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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TTC #2 (August bfps)

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Impatientmummy36 · 09/07/2017 18:43

Hi all, here we are again :)

New thread for all those ttc second babies.

Good luck everyone this cycle! xxx

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Impatientmummy36 · 18/07/2017 18:45

That's great Nubian, fingers xxd for you then.

Good luck with the seduction attempts ladies! I am mostly trying very hard to be nice and not fall out prior to the fw which is any day now... just waiting for a smiley face to appear. It's our weekend to have his daughter so I'm already at a disadvantage.

Since when did they have to be tricked/coerced into having sex anyway ?! I never used to have to make any effort, just getting into bed next to him was enough. Now it's planned seductions!

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ladydolly · 18/07/2017 18:39

So wise mumsnetters. I'm on cd 11. I normally ovulate on cd 16/17. I've had ewcm the last 2 days. I did my first clearblue today and got a static smiley but used afternoon urine rather than morning. I usually use ov sticks so did one as well and got this, would you take that as a positive?

TTC #2 (August bfps)
tiramisualwaystiramisu · 18/07/2017 17:26

Thanks nubian I did feel a bit guilty about being so manipulative, but hope its worth it in the end Grin

Nubian9454 · 17/07/2017 21:35

Oh no don't feel ashamed Tiramisu it's all for a good cause lol. I did a fair but of seducing this morning. Baby dust.x

tiramisualwaystiramisu · 17/07/2017 20:34

Fantastic nubian - good luck! I feel very ashamed of myself - I have cooked dinner, put the bins out and ironed all DH's shirts (which I NEVER do) while he's been on his xBox in the hope he will be up for dtd this evening. I'm away Thursday til Sunday, so need to get in as many chances as possible.

Nubian9454 · 17/07/2017 19:30

I hope so Kashy. It's so hard not obsessing June. Fingers crossed for all of us. Hoping to see lovely Bfps this cycle from all you beautifully mummies who are ready for #2. Baby dust x

KashyKash · 17/07/2017 16:20

Woohoo Nubian, sounds like you've got a great chance this cycle!
Foniks I remember being convinced that AF was coming the month I was pregnant so you never know, good luck!

Nubian9454 · 17/07/2017 14:10

Super excited! I finally got a positive opk after several days of faint lines. I noted a definate change in my cm which is now ewcm! So Impatient you were right in suggesting that I might ovulate a bit later. Guess I'm sti in with a chance for this cycle! Bd this morning and will be seducing dh for the next few days lol. Baby dust x

Foniks · 17/07/2017 11:14

AF is due tomorrow for me. I know I'm not pregnant this month, even feeling pre period symptoms, but still can't help feeling hopeful that it won't show up.

I'm going to order the lubricant I was recommended in the previous thread tomorrow though, so can try that out next cycle.

I have been trying to keep it mellow and be easy going about all this, but can't help obsessing either myname! It's so annoying. I'm trying not to keep going on about it to DH non stop haha.

MynameisJune · 17/07/2017 08:58

Lady I'm properly obsessed at the minute as well, trying to be chilled out but it isn't working!

MynameisJune · 17/07/2017 08:57

Think I'm out for this month as well. DH is working away next week right when I'll probably be ovulating 😔

ladydolly · 17/07/2017 08:19

Morning all!

Ovuview says I'm int he fertile stage but that ovulation is in 10 days ??? I think O day is next Monday so will start dtd at the end of the week - luckily DP is around all weekend :)

Had a really vivid dream about giving birth to a baby boy last night, now I feel extra broody. I don't feel upset but I am totally obsessed with getting pregnant at the moment, last month was chill, this month, can't stop thinking about it. It's hard.

Nubian9454 · 16/07/2017 22:47

Spreading baby dust to all xx

tiramisualwaystiramisu · 16/07/2017 20:05

Hello everyone, hope you have all had good weekends. Think my FW starts today, so am being extra nice to DH and hope he won't mind being pestered a lot over the next few days. Hoping to catch some baby dust and that it spreads around

MynameisJune · 16/07/2017 18:12

Thank you Cariad 😘

I really hope it works its magic too, I'm just so sad about it all and I'm trying not to be. I was crying earlier and DD came up and cuddled me unprompted, and I reminded myself that there was a time when I didn't ever think we would have her.

Cariad2017 · 16/07/2017 17:35

Sorry to hear AF arrived Mynameis. A 12 day LP sounds promising though. FX the Agnus Castus works its magic for you next cycle. I shall be rooting for you. Xxx

Nubian9454 · 16/07/2017 17:24

All the best for next Cycle June

MynameisJune · 16/07/2017 14:00

Definitely out for July, AF has arrived CD23. So a 12 day luteal phase, which is better than it has been. After the negative test on Friday I've been expecting it so I'm okay. Pleased it's happened now so we can move onto the next cycle.

Nubian9454 · 16/07/2017 09:10

Welcome Cautious. Fingers crossws for your bfp. Baby dust

cautiousoptimist1 · 16/07/2017 08:02

Can I join you ladies please? AF arrived yesterday so going into cycle 2.

My stats are:
TTC #2,
DD 13 months
Age 34
Cycle 2
AF due 13th August

Nubian9454 · 15/07/2017 22:24

Thanks Impatient. That's why I keep coming back to this forum. Thanks for the support. I think I will stop next Cycle. Just give myself a little break...not worrying about 2 ww. Then try again. Baby dust xx

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Impatientmummy36 · 15/07/2017 18:42

Sorry Nubian, that's so frustrating....don't give up hope altogether. Lots of people say the month they 'stopped trying' was the month they conceived. I know that's only anecdotal stuff and I take it with a pinch of salt, but you know what I mean!

I hope in a few years we look back once we've had #2.....(Kashy too and everyone else who's worried about age and age gaps as we were saying) ..... and don't even remember why we were so bothered! In the great scheme of things I know it's not that important. (Which I know does NOT help at the point af comes again! I can only be philosophical for about 1 week of the month and this is it!)

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Nubian9454 · 15/07/2017 11:45

June I think I will keep testing in case I am. My cycles are very regular so feel a bit confused. It's disheartening. All the other cycles I got clear positives on my opks. So not sure about this cycle. Wishing all you guys lots of baby dust x

MynameisJune · 15/07/2017 09:20

Sorry Nubian, could it be that you're ovulating later? I was using Ovia but it never seemed to be able to predict my fertile days at all.

Nubian9454 · 15/07/2017 08:57

I think I'm out for this monthSad. This was meant to be my fertile week. No true positive opks so far. Only very faint linesAngry. Plus we had guests staying this week so baby dancing wasn't a priority. Feel sad that another cycle potentially unsucessful. May take a break from ttcAngry

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