Help protect children from gaming harms.

Take our survey

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC hoping for BFP May 2017

38 replies

poppylou27 · 04/05/2017 21:51

Hi there,

Just thought I'd start a thread on the off-chance there's anyone else out there TTC this month and wanting to share their journeys alongside someone in the same boat Smile

xxx

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Littleonek · 14/05/2017 11:33

Thanks it arrived on Saturday so only five days late. Its super light again, I think the pill is known for making periods light when you stop them. Hopefully the lightness continues.

Onto next month for us... for june Im not going to test until my period is offically one week late as it saves the stress and money on tests.

ForeverHopeful21 · 12/05/2017 12:11

Oh no littleone how awful! Hope you're ok Flowers
I think it might take a while for you to be regular again, I know it can take around 6 - 12 months for many, which must be so frustrating.

I'm out, so it's hoping for BFP in June for me x

Littleonek · 12/05/2017 09:56

Well im super annoyed!

Did a boots pregnancy test as i had one spare. Showed a weird line that looked positive (so was super happy for a few mins) but i think it was an evap line as it disappeared after 5 mins.

Did one of the first response ones i have left which was negative.

Still no period....

Littleonek · 11/05/2017 11:01

I used to be super regular when I was on the pill. Since stopping in January I waited four months for my period to return last month and now back to nothing. I didnt realise how much the pill can mess up your body. Sad

ForeverHopeful21 · 11/05/2017 08:59

Oh no Littleone that is very annoying! Are you usually regular?

I had some mild aches yesterday and achy legs too - which is my sign that AF is coming. Today I've got quite bad period pains so I think I'm out. I tend to get pains a couple of days before AF arrives so that fits with my cycle.
This is first cycle ttc again after my MC so I wasn't expecting a bfp yet anyway. x

Littleonek · 11/05/2017 08:40

Still no period - 4 days late now, no pms symptoms nothing. Very annoying! May have tl retest on Monday. Just when I thought my periods were finally back to normal. AngrySad

Littleonek · 09/05/2017 21:01

Thanks, stomach cramps tonight so I think its due soon.

No symptoms can be a good sign. Two of my mates said they had no symptoms not even pms one when they got a postivie result. The only sign was a late period.

ForeverHopeful21 · 09/05/2017 19:15

poppy glad to hear you're gearing up for the fertile window and lots of bd!

littleonek do you have any symptoms? They say it's not over until Aunt F arrives. Keeping everything crossed.

imoasta love the positivity!! Not jealous at all of your trip away Envy

I'm 9 dpo so its early days, but I don't have any symptoms after my exciting twinge a few days ago. I feel completely 'normal' which is annoying the hell out of me haha. I'm trying to refrain from the sticks ...I have 3 in my cupboard and they call out to me constantly! But I've told myself I'm not allowed to pee on anything yet! x

ImoAsta · 09/05/2017 18:45

I'm finally in my fertile window (wahoooo) and have been getting highs on my cbfm so trying to dtd every other day 😊

Plus me and my OH are going away soon so I've got that to look forward too and will hopefully stop me obsessing in the tww hehe

I'm staying positive this month!

How you doing @ForeverHopeful21?

Xx

Littleonek · 09/05/2017 17:39

My period is two days late so did a pregnancy test this morning which was negative. Looks like its onto next month to try! Smile

poppylou27 · 09/05/2017 12:16

@ForeverHopeful21 I'm nearly into my fertile window so still impatiently waiting haha!

Xxx

OP posts:
ForeverHopeful21 · 09/05/2017 09:50

How's everyone getting on?? x

poppylou27 · 05/05/2017 22:19

@ForeverHopeful21 that's okay, I think all the weird symptoms in a way is a good sign as, if you don't normally have them, then it would suggest something different is going on in your body... I definitely know what you mean about getting your hopes up though, sometimes you don't want to get too excited about something to be disappointed but it seems atm it's looking hopeful! Definitely keep us updated with it! Who knows, this could be the lucky thread Wink

Xxx

OP posts:
ForeverHopeful21 · 05/05/2017 21:49

Thanks poppylou . I thought it would be way to early to be linked with implantation. But now you've said that, I thought my pee smelt really weird today so maybe that's an early symptom too? Haha sorry if that's tmi. I'm not sure what's going on with me? Obviously don't want to get my hopes up, and there's no other symptoms, but all very strange today. The pain in my side has gone now and no more cm. Very odd! x

poppylou27 · 05/05/2017 18:36

@ForeverHopeful21 could it be implantation bleeding? I remember 4 days after we dtd last time I had really sharp pain and brown cm which on reflection I thought it could have been the egg attaching.. I'm not big on the science behind it all but I definitely remembering it happening and thinking I wonder if that's what happened, albeit I didn't believe it as we weren't exactly trying for a baby at that point and shrugged it off, if that makes any sense at all lol xxx

OP posts:
Littleonek · 05/05/2017 18:36

One tip for clear blue ovulation sticks.. i kept on getting an error when I put the stick into a pot of wee. Did some research online and people recommended to not just a pot and to hold it in my stream and keep it held downwards and not flat. For me that seemed to work no more invalid errors vs wasting 5 in a row all invalid errors.

