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PMA Express to BFP Thread #5

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Hippychic79 · 11/04/2017 12:55

So we are rolling on to thread #five –
We are not giving up, our PMA is still alive.

Put pure and simply,
We want to have babies,
God, please help everyone of these lovely ladies.

We support each other,
We are funny and kind,
And we will not be giving up,
Until we see that thick BFP line.

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ArchiesMamaBird · 08/05/2017 20:13

Amanda thank you for giving us a kick up the bum and getting the positivity back on track!

My stats:

TTC #2
BFP due 2nd June 😊

And my positivity:
1: I'm going out for dinner with my girls on Wednesday
2: I had a day off work today and had a total chill with DS which was lovely
3: AF has nearly vacated the building 😬

AmandaP86x · 08/05/2017 19:31

Exactly hippy!!! We will all get there.

  1. The weather is beautiful in Scotland and iv managed to hang out and dry two washings!
  1. I go to Marbella on Thursday for 4 nights with DP.
  1. I have one shift left and a week off!
Hippychic79 · 08/05/2017 17:29

My stats are
Ttc#1
Bfp due 04/06

Three things
Dp and I have nearly made up
I have ordered fertility supplements for dp
And I know i will have a baby soon

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Hippychic79 · 08/05/2017 17:25

Thanks amanda and magpie ... I'm sorry for being a negative nancy .... i know you guys know how I feel but sometimes I just feel so alone. Your right though magpie this is just a wave that's crashed and I will be back because I know I'm gonna be a mum one day soon :)) xxxx

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MissMagpie · 08/05/2017 15:15

Aww Hippy I totally understand how you feel. And everyone else who is feeling ttc is getting too much. It definitely gets me in waves - I am up and down with my PMA and sometimes so fed up that I am not pregnant yet. I start to panic it will never happen again.

We are all rooting for you. And here when you need us. But if taking a break helps then do it. You will feel better for it.

AmandaP86x · 08/05/2017 15:15

I have no real symptoms apart from this left sided pain still niggling. I remember when I was PG last time and I got a TVS at 5 weeks she said I had a small cyst on my left ovary which was prob niggling but it defo settled down xxx

AmandaP86x · 08/05/2017 15:13

@rose I'm the same I am sure I ovulated last Friday (couldn't be 100% though) so I would be 10dpo today. App says I can take test in 2 days (eeek) and AF Sunday apprently!!!!

I kind of wrote this month off a little bit as I wasn't well and stuff but now this week is here I feel so scared. It's the horrible disappointment but I always try to find a reason why it's not happened this month and that usually helps 😁

AmandaP86x · 08/05/2017 15:11

Morning girls well I'm saying morning cause it's my post nightshift morning lol!!!!

@hippy awww no I really hope your PMA improves. I think the first few days of the cycle r the worst seems like ages until FW and then the TWW. Pls stay on the thread u r a ray of sunshine here & I enjoy ur chat. Just remember that your body is working - your having regular cycles & periods so it's honestly just not ur month yet. (I feel like yous can tell me this too when I'm back on CD1) ha ha

Why doesn't everyone give me their stats and I will post a new list and try and get the momentum going again????

Stats and three reasons why you are grateful today.....

Go go go!!!!! This girl gang isn't giving up!!!! 💛💛💛

Hippychic79 · 08/05/2017 11:04

morning ladies -
thank you for for your well wishes.
Please don't get the wrong idea - my PMA has taken a massive hit this weekend and i am absolutely fed up of this ttc lark to the point where I'm thinking of taking a few months off.
I will be following the thread and making the odd comment I'm sure, but I don't want to drag you ladies down so I'll be quieter than normal.

Completely understand the fear thing Rose - I feel the same when its my time to test. I am keeping everything crossed for you as I've still got AF and DP and I are still on icey terms.

xxx

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notparticularlypatient · 08/05/2017 10:45

I get the test fear, rose. I feel the same. I also find that to postpone testing may mean a couple of more days being hopeful, and I'll
take that any day over seeing that depressing bfn. Really hope that in your case your are postponing to see a nice and clear bfp very soon!

Roseandbee · 08/05/2017 08:43

Thank patient, I don't know when I will test, like Amanda I'm also suffering from test fear.
Usually I'm all up for early testing, I'm 11dpo today due to miss my AF on Friday. I've pinned a lot of hopes on this cycle so can't face seeing a bfn if I test too early. This way I can keep up the PMA

ArchiesMamaBird · 08/05/2017 08:37

Thank you everyone Smile

Amanda keep the faith, you could be going on your holiday knowing there's a little bean growing in your tummy. Or if not, at least you get to drink and relax ready for your BFP next cycle Flowers

AmandaP86x · 08/05/2017 08:15

No I don't think so I'm actually so scared this week I don't know why 😭 I go to Spain on Thursday so it's gonna make or break my holiday isn't it!!! Xxx

notparticularlypatient · 08/05/2017 07:38

Hi all, I have been away this weekend and haven't been on mn at all, so a bit late in discovering the tough weekend some has had.

Hippy and archie so sorry to hear that Af showed up, I had such a good feeling about some more bfps. Gutted for you! But amazed by the pma from both of you. Hats off ladies. As others have said: we will get there!

