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I need advice please - bit worried!!! Would appreciate some feedback....

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DazzleGem · 13/04/2017 10:12

Hi everyone,

My partner and I have only been TTC for 2 months - so I don't have much to go on.
What I do know:
Last few cycle lengths:
31 Days
30 Days
36 Days (First month of trying I thought I was PG but kept getting negatives so maybe stressed delayed)

First month of trying we dtd CD 8,9,11,12,13,14,15,16,17,18 and nothing.

This month I've started the ClearbBlue digital ovulation tests and haven't had a smiley face yet (It's now CD 19)

This month so far we have only dtd on CD 9,14,17 & 18.
When we dtd on CD 17 when I went to the loo I noticed a tiny smear of blood and again yesterday. Today when I went to the loo I had a tiny tiny bit of brown discharge.

As far as the tests are saying I haven't ovulated yet.

Should I worry or go see a doctor? Never had even a bit of tinged discharge before so I'm really worried?

Thanks

Dg x

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WantToGoingTo · 13/04/2017 17:22

Could be sensitive cervix - due to coming off birth control and hormone changes may make more sensitive during sex especially mid cycle causing bleeding? If you are concerned see the gp as they may refer you for a smear if not had one recently (not worrying you but if it's not normal for you then you have right to see a gp if you want :))

Original poster
DazzleGem · 13/04/2017 15:20

Just went to the loo there and had more brown discharge, much darker this time.

I'm a bit concerned now? It's like the start of a period but I'm not due for another 2 weeks?

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Original poster
DazzleGem · 13/04/2017 11:57

Hiya :)

I was but came off it around September I believe, just been using condoms since until last month.

I just worried a bit about the discharge and then also not smiley face...just hope I get one soon :(

Based on my cycle I assume I would need to keep dtd later on in my cycle?

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Pibbee · 13/04/2017 11:36

Hi Dazzle

Were you on the Pill before? It can take some time for your body to sort itself out after that. The lack of smily face may well be due to that. Try not to panic.

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DazzleGem · 13/04/2017 10:21

Thanks for replying! x

When we did dtd on CD 17 it wasn't sore but was a bit uncomfortable when we begun as we didn't bother with any foreplay (sorry if TMI).

Is that ok? Obviously just want to know there isn't any problems as I've never experienced this.

Still really annoyed as I got another O this morning. Where is my smiley face! :(

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physicskate · 13/04/2017 10:17

A doctor will probably fob you off... tbh. You probably ov about 14 days before your period starts.

The. Lending could simply be minor irritation. If it becomes more of a pattern get checked out, but after two incidents, gps will probably not be much help mine hasn't been despite ttc for over a year with several early miscarriages.