Another tip I learnt whislt waiting four months for my period to return... with the digital clear blue pregnancy tests that say pregnant or not pregnant. Apparently they are less sensitive so use a first response test and if you get a postivie on this a few days later use the clear blue digital.

Im due on my period on monday, this was my first month of proper trying as I had to wait four months after stopping the pill for my period to return.

good luck everyone! Smile

ForeverHopeful21 · 05/05/2017 18:19

I've had a slight ache in my left side over the past few hours but I have a huge ovarian cyst on that side so didn't think too much of it (I get aches and pains a lot!). Then I just went to the toilet and when I wiped, it looked like brown CM on the toilet paper.
I don't ever have spotting and its way too early for AF. I'm 5 dpo.
Am I overreacting?
I kind of got a flashback to the day that I MC, as it was brown cm that started the whole thing. Sorry if I'm being irrational x

poppylou27 · 05/05/2017 17:50

@ForeverHopeful21 Smilehugs to you too xxxx

OP posts:
ForeverHopeful21 · 05/05/2017 17:11

I think if the MC taught me anything it's that you really don't know what you had until it's taken away!

Amen to that Poppylou
Hugs xxx

poppylou27 · 05/05/2017 16:47

@goingagain yeah I have the cheap amazon ones too! Only got them for this month though so haven't used any previously!

I have the same plan though, from next week it'll be whenever the opportunity arises lol, all corners covered then haha! Ahhh yeah, people have said that docs may say to wait for dating sake but other people that have said it I think are more concerned that we are grieving and maybe not thinking straight about trying again so soon! I think if the MC taught me anything it's that you really don't know what you had until it's taken away!

OP posts:
goingagain · 05/05/2017 16:35

@poppylou27

I have used the Clear Blue Fertility monitor (the old style one, I bought it in late 2010!) for all pregnancies (well, apart from the last two cycles this time around as I forgot to pee on the stick in the morning) - it has been a magic charm for me!

Out of curiosity I have also used the cheap Amazon OPKs the last couple of cycles to see what they say vs the monitor, and I have noticed that they seem to pick up a 'peak' the day before the monitor does. This cycle I am just going to make sure we get jiggy plenty during the window and in the days running up to it. Last two cycles have only managed it the day of the peak and day after.... Blush

I am also 36, I guess that is also probably going to have an impact!

Re miscarriages, after the early loss I had at 6 weeks the doc said it was fine to crack straight on.

poppylou27 · 05/05/2017 16:21

Hi @goingagain

Are you using any type of ovulation tracking? Just thinking with last month, it could have been the chemicals that made toy ovulate a little later than expected? I say this like I'm an expert in ovulation but it confuses the hell out of me Hmm

It sounds like you're in a good position with falling so quickly with the first two and soon after with the third. It's good to hear other people are trying so soon after unfortunate MC as I've had a lot of people trying to put us off the idea of TTC and telling us to wait a couple a months to 'get back to normal' - suppose it's easier for people to say that when they're not in our position though!
Xxx

OP posts:
goingagain · 05/05/2017 16:04

I have been lurking on these types of thread a bit which makes me think I should post!

We are going for number 4. I guess this is cycle 4. Cycles 1 and 2 were chemical pregnancies, big fat nothing last month, and currently CD4 so ten days or so to go to The Hot Zone for me.

Children 1 and 2 were conceived first month of trying, and no. 3 on third month (first month was a chemical, second resulted in early miscarriage at 6 weeks and I conceived immediately after that).

I have therefore been incredibly lucky thus far, I fear this one may take a bit more effort!

poppylou27 · 05/05/2017 15:53

@ImoAsta it seems that we're about the same dates, next week will be the beginning of my fertile window too! Hopefully it is our month!

@ForeverHopeful21 they do say you are more fertile post MC and it sounds like you've got the right day so you may just get your miracle this month! Fingers crossed for you!!

@Mamabooksbabynumber2 I know how hard it is too wait as I was like that when I fell in February! I did first response on day 26 and got a faint line, not like that helps you at all for waiting but it may show up! Have you noticed any symptoms/signs?

Xxx

OP posts:
ForeverHopeful21 · 05/05/2017 11:02

Mamabook I had already missed the start of ovulation as my cycle is all over the place post MC. I did the clear blue thinking that it was a couple of days early to test but low and behold the static smiley pops up! So I was a bit late with dtd but did all I could this month. Like I said ....hoping for a miracle Smile x

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.