but been working hard trying to catch up with missing work whilst in Wales.

Major congratulations MrsMcJnr.... Glad the doctor has been very supportive! Now they know what is wrong they will be able to help you so much. Stay with us as long as possible! Did you start taking the aspirin before getting pregnant in the end?

I'm not going to temp for the rest of the month and will try to ignore my CD days, as just make myself more miserable... so will see if that helps... probably not and will be back to temping everyday the month after.

Seaside - so glad you appointment went well... (virtual lolli handed to you) My doctor is good but a complete arse!

Dutchesse - sorry the signs are coming in

mum03 - so sorry you are feeling low, I know exactly how you are feeling. My friend just had her baby and wrote to me with pictures... really breaks your heart to participate... its all hard work. X

jess1996 - I agree, I am knocking it on the head for this month, see if that eases some of the disappointment

feedmenow - put a big sticker on the pillow next to you to remind you to temp X (slap wrist) (or on hubbies forehead-lol)

Beansprout - at you lack of squirt... bloody hubbies' why can't they have the squirt when we want it! I swear they are big drama queens

minxi - have you ovulated yet?

Sorry if I have missed anyone.... My husband is talking to me and trying to type this message at the same time.

Sorry - had to post. Mum03 [[hugs]] - far too many faces for me!

Look after yourself - you will get there. You will all get there eventually. don't give up hope. Please don't forget that each time took me 2 years to conceive successfully - it doesn't happen over night for everyone.

take care
xxx

Duchesse

weepootle - sorry I did not read it earlier, I am so sorry to hear about your brother. With the stress of moving house too, I wish we could help you. Hope that you know you are in our thoughts.

Lottie - how are you, any news from spain?

MrsMc - glad that you have got an appt so soon, how did your dh take the news?

I am feeling a little with 3 of my friends close by, just having had little baby girls, and another friend due in the next couple of weeks. I am sorry to say that I have not gone to visit yet as I don't feel like I can face it. However I have to test one of the baby's on monday, so I will have to see them. Probrably will have a cuddle at the time and feel even worse.

My parents are coming to visit in just a weeks time too, and I know my mum will be expecting me to announce news that I am pg, and I won't be able to give her that news , She wants me to fill up our new house with children. I really have taken this month badly. Part of me is saying to stop and move on if it is making me feel so low, but another part of me knows that giving up is not that easy. Sorry I did not mean to be so down today. I don't normally get so low at this time of the month, must be lack of sleep from shagging late at night too much

Congratulations MrsMc! That's fab news. Crossing everything for you.

Hi everybody else too numerous to mention.

I do not think this is an auspicious month for me. Things are definitely on a downwards slide to a period. (.)(.) defo slightly less sore, temps have dropped, do not feel so sick. Back to the treadmill for me, I think.

Thanks Dr has been amazing, I now have an appointment with the consultant at 9.30 on Monday morning