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May the bfps commence! May train part 2

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MotherofBoy · 07/05/2017 10:37

New thread! Hop on over... just to summarise stats:

Ttc#2
Cycle 3
CD16
Af/bfp due 20 May

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MrsHandles · 14/05/2017 06:55

Thanks Warrior

I should have had AF arrive on Friday. It has not happened yet. I also have zero of my usual preAF symptoms. Now here's the kicker: I cannot test until NEXT WEEKEND. That's because I'm at my dad's this weekend and at work all week. In my head I need to test on a weekend so I've got a couple of days to get used to the idea IF it's positive, so I don't go into work with my head messed up. Also, DH would be there and I obviously would want him to be the first to know as well as you lovely lot

Mumofawarrior12 · 14/05/2017 06:02

mrshandles I out my ring there to try and focus the camera better... to try get a closer up picture without it going blurry x

UnicornsandRainbows1 · 13/05/2017 23:13

No no, it's completely optional! :D

MrsHandles · 13/05/2017 23:03

Thank you unicorns I thought I was missing out on doing something crucial Grin

UnicornsandRainbows1 · 13/05/2017 22:59

Handles It's probably just so you can focus on a certain area than anything else. It might make it seem clearer Smile

lookatthemoon · 13/05/2017 22:45

Oh Blue - so sorry. That is heartbreaking. Take care Flowers

MrsHandles · 13/05/2017 21:51

Question mumofwarrior why do you put your ring near it or around it?

Mumofawarrior12 · 13/05/2017 21:09

Gonna retest with last of my tests tomorrow with first wee. Thanks for your replys xx

UnicornsandRainbows1 · 13/05/2017 19:10

Warrior it's pretty hard to tell I think. I mean I definitely see something there but it's hard to tell what it is exactly (imo). Sorry I'm not much help!

Mumofawarrior12 · 13/05/2017 18:55

Yeah I guess it must be... both must be then x this one too x

May the bfps commence! May train part 2
May the bfps commence! May train part 2
PhoenixMama · 13/05/2017 17:52

I'm so sorry Blue x

Mumofawarrier It doesn't look like a line in the one you took apart at all. Could it be evap?

Mumofawarrior12 · 13/05/2017 16:23

So sorry blue and good luck to everyone else waiting to test xx

MrsHandles · 13/05/2017 16:20

Oh Blue I'm so sorry to read that, hope you're ok. All my love

DT2016 · 13/05/2017 15:44

Congratulations Unicorn looks like a line to me.
So sorry Blue Flowers how upsetting. Hope you're doing ok.

Mumofawarrior12 · 13/05/2017 14:43

Is this a 2nd line do you think?

May the bfps commence! May train part 2
Mumofawarrior12 · 13/05/2017 14:27

Thanks ladies Smile
Just done another.. only ones I could get were the Sainsbury's own blue dye...
Not sure though?
Took the first one after 8-10mins & then took it apart as I can't tell..

May the bfps commence! May train part 2
May the bfps commence! May train part 2
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MotherofBoy · 13/05/2017 12:53

Oh blue I am so sorry, life can be very cruel. Look after yourself, hope to see you posting in September Flowers

Wow mum that's a lot to be dealing with. I would definitely get a FRER so you can be sure as it could be a false alarm so to speak. Hope your lo continues to make good progress, what a stressful time for you all.

unicorns I can definitely see a line

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UnicornsandRainbows1 · 13/05/2017 12:45

Oh Bluee I'm so sorry!!

Warrior sorry didn't mean to not reply to your post. I hope the 22nd brings you the news you want (sadly not in the best circumstances). It's really great to hear that you have such a little fighter!

BlueeSpottyTiger · 13/05/2017 12:39

unicorns and mother congratulations Grin

Not to be a downer but I'm not pregnant anymore..im out.. red blood and painful cramps started this morning after 4 days of bfp's the line got fainter and fainter each time. Not trying again now until septemeber after my holiday.

Goodluck everyone xxxx

hopingforabfp · 13/05/2017 12:28

I can definitely see a line there Unicorns! Xx

PhoenixMama · 13/05/2017 12:25

Wow MumofWarrier that is a LOT to have on your plate! Good luck with your Brave, strong boy & his ops!

Unicorns that looks like a very faint positive to me - time for a frer!

UnicornsandRainbows1 · 13/05/2017 11:59

So I'm 2 days before my due period. Took it without really much expectation. DH has said to stay calm and take another in a few days just in case AF does happen and I get disappointed.

But someone else can see this right? It's pretty faint Hmm

May the bfps commence! May train part 2
Mumofawarrior12 · 13/05/2017 10:22

Thanks ladies.
Reaching out here as I'm so scared. Don't get me wrong another baby would be lovely. It's just my baby boy is 7 months old and since he was born we haven't been home yet Sad he was diagnosed with a rare heart condition at my 20 week scan and has had 2 open heart ops so far. He is doing really well though and makes me so happy. His strength has totally changed me as a person. These past 3 weeks we have finally managed to bring him to the hospital accommodation where me and hubby have been staying. 22nd he has a procedure to see of he can have his next stage op then we can get him home.. of he's not eligible then it may mean transplant.
So I worry that if I am pregnant that how we would cope and what if the baby also has a heart condition.
We also have a 7 year old and hubby has a 16 yr old x

poppylou27 · 13/05/2017 09:44

@Mumofawarrior12 That looks like a positive to me! Definitely retest with a frer
Xxx

Emz01 · 13/05/2017 09:25

@Mumofawarrior12 I would definitely test tomorrow with a FRER as they are the most reliable and are quite sensitive. A FRER is a first response early result, you can get them from boots. Good luck!