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Getting Ready For Baby Challenge - Part 6

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HopefullyDothButterNoParsnips · 22/03/2017 11:33

Thread 6 already. We are a bunch of ladies who are either

  • humping (TTC)
  • by humping yet (waiting to TTC)
  • humped (preggers)

And everything in between!

We've had 7 BFPs in three months and we love a bit of lucky lube and a squinter on 9DPO - come and join the madness!

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Penguin27 · 30/03/2017 20:49

Haha confused, it could be that thinking about the position we were in!! Para I'm not sure it will be a sign for me after what the dr said today... I think I'll do another test on Saturday if no AF

How frustrating that there's no self-referral in your area, Hb. Definitely try talking to them again, you shouldn't have to wait that long until your first appointment! Sorry you're feeling so exhausted Cake

DancingUnicorn · 30/03/2017 20:47

Yeah, I think Harmony is a blood test to look for abnormalities. I believe it can also tell you the gender...

I'm glad you are being kind to yourself para definitely don't apologise for chocolate eating!

MrsC2017 · 30/03/2017 20:44

Oh and para be good to yourself, have the chocolate and go easy in yourself while you settle back to work xx
penguin I got that exactly like confused said, jab in the cervix and I would jump a mile!

MrsC2017 · 30/03/2017 20:43

hb no i work in school administration, I'm technically working from home during the holidays but there's never much to do, answer a few emails and thats the height of it! I can't wait, I really bloody need it, I feel shocking.
hb AFAIK harmony is a blood test that can check for lots of genetic abnormalities etc but I stand to be corrected!

confusedat23 · 30/03/2017 20:39

I used to get what I thought was womb pain Penguin but was actually DP hitting my Cervix Blush... it used to make me jump out of my skin! Lol

Grumpy at least you have travel to bring your appointment on quicker!... will your DH be going with you to booking in?... i must admit i found it really exciting to spend 2 hours talking about the baby etc!

Jupiter I am so jealous your niece sounds like s massive bundle of joy bless her!... it's nice that you are allowing your DSis the time she deserves as well

Para eat all the choco you want hun you deserve it!... this next cycle should be like a cheat cycle for you whilst waiting for proper AF...

HbH · 30/03/2017 20:38

MrsC are you a teacher too?

Also, what's this harmony scan thing... have seen it on my travels?

HbH · 30/03/2017 20:35

Saw the OBEM trailer last night, DH & i looked at each other & said NO WAY! I've seen it once and it scared the life out me... still haven't considered getting this thing out!!

Jupiter you didn't miss anything about self referral... it looks like my area doesn't do it! It's certainly not obvious anyway. I emailed some sort of maternity liason service for advice but they haven't got back to me! I think I'll just have to pop into the docs in person and make some more enquires but probably can't do that for over a week.

Feeling less emosh today but so physically tired... i have to come straight in and sit with a hot water on my back all night. Drove home this eve wishing i had a sitting down job! 10 hours on the feet all day is suddenly not the one!!

Also, going to try and stop reading scary threads on MN pregnancy and do positive things instead!

Hope your first week back at work is ok Para Cake

Parastars · 30/03/2017 19:59

Sorry, didn't mean to leave it there! Meant to say, I did when I was pregnant but not normally. May be a sign?! Fingers crossed for you!

Parastars · 30/03/2017 19:57

I did when I was pregnant, Penguin especially after an orgasm Blush
Think it's pretty normal!

Penguin27 · 30/03/2017 19:49

Oh para eat as much chocolate as you need to get through the day! Flowers

Has anyone else ever had weird, intense uterus pain during sex?? Confused

Parastars · 30/03/2017 19:47

And congratulations Grumpy I'm just catching up! Fantastic news!

Parastars · 30/03/2017 19:44

Thanks for updating seven
My healthy eating has been a bit up and down this week...first week back at work after miscarriage so needed chocolate. Argh. It's been ok though and the normality, although hard at times, has been much appreciated.

I'll try harder next week! Smile

MrsC2017 · 30/03/2017 19:16

jupiter them womb twinges are funny! But glad you are still feeling well!
grumpy in a week or two you may not be able to eat much at all so you could be bikini ready unbeknownst to yourself, I've lost 5lb over the last two weeks as I can eat anything! All my jeans are falling off me but then I get random bloating in the evening so have to swap to pyjamas!
Ahhh buzz Jane the virgin is my absolute fave, I know what I'm doing this weekend!!

TheGrumpySquirrel · 30/03/2017 19:00

Thanks Jupiter for looking all that up for me that's very kind! I'll let you know what the GP says next week.

Confused I can't wait for booking in I'm going to ask my GP when I see him on wed what the next steps are in there our area.

Still not really believing it's happening 🙈

HeyJupiter · 30/03/2017 18:16

Grumpy - so the guidelines on prescribing diazepam in pregnancy are limited. There is little evidence (as you might expect) as most pregnant women don’t want to be involved in trials. Basically they aren’t sure - some studies show it can cause foetal abnormalities and others contradict that. You’re only going to be taking it once or twice so imagine would be perfectly fine and these studies relate more to heavy and long term users. It recommends using something like promethazine (anti-histamine) to use as a sedative instead if you want to err on the side of caution. Will be interesting to hear what your doctor says!

Hb that’s great! We can do our announcements together.. only a few weeks to go. Are you feeling a bit better today? Emotional wobble definitely allowed, I’ve been the same. How did the self referral to the midwife go? Sorry if I’ve missed an update, yesterday was madly busy.

