Test results show Chlamydia

I don't know if I was tested during pregnancy. The last time I was certain was 2010. Sorry about your MC xx

Sorry @dizzy199 I posted too soon.

I'll wait till Monday for the tests and then hopefully by this time next week the results should be back. If it's positive I'll obviously have to say something to DH but if it's negative then I can just deal with it by myself and not worry anyone.

Thank you again for your support. I think this post has gone off topic with my relationships with both my DH and DC being brought into question. There has been some support from a lot of people though and professionals on here. Hopefully it's something like they say and just antibodies due to an old infection or non sti strain. I honestly have never been treated for an sti and if I had it wouldn't have come as a surprise to me.

@dizzy199 thank you for your reply. I don't think for a moment it's DH who is the source of this as he's someone who won't even use public toilets for fear of germs and any minor deviation from 100% healthy in him he has to get checked out so if he had chlamydia symptoms he would have been straight to the dr.

My DC has never been ill before really so this is his first experience of antibiotics. He's had the odd cold but it's always a 24hr thing and this has been since Saturday now. We saw a dr on Saturday afternoon but she just dismissed us as it's only a 5min slot.

@fritzdonovan yours was a longer answer so I allowed more time.

@fritzdonovan it's a way for schools to save money. If they use a supply agency they pay costs to them and often a full day pay when there's not always a full day cover needed. I am paid by teaching hour like a cover supervisor but we are called supply bank now. If I get a full day I get paid that full day but if not I won't. The dept I am qualified in has a vacancy coming up in September and I will then be on salary like a normal teacher. I will have a timetable and classes and have marking planning and all the other responsibility.

As I said above my DS is going to be fine now. He's on antibiotics that work for him and he'll be back to being himself in no time. I was already home with him because he was poorly but we had to go back to the GP because he was being so sick and I had I had no control over his temperature. As a precaution they sent us to the PDU to help because he has had febrile seizures in the past.

I have said it's a strange relationship by other people's standards because I think we have a lot of ways of doing things that aren't as common these days. As for saying my son being bf at two is unusual though is not. 2 is the very minimum recommendation for weaning and I know a lot of people who bf their children at 2,3,4 and beyond. He's still very little and times like this needs that extra help in immunity and comfort.

As to me passing on chlamydia to my son that's only what I have read online since because it says that it's passed on during pregnancy and birth. That's why a lot of people are tested for it. It just seems odd that neither myself or my partner have symptoms and IF dc did get it then neither does he.

@picklemepopcorn he will be fine, thank you for wishing him well. He was at the drs Tuesday night with tonsillitis and they gave him antibiotics. Unfortunately he had a bad reaction to them and was being violently sick and just wretching constantly and his temperature was uncontrollable. They sent us to the hospital to get him sorted because he has history of febrile seizures and they just wanted to be safe. He's fine now though. This morning his temp is down to 38.8 (it was 41.4 at its worst yesterday).

I think my relationship with DH is quite old fashioned. He grew up in a family where his parents had traditional roles. I grew up with parents that both worked and spent most of my time at my grandparents who taught me what my mum did was wrong and she should be looking after the children. I became a teacher like my grandma because I loved the idea of it and when I started my teaching practice I loved it. It fits well with my personality and home life so that's a win win for when my DS starts school full time in January. I personally don't think it's an awful relationship I have with DH I just think he likes the traditional set up and I am fine with it. It was difficult for him for me to go back to work and he would have rather I stayed home till our DC started school. The thought of giving him this news is awful. If it was the other way around I'd be asking questions as to what he had been doing!

@titaniascloset why is it weird? Because I didn't know I had something that might be preventing me have children?

@fritzdonovan due to leaving my previous teaching job to have a baby I have gone back as a supply bank teacher so I literally get paid by the hours I teach. Fantastic if I get a full day... not so great if I'm there all day and teach one lesson! I won't be a contracted subject teacher until September when space becomes available. So yes I work 8.40-2.50 (we have two lunch breaks of 20mins so we can finish early and avoid the next school finishing time at 3.20 because it causes problems).

No DH didn't take the day off because he works an hour away and had got the train yesterday. At the time we were sent to the hospital my first priority was to get home and sorted to get to the hospital rather than wait for his meeting to finish and then contact him before I left. I left him a message explaining what was happening and he called me as soon as he was finished. As I had the car he had no quick way to us and I said I would be fine. Which we were. Plus when my son is ill all he wants is me and like night times just tells everyone else, including his dad, to go away and cries till I get him. Not his fault just I'm the one with the milk and no one else (and no at 2yrs on I can't express because it's the comfort he needs more than the nutrition).

@toobloodytired I have never had treatment for chlamydia. I'd assume I'd have to physically be tested and know I was taking it. It's why I am shocked I have these blood results. The gp said as I have nothing on my medical history about being diagnosed or treated for an sti she can't say how long I have had it. She's waiting till my test results on Monday come back before doing anything as it's only an antibody test and not able to show the presence of an actual active infection. IF there's evidence of a current infection she will treat me then. However that would mean all three of us would need treating I'd guess because my son will have it too

We fell in love instantly. The day I met him I fell in love. We got together in December and first slept together in the march. Due to a court case in April we didn't sleep together again and I found out I was pregnant the end of that month. We then moved in quickly and the baby was here before we knew it.

What?! We'd only been together just over a year when we had the baby and only slept together twice in that time. He's a strict lights off man and locks the door in the shower so I've not seen him without his pants on either.

It's only because I've been breastfeeding 27mths that he's seen me topless and even then I'm discreet these days because of other family members who disagree with me feeding.

Our relationship isn't like loads of others I'll admit. We sort of got rushed into a serous relationship after knowing each other four months and falling pregnant. It's fine and we got married but he probably wasn't quite ready for it all. He's a brilliant dad and supported my decision to go back to work even though no one else did. He struggles with it though as DC only wants him for playing and when the sun goes down treats DH like the devil and won't let him near either of us.

I know he earns enough as he can afford treats, shopping trips, we've just been approved for a £300l mortgage, he drives a new car etc. He's just not sure why I need to know what he earns.

DC has been in hospital all day so I've not had time to process what I'm going to say. I'm going to wait till Monday and ask for the results to be called through to me as soon as they come back. I'm not sure how to tell him either way.

As to me thinking sti's are a bit dirty I guess it's the way I was brought up. I used to get tested regularly as I struggled with finding a contraception that worked and they did a test each time I had a new pill or injection. Every time was clear till I stopped after being told I wouldn't ever have children in 2011. Then I did have a baby and I guess I didn't think about it. This test has made me worry so much about how I must have caught it in the last six years and don't know how. The odds of all three of us all having it with no symptoms must be massive but it's DC I feel sorry for most.

@rebelrogue I don't understand why.