We're ovulating again, so let's jump our men. It's TTC after miscarriage thread 11

I'm about 80% certain I see a very faint line, @thegrumpysquirrel! Do you think you can see something in person? I've never had much success photographing squinters. Fingers crossed for the next one...

I got my first AF after the latest miscarriage this morning. Feels funny - the first one I haven't been sad about it a long time! Though I am a bit annoyed with my body because I'd really like to be able to do my first Coventry test in August, which means I need to be two months past miscarriage by 7dpo, and I suspect I'll be just a few days too early for that...

Hi everyone, I posted a while ago but was struggling so didn't post again. I have a DS age 4 but had 6 mc since and having investigations at St Mary's RMC. Just turned 41 so feeling like time is not on my side.

I had an endometrial scratch last month which is supposed to improve chance of successful pregnancy, so we have done all we can to help that come true - plenty of vits, opks and dtd! Strongest opk was unfortunately the day before a day we didn't dtd but still hoping we caught it.

Grumpy I have stared at a lot of hpts and I think I can see the hint of a line. Unfortunately all you can do is wait and test again and hopefully it will get stronger.

I really struggled with temping so haven't tried recently. It's so hard to catch it at the right moment and I spent many nights needing a wee but not wanting to get out of bed in case it affected my chart! I saw those Ovusense things advertised but I don't know, I think I would rather just have a general idea of when ov is and dtd as much as possible.

Water anniversaries are hard. My edd for mc#1 was midsummer day and now I mark all my lost pregnancies on that date. That first mc baby would have been 2 this year and sometimes I feel its presence just out of sight (I don't mean in a ghostly way, just I can imagine it playing with DS, being part of our lives).

I think I can but so faint that it's hard to be sure I'm not imagining it.

Will get more FRER tomorrow, at least I can't waste another one tomorrow morning because I've run out!

Sorry cross post - grumpy, have you held in the light? Can you see anything?

Can you see anything?

What dpo are you again?

Same here lime! 😩

I'm CD30 so expect af tomorrow or at least by Wednesday or so

Oh grumpy how frustrating. I'm afraid I can't see anything on that frer, but it might be the picture not showing anything up for me. What cd are you now? I still have everything crossed that because your temp is still up there's a chance!!

Temp is still elevated...

So I did my CBFM test this morning and it said not pregnant but there is definitely a faint second line so I caved and cracked out the FRER! Can you see anything on this?

Waving to everyone after a long absence.

Feeling a bit low here. 2 years (ish) after my first mc and in a month it would be the 2nd baby's EDD. Plus, BFN this morning... AND row with my teenager today. I must be mad.

Sorry to be a misery guts.

I'm with you, Lime and Yellow, I'm way too lazy to sort charting!

Emvy, thanks, think I'm going to go for it. Although not tonight as we're staying at Mum & Dad's and I just can't!

All the charting is quite inspiring but I too am going to go with Lime's 'shag all the time' technique due to a mixture of dyslexia those charts may as well be in Japanese to me and laziness!

Although if I do decide to I'm in the right place, you guys know your stuff.

No worries just found the charts gallery!

I think you need to pay to see the other charts no?

Have you had a look on the ff app at other people's BFP cycles? You might get some idea of what they should look like. I'm not sure what I'm looking for since yours dips and rises a few times after DPO so it might be harder to guess an outcome. I would certainly say getting yourself worked up about it won't help. 😕 Try to distract yourself with some good food and tv/cinema. X

I'm so crap at reading them, I think the best but hardest thing to do is wait a little longer. Good luck!!

I don't see a clear "implantation dip" on this like yours @Blissfulignorance but not sure if that means much

Thank you all.. I have no idea whether to be hopeful or not. I need to find a better way of coping with the uncertainty, because it's all consuming.

Mouse I'm sorry you had another short cycle. Fwiw I know that someone previously on this thread conceived with regular 26 day cycles.

@TheGrumpySquirrel this is my chart from my BFP the app didn't like my times that's why some of them are circles not dots. Hope this helps in some way.

I'm not doing anything currently. I'm waiting for af, should appear next week or a bit later maybe. That would be the 4-6 week window they gave me anyway.

Grumpy Id say you might have another 1-4 days before AF is due. From the charts I've seen the temp normally dips day of AF but it can be hit and miss. I'd say you would get a confirmation by testing again on Monday. Good luck!!

Spotting getting a tad heavier today. Thought AF would be full flow but nope just annoying me. Went out for a nice meal last night and I'm having pizza tonight. All my f's are buried under the patio. Managed a 25 day cycle. 😕 that's two in a row.