Tigger how brilliant about the dancing, bet you had an amazing time. Let us know what the pregnancy yoga is like.

JB oh I did have lots of cuddles thank you! Being an auntie is amazing, and made me just want to spill the beans on our pregnancy but also this was my sister and baby Connie’s moment and didn’t want to detract from that. Well done on the weight loss!

Penguin sorry to hear about your blood test results but also glad you’re feeling reassured - it is so normal at the end of the day and could easily return next month. It has no bearing on your overall fertility at all.

Thats so cute buzz!

Yay Wilde how exciting - will you have your scan at the same time?

Been taking vitamin D here too for last few months :)

Lots of twinges in my womb today - bit painful, sort of pinching feeling? Still no other major symptoms though…

confusedat23 · 30/03/2017 18:07

I have been waiting for the new OBEM i actually love watching it even more now im pregnany it reminds me what i'm doing this all for... the look on the parents face... true love ❤❤❤

Grumpy if you wait until booking in your local hospital can normally recommend a service and its about £400 i believe... me and DH are going to have it if we have a high risk result from the 12 week testing... i really don't want an amnio done!

Sorry about the non-ov Penguin and i guess at least you have closure on the cycle!... its completely normal not to ov even without hormonal contraception playing its part... have you put a plan together for next cycle?

I am also another one on the vitamin D hype!...

TheGrumpySquirrel · 30/03/2017 17:27

LOL MrsC I know right?! I'm actually feeling a lot better this afternoon just very tired! Will need to get some early nights and R&R in.

Buzz I love OBEM but now I'm actually pregnant (omfg!!! ...nope.. still not sunk in!) I'm a bit worried about watching it in case I suddenly go off the idea!

I want to book a harmony test, are there any recommended providers?

Also - I really need to eat a bit more sensibly and at least maintain my weight in the 1st trimester .. got lots of bikini time coming up I hope it's not obvious! I'll be 7 weeks, 8 weeks and 12 weeks for the various bikini 👙 exposures...

Trying to decide whether to tell family at Easter too, as we are having a big get together with DH family in France. I might be able to hide not drinking by sipping and swapping with DH.. my gut feeling is I want to keep it secret I think but I keep changing my mind! Once you tell people IRL it's actually real and I'm not sure I'm ready for that 🙈

buzzmoon · 30/03/2017 17:05

Omg and also Jane the Virgin season 2 is on Netflix!!!!! Best day ever! 🎉🎉

MrsC2017 · 30/03/2017 16:52

Hi girls!
natur that's great your hospital offers the midwife led care, are you in Dublin?
penguin that's annoying but reassuring to know that it's just par for the course coming off the pill, hopefully things settle down quickly for you and you're back to regularity very soon!
grumpy I'm the same, honestly society should encourage teen pregnancy,don't worry im joking but physically it's a doddle! Hope you're feeling OK now!
buzz that's so cute!! Your dp must be super excited, so sweet!!

I've also been on the vitamin D, this country is lacking in sunshine most days of the year! Milk is a good source too but I don't drink it, can't stomach it since forever, no idea why!
seven Easter holidays start earlier over there, we have another week to go, I'm jealous, last day for you tomorrow, I cannot wait for next week to be over, I imagine I'll spend the two weeks in bed!

Penguin27 · 30/03/2017 16:37

That's a positive way of thinking about it Wilde. Great that you've got your booking in all sorted!

Ahh I love one born!!

buzzmoon · 30/03/2017 15:21

New series of obem next Tuesday! 🙋🏽

NaturWilde · 30/03/2017 13:47

Hello all! So excited, got my booking in appointment with the Midwife! I'll be 12+3. Going with the community Midwife scheme, if I can!

Penguin - sorry to hear that, though it gives you loads more time for all the vitamins and care you're putting into yourself to create a strong egg and the perfect environment...SmileI tried to look at each month before we TTC like that.

Buzz am also a POAS addict! I've loads of those ICs so why not?! And did second last Sainsbury's test this morning - such a lovely fat line!

Felt strange this morning, thinking I'd usually be on a heavy period at this stage!

Great to know about the Vit-D. I have it in my Seven Seas pregnancy tablets (normal, as I have other DHA tablets) and also have the 3000DLux spray.

TheGrumpySquirrel · 30/03/2017 12:39

I didn't event notice being pregnant 12-13 years ago but I think it's harder the older you get! Still I'm not that ancient yet at almost 31 but I am noticing it more this time for sure..

Penguin27 · 30/03/2017 12:35

Buzz it's not a stupid question, I actually don't know! Hb I'm not sure, he said "last cycle" but I didn't clarify which one he meant! It's good to know that you can't overdose on Vit D though!

Your DP sounds lovely buzz! That's a nice way to break the news to his family.

Red, pregnancy affects everyone differently. A colleague of mine is v heavily pregnant but she's said that she hasn't experienced any fatigue or anything, really! Lucky woman!

HbH · 30/03/2017 11:56

Thats so cute buzz!

penguin sorry to hear you're still being messed around post pill... did you not ovulate last month or the cycle you're currently on? Get the vitamin D down you! Everyone should take it everyday in the winter minimum as we don't get any at all naturally at this time! (I have a client who's a nutritionist so she always passes on lots of useful advice!) I take a 5000iu tab daily and there's some in pregnacare too... i did ask her last week if you can overdose but she said its water based so the body will ditch any excess.

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