please help me!! just did PG test ...

if you've taken your next pack of pills without having a break this can cause you to have simptoms you wouldn't ordinarily have. bloating, nausia, sore boobs etc. it's because of the increased hormones that you have not had a break from. I know that whenever I took two packs back to back I always felt a bit crappy halfway through.

as you've done first response and it's neg I would leave it now and test if your period doesn't show in 2.5 weeks.

in the instructions it should say a maximum time to leave it. if there is a line there within this maximum time limit then you are pregnant.

Well it looks like it may have been a false alarm, perhaps the feeling sick was just nerves??? I hope so for you. It would partly depend on how long ago the missed pills were too I think. But it is at least not a definite positive. How are you feeling about it now, has the bfn put your mind at rest any?

You are panicking and firing in all directions atm and all we can do on a thread like this is offer support, we cannot make your decision for you.

When I found out I was pg for the first time it was a HUGE shock and I too considered the unthinkable. I needed time and space to calm down. I think if I have known about MN it might have made things worse as I'd have been overloaded with opinions and experiences.

Babies never arrive at precisely the right time and even those trying for a baby find it a huge shock when they see a positive and may even start to have doubts about whether they want it or not.

My advice to you is to switch off the pc, have a talk with your nearest and dearest, see the GP for a proper confirmation and have a good think. This is your decision, no-one can help you make it I'm afraid. You must decide what is best, but whatever you do, make sure you don't make a decision that you will later live to regret. Regrets can be devastating in themselves.

When was the first day of your last period? Surely you must be due in November if you're only just testing now? Not that it helps with the wedding, but you might still be able to go on the honeymoon...

when are you due on?

Pgtips, I think the only way to deal with this is to do a test and know for sure. What if's really wont help. Get a first response, most sensitive and easy to read. x

aww pgtipschimp
I do feel for you. We set our wedding date and I fell pregnant very quickly after. I got married with a 7 month bump. We still haven't had our honeymoon 2 years later.

All I can say is whatever happens, if it's only practical reasons rather than emotional ones stopping you from considering having the baby, then don't panic. Life has a way of throwing a spanner in the works sometimes, but things have a way of working out and it's never as bad as you think it will be.

I'm keeping fingers crossed you get the result you want (had a pg scare myself recently). But whatever happens good luck x

In answer to your question, I have been lead to believe that the first response test is the most sensitive that you can buy in the chemist. And that you need at LEAST four hours between weeing to get the most concentrated, but remember also not too drink too much either or you will dilute it down that way too.

I know what you mean about having two small children and coping. My children are now age 2 and 3 and it is only now that I have started to feel like I could cope with a third child. You are NOT an awful person, it is difficult to know how your react when in a particular situation. I too am absolutely against abortion, but I would never condemn anyone who has been in that horrible position of having to make that choice.

Are you getting enough help at home, while dealing with feeling so down?

As for the holiday, if someone came along and said, that the holiday could be brought forward or put back sufficiently so that you could still go, would that alter how you would feel about this possible baby?

I am asking lots of questions, please feel free to just ignore them if you want to, I just want to help if I can in some way. I will keep coming back to this thread during today, to see how you are.

yes first response is good - i think you would be fine - go out so you dont accidently go to the loo!

{{{ hugs }}} to you, sorry that you are feeling so worried. I hope that it turns out the way you want it too, but it does not sound as if it is going to go that way. Do you want to talk about the reasons why it is such a bad time, or would you prefer not to say? It might help talking things through, to try and find some positive things about being pg, just in case you are, or is there someone there with you that you can talk to about it instead?

Will come back later to see how you are.

Hope that writing it down helps, you did not do a test this morning then? Probrably best that you are waiting til tomorrow, at least it will give a clearer picture. It would be a good idea to get one of the more sensitive tests, so that it can put your mind at rest, if it negative as you want it to be. I feel for you in this difficult situation.

sounds like it to me

i'd be tempted to wee in a glass then pop out to the chemists this mornring

In boots they have the first response tests on buy one get one free. HTH