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PMA Express to BFP Thread #5

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Hippychic79 · 11/04/2017 12:55

So we are rolling on to thread #five –
We are not giving up, our PMA is still alive.

Put pure and simply,
We want to have babies,
God, please help everyone of these lovely ladies.

We support each other,
We are funny and kind,
And we will not be giving up,
Until we see that thick BFP line.

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ArchiesMamaBird · 06/05/2017 08:29

Moo thank you so much, I really thought we both had it this month too. Never mind, back on it this cycle xx

Anna2006 · 06/05/2017 08:27

Oh Archie it's just crap isn't it!

I'm really annoyed about this nurse & hat she wouldn't give me a scan because I can't stop worrying. My period has been even shorter this month. It's nothing like it was before an I'm worried this is the reason I'm not falling. The nurse said 1-2 day period can be fine. But I feel like she was fobbing me off tbh. 😫😫

Moo31 · 06/05/2017 08:06

Xoxo

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Moo31 · 06/05/2017 08:02

@Hippy @Archies ladies I am gutted for you both. I really believed it was your month. Wine and chocolate (and vodka hippy!) and be kind to yourselves and back on it. I am so sorry. Really was hoping to read entirely different posts this morning :( FlowersCakeBrewWineGin
#trustthetimingsofyourlife

ArchiesMamaBird · 06/05/2017 08:00

For you Hippy and anyone else who needs a little reminder Smile xx

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ArchiesMamaBird · 06/05/2017 07:59

Hippy vent as much as you want to, we're all here for you. I will admit that I'm feeling super emotional already, but after 10 long months ttc now, trying to see the positives is my coping mechanism. I promise that we will get there Hun 😘 xx

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Hippychic79 · 06/05/2017 07:48

archies fair play to you for keeping up the Pma ... I'm trying but failing dismally !!!
Dp and I had our monthly fight last night but made up before he left for work.
I'm a January baby and although I'd love to be upduffed I didn't really want my child to have a January birthday as I've not been a fan of it myself .... that said I'm freaking gutted as I was feeling more hopeful this month and the thought of riding another month on this ttc train is enough to drive you crazy.
I'm sorry for being a negative nancy but the witch isn't even here yet and like you Archie's I'm willing her on to get here as I'm keen to keep ovulation timings at the wk end as dtd is easier on Saturdays and Sundays .... ok so enough of my moaning ...
My 3 things ....
1/ I have two amazingly supportive cycle buddies and some amazingly supportive mumsnet friends who are the only ones that I understand how shitty I feel right now
2/ I am in love with my dp and I am lucky to have found him a bit later in life after a disastrous marriage and he actually wants kids (albeit it not yet)
3/ I have more time to clear my stupid credit card and save up to buy my baby the very best of everything

And that is all I can muster apart from echoing Archie's hashtag ....
Come on af ... get your arse here NOW

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ArchiesMamaBird · 06/05/2017 07:32

Oh I'm sorry Hippy. I've had a huge temperature dip in my BBT this morning so I'm definitely out too. Just awaiting her arrival now, hoping she doesn't make me wait too long!

In keeping with Sarah's PMA, here's my 3 positives:

1: it's my moms hen do in 2 weeks, at least I can get drunk on it now!
2: this cycle was much shorter than usual, and I OV a week earlier (thanks to acupuncture I think) so fingers crossed that carries on so I don't have to wait too long to next OV
3: if I'd have conceived this cycle my due date would have been early Jan, and just after DS's birthday. So my next baba's birthday will now be at least a month after DS's instead Grin #keepingthePMAsoidontcry
#comeonAFhurrythefuckupnow

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Hippychic79 · 06/05/2017 07:04

Oh yeah - bfn on ic from me this morning in case you hadn't noticed from my attitude !!!
#nowcomeonafgetroundhere
Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 06/05/2017 07:03

Now where's that fecking wand !!! Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 06/05/2017 07:03

sarahb you're an inspiration to us all you really are .... having Pma all the way is tough but fair play to you I know you've been on this journey a long time and from the hippy that set up the thread in the first place I would like to crown you the Pma queen ... xxx

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sarahboro1 · 05/05/2017 22:49

Someone somewhere has already waved that wand for us hippy, we just need to have faith and our time will come when it's meant to. ✨🌟✨

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Hippychic79 · 05/05/2017 22:07

You're all so lush ... I just wish I could wave a wand and get us all upduffed xxx

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Hippychic79 · 05/05/2017 22:06

Thank you xxx

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Hippychic79 · 05/05/2017 22:06

I love you guys so much xxxx

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Moo31 · 05/05/2017 21:51

Aw @hippy :'( I hope you kiss and make up with your oh :) feel better soon xoxo

Anna2006 · 05/05/2017 21:29

Thanks @cakesalot

Shitty shitty AF. Big hugs hippy. Come on cycle buddy. Test tomorrow morning and see that brings. An if not we pick ourselves back up. We keep going as that's the only way forward. Push through the crap and negative feelings!! Bloody hormone don't help this rollercoaster ride do they!

sarahboro1 · 05/05/2017 21:26

Oh no hippychic 😢 Chin up chick, pm me if you need to vent. Xx

sarahboro1 · 05/05/2017 21:25

Oh no hippychic 😢 Chin up chick, pm me if you need to vent. Xx

CakesALot · 05/05/2017 21:17

Oh @Hippychic79 I'm so sorry hun. I hope tomorrow brings better news but wallow of you need to. So sorry af got to you @Anna2006 as well. She needs to get the message! Asap!

Have an amazing hols @Dollydaydream2829! Sounds lush!! Milk the babymoon thing, get as many in as you can!!

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Hippychic79 · 05/05/2017 21:00

Thanks for your feedback ladies - and kind words of support. I will test again in the morning but not feeling hopeful ....
My Pma has leaked out my eyes in the form of tears and I've fallen out with dp .... so all in all a shitty result all round
Xxx

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Sophsta · 05/05/2017 20:46

Oh hippy a BFN is always heartbreaking. Test with FMU tomorrow and I have everything crossed for you!

Moo31 · 05/05/2017 20:40

@Hippy definitely test with fmu tomorrow. I tested with fmu on a frer at 12dpo and it was the faintest line ever.

@Dolly Madrid is on my list for a possible last getaway in August so I am excited to hear about your holiday!! Have a great time!! Grin

sarahboro1 · 05/05/2017 19:40

Dolly hope you have a fabulous break in Madrid!!! Sooo jealous I can't wait for some sunshine on my skin!!! Baby's first holiday too!!! Ooo you might find some name inspiration too!! 🏖☀️😎

sarahboro1 · 05/05/2017 19:36

Anna so sorry she turned up at your door, treat yourself this weekend ready for full pumpage next cycle!!! 💐 Xx