Sorry blonde for not getting the news you had hoped for** on your amh test. It must be terribly upsetting. I'm no expert, but I also know about good outcomes for people with low amh. I hope you get better news when you go through your results with your consultant.

Amanda and rose, Fx for you both! When will you be testing?

AmandaP86x · 07/05/2017 23:46

My period came on CD28 last month which is tomorrow and I pure have the fear for this week 😭😭😭😭

Roseandbee · 07/05/2017 22:16

Hi everyone, just trying to catch up

So sorry Blondie, Im going to get my AMH tested soon as my FSH came back as high. I have been reading up on it lately and a lot of women do manage to conceive in the end despite bad results, so keep up the PMA although i can imagine how devastated you must be at the moment.

Im sorry to hear aunt flo has been paying more visits. Thats a great affirmation Hippy, I have a similar one in the fertility hypnosis i've been listening to and thanks for the extra info about the feet warming. I had two pairs of socks on today and a hot water bottle as i panicked i was feeling chilly lol.
Have felt really dizzy an woozie on and off today, im hoping thats a good sign. The one good thing about the tww is when ever you feel rubbish you feel like their might be a silver lining.

sarahboro1 · 07/05/2017 20:53

Oh girls just caught up on your weekends, I think we all need to go out and get drunk!! Apart from our grads obviously, they can be our designated drivers!! 😂

Firstly blondie I'm so sorry for your news but hippy is right, doctors aren't always right and I shall keep my fx for you. Please do seek advice and lots of opinions and maybe look at alternative therapies? Keep your chin up. 💐

Hippy and Archies I'm so sorry af has turned up. But your pma has been fabulous!!! Spoil yourselves and get ready for your next opportunity to make a miracle!!! 😍

And as I've just caught up with you all I've just noticed my pma crown!!!!! Thank you so much hippy!!! I shall wear it with pride as your longest serving pumpage queen!!! 👑

Hippychic79 · 07/05/2017 13:21

hoping it only takes one magical sperm so fx you get a few good well timed sessions in lol :)

anna glad your feeling better :)) cd1 was yesterday for me and equally filled with emotional hormone driven tears so we can be let off I think. Cd2 ain't much better but my period is a beut this month - sorry tmi ... lots of rich red blood so I'm loving it ... I don't like it when it's sparse and a half effort lol.
Pma for today
Sun is shining
Had a lush chat with a good friend who knows exactly how I feel
Come to the realisation that I'm text book cycle and I need to get dp's Doreen's up to speed so ordered him some magic pills ... could take a good few months for these to kick in .... so .....
I'm gonna enjoy a few chilled out cycles ....
Take the pressure off myself ...
Stop beating myself up for something I have limited control over
And concentrate on enjoying the pre baby life and wait patiently for my stop ....
#itrusthetimingsofmylife

Have a beautiful Sunday ladies
Xxx

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hopingforabfp · 07/05/2017 10:35

Hopefully hippy that's if we stick to that as we don't always get chance with LO xx

Hippychic79 · 07/05/2017 09:21

anna glad your Pma is back today ... I've had lots of tears this weekend too ... this journey is a bit rough at times but we will get there cycle buddie xxx

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Anna2006 · 07/05/2017 09:15

@AmandaP86 sorry about the baby bomb & due date soon approaching. It's the shittest thing. It's actually wasn't as bad as I expect though 💗

@asrchiesmamanird. Sorry about your baby bomb too. It's shit isn't it. I had one from very good friends few weeks back but they understand our situation an said we know it's tough for you guys after the loss. So at least they appreciated how we felt. I am suspecting more baby bombs to come especially in summer. Just praying to god we will have a BFP so it won't hurt so bad.

Was genuinely feeling really down yesterday and had lots of tears. Convinced I won't ever get pregnant an my period is short & stupid and just annoyed in general why I don't know it's working. But today I've woken up and feel a bit more positive. CD4 and AF will be done for me & just have some spotting when I wipe. So only 8 days until FW.

Think I might try CB dual hormone ovulation tests this month to see when my estrogen starts to rise and compare them with the cheap OPKs when a static appears. It's just something proactive for me to do.

Oh and DHs vitamins arrived and he took the three yesterday so right on schedule. Fx for a boost!

Hippychic79 · 07/05/2017 09:10

hoping if your dtd every other day you should be covered and Lady Luck / Mother Nature should do the rest xxx good luck chic xxx

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hopingforabfp · 07/05/2017 09:05

Thank you hippy we are dtd every other day anyway just to be sure. Will keep you updated xx

Hippychic79 · 07/05/2017 08:44

hoping sorry I didn't reply yesterday - I would start opks on cd18 if you think you ovulate in cd 25 ... gives you plenty of time to catch it. Keep us posted :) and happy dtd

amanda thank you for your kind words and hugs and sorry to hear about your five bb's ... ffs that's just shite ... fx this is your month. Af rocked up early for me last month but at least it's a fresh start quicker. We just need to welcome her as she is a necessary part of the process.
archies hugs for you too - bb's definitely should be banned on cd1 .... fx your bfp is just round the corner.
#keepthefaithladies
#pmaallthewaytobfp
#thistrainaintstoppingtillweallgetthere
#thistrainisgoingtobfp
Xxx

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ArchiesMamaBird · 07/05/2017 07:42

Oh god Amanda, 5 times, that's crazy!! Come on, this will be our cycle Smile